k i been with my girl since we were in hight school. We both lost owr virginities with each other. But whenever i had other women with me ( gool looking women) i cant seem to be able to get an erection. But with her i always do even if am not very exited.. any body has an answer?
2006-10-27 21:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's your conscience that is working things for you. why do you need to look for other good looking women when you already has a nice gf? you've been very unfaithful and i hope your gf will find out your dark secrets and then you never get to enjoy a real make-out session anymore. i felt that you shd tell your gf about your "doings" and never do things to betray her again. you're hurting her so much and she still loves you, how can you bear to do such a thing? be honest!
2006-10-27 21:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off my sympathies that really is a terrible situation. Moving on from that I can't see any reason why you shouldn't have friends I understand that you have extremely low confidence because of the condition but still I have friends who I never even wanted to have sex with soooo... Here's the thing with sex you can still get a girlfriend find someone who is nice kind caring and open. Okay you might not be Don Juan in the bedroom but so what? I ain't either. give yourself a chance it should be perfectly possible for someone to love you without you having sex with them. Get some books on positive thinking and confidence building, you can't change the past but you can affect the future. Give yourself a break sounds like you deserve it.
2016-05-22 02:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are complaining? I bet your gf isn't. She is probably very happy to know you only get erect for her. Besides, I wouldn't worry about it, just keep the relationship really alive and active and you will never want another girl anyway.
though to try to answer yoru question, I would say it is proimarily a minor mental block that would disappear should you and your gf ever seperate.
2006-10-29 04:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is called your conscience. Just leave it alone and when you feel like you want to do something, stick with your girl. Be faithful, it will be a reward in the end for you.
2006-10-27 21:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ò?à®?á?¦JulieBirdá?¦à®?ϯÒ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because u love ur girlfriend big time, and get guilty conscious when with other women. Stick to her fella and stop seeing other women.
2006-10-27 21:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dickson L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought maybe that there isn't anything there with the other women because your girlfriend is the one for you?!?
2006-10-27 21:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by coslindasaid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u may be too much into thinkng about certain matters. so mentaly harmony with her connects u better with her, helps u get comfortable and relaxed. with others u might be getting little uncomfortable and anxieted.
2006-10-27 21:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by manishsingh_india 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..The same thing happens to my guy stay with yr girl yr probally meant for her even tho im sure i can get you to pick ** up!!!Lol$$
peace take care!!
2006-10-27 21:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a psychological thing. It could be fear, extreme nervousness, guilt, etc.
2006-10-27 21:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you realll want to get erection even you have girl?
2006-10-27 21:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋