Other - Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

i have a terrible situation. about a month ago i broke up with my girlfriend of two years. we had a great relationship but for convenience reasons we decided to give it a rest. both college students different colleges. Well i got a new girlfriend i still talk to my ex because i thought she was a good person. while we were going out she had a friend that was a guy who is only 15 she's 18 im 18 well tonight she called me to tell me she had a problem. she said that they were hanging out and he put his hand in her shirt ( under bra). I told her why didn't you tell him to stop. and she said that she was afraid and didn't know what to do. I told her to stand up for herself and respect her body. Then she said maybe she liked it all along...... that was kinda a blow and then she hanged up......... it made me angry. and now i cant study for a midterm. please give me closure.....

2007-10-02 22:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by Omar A 1

What size of breasts do u like 4 ur girl friend???

2007-10-02 21:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 56. She didnt like to get married to her husband, but was forced by her parents. She's been married for over 33 years. She has a son and a daughter with 11 months difference (age). She had an abortion thereafter.

Her husband was a cop. He had ill treated her through out her life, till now. He had abused her mentally, physically and sexually. Her relatives very well know this, but couldnt do much about it. So, she has been telling each and everything to her children.

They both hate their dad and are very much attached to their mom. I would say, its not just a mom and child attachment. They have been grown by their mom this way and now they do whatever their mother wishes; think whatever their mom says is Right; whomever she hates they also hate, whomever she says bad they are bad.

Her children are married a year ago. She didnt like her in-laws, cos they were not acting according to her wishes. Now, she has very cunningly convinced her children to hate their spouses also

2007-10-02 21:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by A 2

I have been seeing him for 8 mos.and he has helped me through some pretty tough times and knows me better than I do.I am starting to feel he is developing some feelings for me too.I see him once a week and can't wait to see him.Any advice what I should do or should I just let it go till the subject comes up.He hasn't made any advances to me but he has said some things that have put up a flag.He has helped me so much I would hate to have to change therapist at this stage.But I would welcome a relationship with him too.I am unattached now and I am 59yrs old.He is in the process of a divorce.I would love to have another kick at the can so to speak as I was in a loveless relationship for 28 yrs. Any thoughts on this?

2007-10-02 20:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

did those guys offer anything beyond instant gratification?

did you have any long term relationships with any "bad boys"?

2007-10-02 20:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 19:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by vhcsmamma 2

How do u discribe a girls virginity in your ideas? I mean do u value it, do you just respect girls who is a virgin, do you marry only a virgin.

And how do u react if u get to know that your girl cannot proof her virginity eventhough u know she is pure and good.

Really want to know whether u guys look for ladies past more than the future.

Just need information for a research with regard to men's mentality on judging women.

2007-10-02 18:45:22 · 16 answers · asked by tin tin 2

I'm 24 now and I regreat this happend. I was young stupid and thought I was in love and he used that against me.

2007-10-02 18:34:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello everyone that reads this , thank you for ur time. last year i had an abortion just so tht i could keep my partner and i regret it so badly. my partner didn't want our son, because his family got it into his head that he would have to stop going to college and not be able to do anything he wanted to do with his life. but he didnt want it so i done the silly thing in ending the pregnancy, people can call me what they want , i am used to it , we all have different views about it , but i do feel bad enough. today my partner finished with me because he says it isnt working out between us and he says he doesn't feel loved by me anymore, its only because i have been put onto antidepressants and they r making me feel really down about things at the minute. so i just want to be left on my own and see no one. he finished with me because i didnt want to see him for 4 days in a row this week just gone and he is saying tht i am not showing him love. have i done anything wrong. x

2007-10-02 17:44:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a serious problem, I don't have many friends and I am afraid to make some because I know that there will come a time when I will have to say goodbye, whether he/she moves or we go to different schools, ect. and Its just too hard to say goodbye

2007-10-02 15:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A very special friend of mine is in the Air Force. We've had a "complicated" relationship, and I want to do something to show that I still love him and care about him.

Right now what I have is an AF bear in dress blues, a pair of camo boxers, and a mega chocolate bar personalized with his picture and a short message. I'm not exactly sure what to say either. Something like, "Happy Birthday. Hope today is as special to you as you are to me. Love always, (my name)(*kotc*)." Any comments or other suggestions about my gift and/or message?

2007-10-02 15:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 14:38:24 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

preferably a candy bouqet but anything sweet you can think of, or websites you could give me, im from the uk

2007-10-02 14:10:47 · 1 answers · asked by joannejones16 2

I would like to know what is the correct order, I may have to change my son's birth certificate. He is named after his father so I placed II as the suffix after his name, should it be JR?

2007-10-02 13:34:55 · 2 answers · asked by Change 3

Who does Ms Spears thing she is?? She really has no major talent at all. She deserved to have her kids took. And i feel that what i heard on a talk show on the radio is so she. Unless her friends or family step in she is going off the deep end quick.
I figure she will be puliing a Sucide caper before to long.

2007-10-02 13:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by reddcobalt07 3

My father-in-law loves shopping at Wal-Mart and Goodwill.
If he buys stuff there all for himself, it's totally OK, but he buys stuff for us too even though we NEVER ask him to.

He once bought used baby toys at Goodwill, which we never knew whose mouth these toys had been in before.
He tried to give those toys to my brother-in-law, but his wife said they did not want them.
My father-in-law was very upset about it and gave them to us instead. How could I say "no" in that situation??
Well, he is a very nice guy, and I like him a lot.
But sometimes I'm tired of him being so pushy.

The other day, he and his wife (my mother-in-law) came over to our house.
They brought a sewing machine which my husband's grandma bought when she was young.
He said "I made it fixed, so it should work all right"
Again, I've never asked for the sewing machine...

Is there any way to say "no" without hurting his feeling?

2007-10-02 13:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by AuntieZoey 4

I have 3 girls right now, and am thinking of having 1 or 2 more kids. I really really want a boy, well actually two boys. But obviously I can't exactly pick what I want and get it. I just want to know what I should expect and what I could be getting into. If anyone knows any boys that grew up with only sisters like 3 or more, I would love to hear about it. Like did he hate it and always wish for a brother? Or was he really spoiled and loved being the only boy? Or any other thoughts or opinions anyone has to help me make my decision. Thanks!

2007-10-02 13:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by mommyem 4

i am 44 m . i work for a moving company. i am very stroni and i work very hard. i drive the truck tralior. the young men 20 or less not all but some treat me like i am stupid and weak. the say i dont do as much work as them . however i do as much or more then they do . they talk about me behind my back . i hear them, i am a very advanced self defence instucketor. so i dont really fear any of them . today i called one off and told him if i heard him talking about me behind my back i woulld punch his head in . later i phoned boss and quit . boss came said dont quit. what should i do . oh right now i am drunk

2007-10-02 12:54:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If u like someone so much, should they be forgiven for lieing about their past?.. even though they have admitted it after spliting up.
He told me tonight he only never told me because it was degrading and plus he never wanted to hurt me or loose me?.. but lieing to me did hurt me and he did loose me, because if i cant trust someone i cant be with them. what do u guys think? wat could be the story behind his pass that it is so bad to tell me about :|?

we are both in our 20's

2007-10-02 12:24:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 42 yr old divorced man with 3 girls, 18, 14 and 13. I have been in a relationship for a few months with a girl who is 26 yrs old and has no children. Things are going great and we both love each other and she thinks the world of the girls as they do her. Today she said to me " If one of your kids hit me and I hit them back what would your reaction be"? I stated that while we were in a relationship and she had contact with the girls that I did'nt have a problem with her disciplining them if there was a need to. I also said that I don't think I would be to happy and that I would'nt even hit my own kids. She then said that she would hit them and that I insinuated to her " you don't lay a finger on my kids". How would you react to this and would you allow it?

2007-10-02 12:21:04 · 20 answers · asked by Marksd2 1

I have been with my fiance for 5 years, he is a gentle romantic person who i have never had a trust issue with. A friend from school came to town and they went to the clubs, his "friend" spiked his drink and my fiance was already very drunk. This friend was also to be the best man in our wedding! The friend drove my fiance to another girls house and they came close to having sex. My fiance hates himself and i dont think he will ever forgive himself... he wants to go to counselling and everything. I know the type of person he really is but i am hurting... is it ok to give him a second chance.
Ps Other mutual friends said that on the night he was heavily influenced by the so called friend and they believe he didnt know what he was doing. His family is scared he will do something to himself because he is so disgusted in himself

2007-10-02 12:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Emmie L 1

I have cancer. My oncologist has told me it is terminal. In the short term it is treatable, but I am expected to be worm food within 2-3 years with intensive chemo, 6 months without.

I want to discuss this with my family, but they refuse. "It's too early to talk about that sort of thing" - "You'll get better, they are coming up with new treatments all the time" etc.

I know it is hard on them, but I really want to be able to explain why I would rather spend the next 6 months living than the next 2 years dying. I would like to discuss my funeral arrangements.

Most important of all, I would like to discuss how they will care for my daughter after I am gone.

I don't even know if the reason they won't talk is because it is hard for them, or if they are trying to "protect" me.

How the hell do I get them to talk to me instead of effectively telling me to shut my gob. They won't even use the word 'cancer' for **** sake, its always 'the spleen' or 'the illness'.

2007-10-02 12:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going to the gym for 3 months now....almost every time I go there (4 times a week) he looks me in the eyes for like 3-5 sec at a time, multiple times while im working out. I not wearing anything revealing and im not looking back at him ( i can tell from the corner of my eyes). I know I look alot older than i am but im very confused?
I dont have a brother (im not close to my dad) so i need your male advice?

2007-10-02 11:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

my boyfriend wants me to move out of state with him and his friend, searching for a better job. he said he will go with or without me but he really wants to find a great paying job. I told him no, i'm not going, i have plans and goals of my own i want to accomplish and I told him he is being selfish, he got mad, i was mad...it wasn't a good conversation...he also wants a change of scenery and so do i, but i want to move when i am ready, not when he is...he left here last night and we were both pretty pissed off, i havent talked to him since...I really love him alot, and i know he loves me but I really think he is being selfish about all of this, he should have considered me too...we have even talked about getting married, but i told him if he moves it will be the end of our relationship. what do i do? i have severe anxiety issue and i don't think now is the time to talk about leaveing everything behind. what should i do when i talk to him? what do i say? any advice?

2007-10-02 10:07:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend of 13 years never IMs me anymore. whenever i im her she always IMs back but she doesnt say much. i ask if shes mad at me she says no. shes been really busy lately. she DOES have 2 jobs school and a boyfriend, but she did before and always IM'd me then... im not a stalkerbut i know she talks to her other friends through facebook anfd myspace and she never writes to me unless i write first. i tell her i still want to be friend she says "of course" i dont know what i did wrong. weve been friendsfor 13 years i dont want to lose the friendship if u can call it that. what do i do?

2007-10-02 09:00:34 · 13 answers · asked by boo 1

do you think high school usually have by the time they graduate???

2007-10-02 08:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3

I have found out that im six weeks pregnant and am not sure what to do. My boyfriend who i have been with for four years doesnt like the idea of starting a family as we havent got a house. We have booked to go travelling in April and was meant to be going for a year.

He says he doesn't think he's ready and he thinks having a baby should be planned. He doesnt want to miss out on doing things in his life.

A big part of me wants to keep the baby and use the tickets for travelling to go on a 3 week holiday before i have the baby. I havent been able to talk to my parents about this, im 21 years old and he's 24. We both have fairly good jobs.

I dont know what to do.........as i dont want to be the one to ruin his life

2007-10-02 08:19:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

have been in a long distance relationship for a year now during this time we got serious and are deeply in love, we were making wedding plans which got put off because of family who didn't agree they try turn us again't each other, during this time i try to hold it together so did he anyway it got so out of hand ''he said/ she said'' thats all we would hear ever day his ex's stared calling me txtinmg me saying all sort of things to make us break up, i then went to see him a fews months later spent all time together when i came back i found out i was pregnant for him. now its hard because he's not here so i have to do it only we talk everday, he know i cant see him until i have the baby i still have a fews months to go but hes not being the same communicatiom got less because i cant get hold of him somtime i suspect he is cheating he kept saying no he's not. oneday we were talking and said hes got a confession he indirectly admitted to cheating but wont say it straight. i luv him help

2007-10-02 07:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years and everything was going great up until a couple of weeks ago. We are currently living with his parents due to job relocation and it's just a mess! The other day I decided to go look at picture albums and when I opened my fiance's baby album I found an email that he had written to his ex-fiance. I couldn't believe that after so long his parents would still keep that around. To make matters worse, his mother had printed my emails that I had sent to her and put them in the same place the other email was. I couldn't help but cry reading the email and was surprised that his parents would even keep something like that around. I also found a bunch of pictures of them together and it just tore me to pieces because there's only one picture in the whole house of us together, but then there's millions of pictures of him and his exs'. I am so mad right now because I know this is going to continue to kill me inside. Should I leave? What should I do??

2007-10-02 07:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 32 y/o, married, professional and have 1 daughter. I don't have a degree but I've been in the customer care field for almost 15 years, working my way up thru the ranks. My wife graduates this year with a Bachelor's degree in Business Mgt. and a minor in Marketing. Where-as I am still searching for what I want to be when I grow up. I hate my job, and I pretty sure that the field I'm in is not for me anymore. Like I said I don't have a degree, but I don't even know what I want to go back to school to be. I am so depressed that I can't even crack a smile or eat lunch today, and on top of that its my 3 year wedding anniversary. We live in Nashville TN and I don't even know if this is the city for me. I need honest no BS answers here...

2007-10-02 07:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous