Singles & Dating - 27 October 2006

2006-10-27 22:51:21 · 28 answers · asked by Deepesh Nair 1

for those of u who know the story please respond i need your help ? i have been through alot trying to support my gf and my little baby girl and its been hard. i think she isnt really happy with me but yet using me till she finds something else. She will miss me changing diapers and buying her weed and breaking my back to pay for things while she sits at home and plays online. I think she needs a real world wake up call. But i really love her , should I be understanding she is only 22 and hope for the best or find someone who wont play games, shouldi getin my van and driveto ontario now and dont look back ????????

2006-10-27 22:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by Candy C 2

Also is it morally wrong? Why are these willing (not trafficked) ladies shunned because they are willing to do anything to feed their families condemned to be thought of as a plague? Dirty. Less worthy?

2006-10-27 22:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by Robert B 1

Theres this girl whom i have the chance of contacting and possibly starting up something again. ive been thinking about it a lot and it would be great to have her by my side again yet at the same time if that was to happen then i know that my school work would be affected as my mind would wander and daydream as it did before. also, my mind would be clouded with such thoughts of her and i that it would be a miracle to get any work done...but yet you know when your mind wants something and you just need to have it? Well its her..

So what should i do?

I was thinking perhaps keep at it with school and still contact and have the best of both worlds, which is easier said than done.. is it possible? You know?

Hmmmm...

HMMMMMMM....

2006-10-27 22:39:26 · 11 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1

what quality(s) do you look for when meeting a prospective partner?

2006-10-27 22:37:54 · 15 answers · asked by kentkat666 2

Say if you were in a club and this 'girl' you pulled looked fantastic, you took 'her' home and got 'her' naked and 'she' turned out to have meat and two veg would you still go with the flow as 'she' still looks female or would you throw 'her' out?

2006-10-27 22:37:27 · 16 answers · asked by pfodd125 2

2006-10-27 22:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by tyrano_bot 1

She's 29, I'm 27. I love her. I haven't loved before and am worried that this Indian saying is true: "The lane of love is narrow - there is room for only one".

We met 3 months ago. She has a boyfriend for 9 years who she is happy with. I see her almost every day.

But she now says things like I have made her feel things she's never felt before.

She's an amazing girl. Very intelligent, very kind, very caring. Loads of fun and exciting.

I want to see her every day, every minute. It breaks my heart that she might not feel the same way.

After sex the other night she told me she loves me, but it was after sex so it doesn't count, and i told her that, even though I wish I could believe it. She also told me last week that if I had to ask her out, she probably wouldn't be able to say no.

She's confused at the moment - she doesn;t see her boyfriend much - he's staying 50 miles away. But she gets on really well with him

I'm worried she's using me for sex only- am I right?

2006-10-27 22:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by needsadviceonlove 1

2006-10-27 22:31:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just been dumped.got on so well , no argumentsd, hes just pickled coz hes trying to sort his life out..........pushed me away and its hurting coz the problem wasnt us.came out of the blue coz id only been at hospital that afternoon and he was texting me, affectionately( as usual).this has hit me for six and he goes ito himself,rather than talk about his problems.an ex of his has recently begun talking to him again too. im really down in the dumps

2006-10-27 22:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2

My fiancee let me borrow his laptop tonight until I can get a new computer in a few weeks since mine messed up. Well, I found that he had a porno downloaded on here but deleted it. I dont care that he had downloaded one but I went to the site he got it from ( the link to it was on the file ) and its a homemade porno video site and he has a membership there and didnt tell me. Its not a big deal but it sorta hurt he kept something little from me like that. But anyone here is my problem. The site is like myhomemadeporn.com or something, and me and him has made videos on my webcam and they are on his laptop. I didnt think he would show anyone but im scared he might of uploaded it on that site. Im going to confront him in a few hours but im so scared and i got sick to my stomach when i found out. Not just because i could be naked on that site but because i feel betrayed to. Im scared if I ask him he will say no there isnt and could be lying. What should i do? Thanks everyone.

2006-10-27 22:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I date this guys and we are almost at the same height if i wear high heels i would be taller . everytime i went out with him i would never wear them. it might sound stupid but do you think is it a big deal to him ? if i wear high heels.

2006-10-27 22:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by vimsy 2

-She basically wants me sleeping with her every night. Not a guess, she SAID it. I'm not there tonoght since I felt like watching Seinfeld and making my Mr. T costume for holloween! Earlier, she said "ya go out with your friends tonight, you can come over anytime, even if it's late, I'll leave the door unlocked". Didn't go out, stayed home doing the above..around 11pm, she called, mad/sad because I wasn't there with her..
-Made me 4 lunches so far, and has driven across the city to leave them at my door (seriously). Now I know that's nice but (scrunches up face) three weeks!??
-She writes "have a good day.." type msgs on the napkins in the lunch and ends them with "love"
-I've stalled her sex wants by saying I want us to get STD tests
am I crazy to question someone being THIS nice to me? Just doesn't seem right. 3 weeks! Are you kidding me?? Do I like her you ask? I don't know, I guess, she makes me lunches lol but, IT'S ONLY BEEN 3 WEEKS! I'm 29, she's 24. opinions pls!

2006-10-27 22:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by brentneilalexander 2

2006-10-27 22:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

I told my bf that we really need to clean up his house. We r living together in a big bungalow.

Since im working 9-6 now, i cannot afford to keep up with the housework on a weekend. Besides.. im only a gf.

His sis and bro no longer cares abt this house their mum left them. And there are disputes over this house.

he offered to do the housework tog at first, and hasnt kept his word since.

I admit i am very frustrated and so i got a part timer housekeeper to come and do the job.

He told me off saying that we will b staying for the next few months and movin out soon (BTW he took 3 weeks and hasnt got a property agent yet)

And he said If i dont wanna listen, fine!

And so i got hurt and i told him .."it was nice of me to offer to clean up this house, and i care cause we r the one staying in the house."

before i can finish and stop at "it was nice of me to stay....."
he told me if its nice of me to stay i can move out. WTF!
so i told him i will.and nxt morning he wanna hug me to slp

2006-10-27 22:22:58 · 6 answers · asked by Joan20 2

2006-10-27 22:08:15 · 26 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

Thesedays, I like someone.
But he is smaller than me.
Neverthelsee, I like him.
My friends are opposing that I'll be more friendly with him.
In Asia, most people think man should be taller than woman.
Is it like that in Western?

^^

p.s.
I want to make many foreigner friends.
My email address is pretty_jennie20@yahoo.com
I'll be thankful if you register my account into your yahoo messenger.

bye~^^

2006-10-27 22:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by Jinhee Y 1

She is sleeping. she realizes what she has done and she is upset. She said she hasnt done anything wrong behind my back yet. I have had a thing not trusting her for two years. This is why. I am blamed for being a paranoid. I do love her but I wanted to spend my life with her and i dont want to get hurt. Here i am at work and she is at home searching online for some guy named Nathan. I dont know why i am banging my head over her. My van is packed but its a long drive to ontario from calgary. I will miss my daughter so much.

2006-10-27 22:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Candy C 2

I find myself thinking about him all day daily for the past 2 months, it does not help that this past week he has given me the BEST SEX I've had in ten years. should I break it off or just keep getting what "I" want?

2006-10-27 21:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by my_own_ish 1

2006-10-27 21:46:43 · 16 answers · asked by the crazy one!!!!!!! 1

ive been talking with this guy for awhile now and we've started to hook up on a couple occasions, and hes really sweet, says all this nice stuff about me and i get along with him great better than any other guy that i know, but the only problem is that hes 11years older than me, and im just wondering is that a good thing or a bad thing? i know about tom and katie but they have a kid and its different with celbs, but this is real life, im just worried about gettin used. should i give it ago or just forget about it???

2006-10-27 21:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by sexyelmo089 1

Lesser attractive women have better personalities. How can one be physically attracted to that?

2006-10-27 21:42:10 · 17 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4

k i been with my girl since we were in hight school. We both lost owr virginities with each other. But whenever i had other women with me ( gool looking women) i cant seem to be able to get an erection. But with her i always do even if am not very exited.. any body has an answer?

2006-10-27 21:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by jack 1

I've been calling, and she doesn't pick up. This has been going on for 4 days. I mean, I dont call day and night, maybe twice in a day, but it was just because I wanted to ask if she wanted to do something tonight.

Shes got a really busy job, working 36 hour shifts, so I thought maybe she's just busy, but she'd pick up by now right?

I left her a message tonight saying that maybe she should just call ME the next time she's free, just so I wouldn't have to keep calling.

Its kind of pathetic I know, but shes the first girl I've liked even a little bit in a LONG time.

I dont want to kid myself, but what should I do?

2006-10-27 21:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by personal_trainer 2

I am a 32 yr old guy. I am using the gf computer. I just found out she asked on here if any one has seen this guy Nathan who she dreams about. She already in the past has said she wanted to look him up , I found that out before.She knew him from like 5 years ago atleast. They barely had a realationship and she is only 22 years old. We have a beautiful little daughter and I thought a great family. Obviously she cant control her desires. I dont know why she doesnt love me enough to just be happy. Any way I have the van packed. We live in calgary but if i leave now i have to drive to Ontario where my family lives. There is no turning back. What should i do or do you think i should be ok with this ?

2006-10-27 21:29:55 · 22 answers · asked by Candy C 2

Is it hot or not for a guy to shave his bush and happy trail??

2006-10-27 21:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by nunesjeff 1

It is 3-years of dating with my boyfriend, We now live together, Comparing to original passion on sex, we all feel plain about love making. Lack of emotion, do that like eat bread,drink water, breath air. Though we are still in 24, especially for me, sometimes I feel scared about that, feel that penis penetrate too deep in my body! if thoght it hurt me! I am sales of sex toys, but still hesitate in using that toys,for what?, I think I am too shy to do it!
What if a women get her orgasm through vibes?
What do you think about me?
I am confused!!!

2006-10-27 21:19:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I, we used to like each other quite a lot. But then just suddenly, he stopped talking to me. He ignored me completely, flirted with other girls, started treating them like goddesses and me like trash, etc. I didn't understand, but I didn't really have the courage to ask him what was wrong, either. I wondered if he really did stop liking me, or if it was all just my imagination. I found out through some of the gossiping of my classmates that he stopped liking me, and likes another girl instead. It really hurt, because I still like him very much.

I've gotten advice (from searching on the internet) to consult my family and friends, but I can't. All my "friends" ditched me, and I don't want to make my parents worry; they think I'm living a perfect life, and they have enough stress as it is.

What should I do? Should I try to "win him back", or just let everything be?

2006-10-27 21:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by Renshi 2

im wondering how can i impress a girl,, do i have 2 be cool 2 impress her,, or just be myself a simple and humble 14 yr old boy

2006-10-27 21:15:36 · 14 answers · asked by Ralph Laurence P 1

1- A nice dinner in a classy resturant & a movie.
2- A sex delight ,full of ....
3- A spin drive in a Ferrari, Porsh, Lamburgini,..
JUST CHOSE ONE !!!

2006-10-27 21:13:41 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous