I've been calling, and she doesn't pick up. This has been going on for 4 days. I mean, I dont call day and night, maybe twice in a day, but it was just because I wanted to ask if she wanted to do something tonight.
Shes got a really busy job, working 36 hour shifts, so I thought maybe she's just busy, but she'd pick up by now right?
I left her a message tonight saying that maybe she should just call ME the next time she's free, just so I wouldn't have to keep calling.
Its kind of pathetic I know, but shes the first girl I've liked even a little bit in a LONG time.
I dont want to kid myself, but what should I do?
2006-10-27 21:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by personal_trainer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a pest!
What happened to me!
I used to be good at this!
2006-10-27 21:42:00 · update #1
OMG! I would think that you are a pest - and if you wanted to get her attention - you should have called her maybe 2 times total- you went way overboard- and you can't undo that- OOPS!! Wait and see-D
2006-10-27 21:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient, fall back and focus on doing something for yourself. this will solve the issue of sitting and waiting for the call because you will be occupying time spent thinking about her doing something that you enjoy for you. second thing is be understanding if you know her work schedule then you are aware that at some point she has to sleep...eat...think ,whatever. check on her ever so often just to put feelers out, but keep your mind set that maybe she will only be a friend at this time. GOOD LUCK and be Prosperous today.
2006-10-28 04:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by my_own_ish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit tight and if she doesn't call back, she's not intrested. U got to accept that and don't sob, just move on with ur life.Find a girl that like u 4 u and doesnt do this whole not picking up thing.
2006-10-28 04:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by dramahotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept this. She is not interested in you romantically period from the story you just told me. You will definitely find someone that will give you equal attention. Be a man and don't take this crap.
2006-10-28 04:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Blue_Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sending flowers let her know you care
let her know whats on your mind
if she doesnt respond maybe she not feeling you
from the sounds of it your ah good person an deserve sumbody that can make time for you at least call
2006-10-28 04:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i'd suprise her. Like while she's out at work put a large teddy bear with chocolate on her door step, do something that will let her know u really like her.
2006-10-28 04:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time........maybe her boss is skrewing her and wouldn`t allow her to speak 2 u. Try visiting her at home when she is free.
2006-10-28 04:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dickson L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your opinion frankly
2006-10-28 04:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by babu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call anymore.
2006-10-28 04:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by too_damned_kute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep trying if you love her
2006-10-28 05:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by supernolwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋