Other - Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

The words that we want to tell our dads often come either too late, or not at all. If you were given the chance to voice those unspoken words that are often playing in the back of our minds, and then shape our life. . What would you say to him?

2007-10-04 23:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by mousedude 1

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!
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13 minutes ago
Sex is one the the things that keeps a marriage alive! anf he said that I was the childish one cause I dont understand that he's tired and we should have sex early, but we live with my parents, so we cant have sex early! and the baby doesnt sleeps until 12:00 pm, so we cant do it anyway, I dont know whats wrong with him, I feel like he doesnt love me or see me atractive! I know hes not cheatig on me but a man cant live without sex either! Help me please!

3 minutes ago
I dont like to be the one who always starts the sex! when we have sex he goes straight to you know where, Im sick of it, I wish he was the one who kisses me all over, but no Im the one who does all that, I have talk to him about it many times, all he did tonight was left the room and sleep in the couch didnt say good night to our baby either like everyother night! is wierd cause Im his 3 girls that he has sex with,
I am a very sexy woman Im not fat, I dont know what Im doind wrong!

2007-10-04 21:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ursula M 2

My male friend has been in a long distance relationship for a two yrs now as his gf is in uni he sees a couple times a week. Shes in uni for two more yrs but he has told me he has had two previous relationships both for 1 yr and the one he was engaged too. Hes engaged to his latest girl. He seems very lonely and am wondering is it good for him. He is constantly tired and is not sleeping well and i know it could be to do with work but alot of people say they arent a great match and on holiday pictures theyre not even looking the same way as one another

2007-10-04 21:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by mikamika 1

So I met the girl of my dreams in class. Caught her looking at me and smiling at me, and I thought "holy ****, seriously" so over the next two weeks or so,I am shy, i get the nerve to talk to her. Nervous, I sound retarded, but I manage to make her smile. Four days later, nervous again, I talk to her and get her number. She gives me her number, and I called the next day.No answer. Called again a few days later, nothing. Now when I see her, she ignores me! it hurts so much, I want to die. I can't stop tjhinking of her. Why would she do that to me? Especially since she knows I am shy and nervous and stuff? this sucks. And I have been through the whole breakup thing a couple times, but this hurts more than anything i ever been through my whole life. I don't know what to do, I have to go to class 3 days a week with her, but i have been ditching classes to avoid seeing her ignore me. Why is she doing this to me? I wanna die so bad, but all I can do is type this..What can i do? Help me.

2007-10-04 20:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got out of a 1 half year of a bad relationship. Don’t get me wrong there were good times too but all I can remember is the bad times. Now it has been 6 months and I’m over with the hard part of thinking about him every min of my time, and also not have his face pop in my mind when I wake up. Now I guess I’m just seeing what else is out there for me. But every time a gay try to get close to me I step back. And never call them again. Why is that? Does this mean I’m not ready for something new? Can anyone help me!!?

2007-10-04 19:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by JENN 1

2007-10-04 19:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by pari tyagi 1

but if i told you that i am in my late 20's and my 3 children have 3 different dads, including the man i am married to. i have been married once only. what would say or think.
courious

2007-10-04 19:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please don't answer with follow your heart or anything similar. It will not help me. I've heard that junk my entire life and it's never helped.

My problem is I have no ambition whatsoever. No goals, hopes, or dreams and it's been fine for me up until I graduated High School.

My parents plan on kicking me out unless I get a job which wouldn't be a problem if I cared. I can see why it would be a problem, but it's no motivation for me at all. Nothing that happens to me seems threatening enough for me to care. I feel like I'll have to hit rock bottom on the streets before I care about anything which is something I don't want it to resort to. If they told me to leave tomorrow it wouldn't be problem and I really wouldn't harbor any ill-will. They just have to say the words, but they never do.

I'm very much content with whatever happens to me which is something I see as a problem. I need to 'want' something.

2007-10-04 18:43:29 · 13 answers · asked by John 2

ok my girl keeps talkin to this one and she´s hung out with him a couple times
but i´ve been reading the comments he leaves her on myspace and he be asking her what she´s doin tonite and all kinds of other stuff about her i told both of them once i don´t want them talkin but now i think there tryin to be slick and talk behind my back i have no idea what to do i really need some good help i mean should i kick his *** and leave her should i just say **** it and go should i act like nothings going on and act like i´m happy what do i do?

2007-10-04 18:41:29 · 3 answers · asked by LoVe 2

theres this girl in my school, my age who i dont even like, who wont shutup bout sex.
she says she watches porn and stuff.and even more then ii know!and she wants me 2 tell my friend what sex is!(ps she is from a differnent country so she doesnt know wat sex is)
what should i do?

2007-10-04 17:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by Caheera_is_hot 1

.... my exam is just 2 weeks away which decides my future.... i'm in a relationship of 5 years... my boyfriend and i are going through a real tough time with lot of family and personal problems....my university exam is coming and i havent started studying yet,, whenever i sit down to study, i just cant put my mind and concentrate.... i'm undergoing a lot of pressure and i really want to study but i cant make up my mind.... i've talked about this to my boyfriend but he's also going through similar problems..... tell me how can i concentrate .... pls i'm really desperate...

2007-10-04 17:44:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it a good idea in order for a couple to see or find out if they can really live with each other and get an idea of how married life would be?
Or is this a bad idea?
Just wondering what your thoughts are.

2007-10-04 17:14:29 · 6 answers · asked by . 3

Including someone as close as your mom or sister? You find out stuff you never knew AFTER they die.

2007-10-04 15:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a trip planned to california next week that I have had planned for quite some time, the thing is I have used up all my vacation and sick time and was trying to come up with a good reason to give to work. I have to miss 3 days in a row but don't want to get fired over it, i'm in good standing with the company but I know that if I asked for the time off I would be denied. also I don't want to have to call in each day and pretend i'm sick unless that is the only option. anyone have a good scenario that I could use for this situation?

2007-10-04 15:25:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my parents are going some where and I need to know how old I have to be to stay home alone overnight. I live in Georgia, USA if that makes any difference

2007-10-04 15:19:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 15:14:19 · 19 answers · asked by . 3

i dated this guy for a long time. it was the worst thing in the world, he messed with my head and he has no respectfor women i left him, but then my mind just was not in the right mind frame and i tol him was pregnant but i wasn't ( i thought i was) sooner or later i left him again, i have never done that before ever with any of my othe boy friends! i wish i could just expalin how bad him and his family messed with my head, i know that not an excuse.. but they went spreaad rumors about e ( things that were not true at all!!!) all my friends just tell me its not that big fa deal, I HAD NO INTENTIONS of ever getting pregnant i just needed sometime to figure out some things with him there, he has done a million dirty things to me, not to mention hes 20 dating a15 year old.. its haunting me an i cry everyday about doing thing.. it was stupid and immature but i still can't forgive myself, do ya'll have any advice.. ? thnk you!

2007-10-04 14:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by Emmie S 1

if you were in a really bad situation and needed to get to another state,but had nowhere to go when you got there,except to find a shelter(after this,however,your life would turn around and you would get the help you needed and it would be a much better situation than the one your currently in
the hardest part would be the traveling to another state and initially staying in a shelter,also traveling with a 10 month old
what should i do?i need to get outof state

2007-10-04 13:26:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy i've known for some time keeps touching the inside of my thighs and sliding his hand up my skirt when he forcefully sits beside on the bus.. he'll press himself against me and CONSTANTLY touches the inside of my thighs really close to my crotch! He has slid his hand up my skirt once or twice and this has been going on for like.. 2 years already! i didn't know it was sexual harassment until my friend pointed it out to me.. so yeah.. i have talked to the school counselors and the vice principle and my harasser is not to talk to me, come near me, sit with me or touch me again, they said if he does, the police will be involved. uhh.. i am scarred emotionally and mentally because of that bastard! oo and i'm ONLY 15! he is the same age as well but still, i don't like him touching me in ANY way! and at night i cry myself to sleep and i have had a dream about him raping me. my friend suggested i get a REAL counselor for this so i can talk to them personally and its not a bad idea..

2007-10-04 13:11:47 · 9 answers · asked by Dani 2

I read a question about a girl who asked if it was ok to have sex at 12, I just can't believe it, where are their parents? How can they allow that?? God.. childhood keeps getting cut shorter.. what's next? Next time we'll be having 9 y/o boys and girls asking if it's "ok" to have sex!!

2007-10-04 12:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 12:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by fashion girl10 1

People just dont understand what its like to be me. I have this very happy exterior and people think of me as the sweet, sometime shy/quiet, nice girl in the class, whose just nice and happy to everyone. And dont get me wrong, sometimes i feel sort of happy but lately i just feel like my life is just not anything. I mean ive got 2 really good friends that i get to see out of school, and then some talking-to-in-class friends, that i dont hang out with out of school. So as far as my social life, its not exactly the best, but im somewhat fine with the people i talk to, even if thats all it is. But my school has gotten rid of the entrie honors program, so its just AP and regualrs. I used to think i was pretty up there with my grades and i was in all honors, but i cant handle the AP classes, so im only in 1, the rest are regulars. Now im terrified of how low ill be compared to some kids who are taking seriously about 5 APs, and i have always thought i wuold get into this realy good school..

2007-10-04 11:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc182/happygirly1991/?action=view¤t=l_7e8d068bd88b032032243b833ee92ec0.jpg
he asked me out i like him but he looks like a kid believe it or not his 17 and im 16 his really nice do you think he looks like a kid

2007-10-04 11:14:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

erm what do they mean :O

2007-10-04 11:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by waterskill22 1

My mom grounds me because of my bad grades and then she gets mad because I quit the cheerleading squad and she's trying to make me rejoin the squad! I don't understand her at all. I mean I quit the squad because it kept me from spending time with my bf and our cheerleading coach is an idiot who takes the squad too seriously. So today I got mad and quit because she yelled at me because she saw me kissing my boyfriend when I was supposed to be practicing but she isn't my mom so it isn't any of her business! but why would my mom want me back on the squad if she wants my grades up?

2007-10-04 10:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and ma boyfriend have been together for about 3 1/2 years and i love him hes been ma first in everything im a virgin and i want him to be ma first but everytime all ma friends said they were ready they regret it and i want this to be the best thing to happen to me but i dont want to regret it i know im ready just want to be abousutly certain

2007-10-04 10:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by ricanchick1020 1

I live with my babyfather grandmother and i have 1 child who is five months. I pay her 180.00 a month and buy my own food. Me and my babyfather was going to get an apartment together but that didnt work out because we had spilt thats when my daughter was 3 months. I dont understand the bull **** because everybody know what going on with me and i dont even know half the people that she be telling my business too.Shes a very sneakie person, when i get on the phone she listen to everything thst im saying but never get the story right.

2007-10-04 10:04:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf and i are on this tiresome ldr and i would relaly wanna make it work. one of the thing that i came accross the internet was that both of us have to have some relationship goals. please let me know what do you think should be my goals. thanks in advance,

2007-10-04 09:37:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

probably cause he has my genes lol....I'm very sweet!

2007-10-04 09:34:13 · 4 answers · asked by foxxybabe0430 4

and will we ever be as important to them?

2007-10-04 09:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by Petitecherry 3