i dated this guy for a long time. it was the worst thing in the world, he messed with my head and he has no respectfor women i left him, but then my mind just was not in the right mind frame and i tol him was pregnant but i wasn't ( i thought i was) sooner or later i left him again, i have never done that before ever with any of my othe boy friends! i wish i could just expalin how bad him and his family messed with my head, i know that not an excuse.. but they went spreaad rumors about e ( things that were not true at all!!!) all my friends just tell me its not that big fa deal, I HAD NO INTENTIONS of ever getting pregnant i just needed sometime to figure out some things with him there, he has done a million dirty things to me, not to mention hes 20 dating a15 year old.. its haunting me an i cry everyday about doing thing.. it was stupid and immature but i still can't forgive myself, do ya'll have any advice.. ? thnk you!
2007-10-04 14:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're 15 and he's 20, he had no business touching you in the first place, he could go to jail for that. He screwed with you, so what if you screwed with him in return!! Men like that are dogs, and one day you will understand that.
2007-10-04 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a way to forgive yourself but also learn from it. Thats where lying takes you. (it hurts you as much or more than the other person by eroding your self-esteem and leaving you with feelings of guilt)
Why can't you just tell him (or the next time you date a jerk) that you just don't like... (fill in the blank). If you need time to think things over. Say exactly that.
The truth shall set you free.
2007-10-04 14:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone is hurting us the best thing u can do is to cut all contact with that person. there really isn't anything to figure out here, but not to get involved with him or anyone like him again, your really lucky, that u know what he is and u have a choice to move on before he can hurt u again. it really isn't a big deal just live and learn, and don't get back into that again. we have all done things we weren't proud of, and we wish we hadn't when we were immature.
2007-10-04 14:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you feel bad about? That you said you were pregnant and you weren´t? That´s immature and stupid, please let me quote you there.
But apparently he wasn´t bothered and you didn´t change him by trying to force him to stand up for you and your dead relationship. So just let go, there´s no point.
Be happy that it´s over! Your friends seem to be at your side. Nothing else matters! If he´s having something with a 15year-old, he got the trouble and her, and probably her parents sooner or later.
Get over it and look for a new date when you feel ready for it. Life goes on and this story is history.
Take care!
2007-10-04 14:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sugest you try your best to forget him. don't even worry about what whent on between the two of you at all. look 4 sum1 else, you could start by going to a place you have an intrest in for example if you like reading then go to the library and if u c a cute guy go up to him and ask if he could reccomend you a book etc. good luck but honestly hun, just forget him !!!
2007-10-04 14:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he got what he gave. Go to sleep, wake up, smile, take a big deep breath and start a new day without this guy.
You have to be good to yourself before you can be good to anyone else. Focus on you being you.
Good Luck!
2007-10-04 14:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Fadder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yourself-he is the loser and you are better off without him. He is not rally grown up much if he is dating a 15 year old.
2007-10-04 14:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have learned from your MISTAKE. Now forgive YOURSELF and move forward. Don't do it again.....remember this feeling. It is meant to teach you an important lesson. None of is as hard on you as YOU will ever be.
2007-10-04 14:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was the one that hurt you! youll be fine if you get a new boyfriend and try to forget about him. You could also do something to exprerss your feelings like painting or writing.
2007-10-04 14:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. i did not sense undesirable, purely shows that he's generic, like the rest human beings. purely coz hes chief of foremost usa does not mean he cnt make blunders. i presumed they'd rehearse the strains to the oath formerly going and doing it for actual however, lol. purely is going to tutor how plenty i understand
2016-10-21 02:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋