Other - Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

When I was very, VERY young (14) and very, very stupid, I allowed my then boyfriend (who was also 14 at the time) to take some topless photos of me.

I am 22 now, and no longer have contact with this person, and haven't since we graduated from high school.

This has been bothering me recently. I know how to get ahold of him, but I don't exactly want to. I am well on my way to sucess in my current career, one which may well put me into the public's eye, and I would prefer to not have something like what happened to Vanessa Hudgeons happen to me.

Is this something I should bring up to him, and find out if he still has them and if he would be willing to get rid of them? He's quite the computer whiz and I seriously doubt he would still have the computer he had then. Not to mention, I was 14 then. Definitely creepy for him to be looking at them now.

Would asking him about it make it worse? Should I just forget about it and hope it never becomes an issue?

2007-09-28 21:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi! I like this teacher who is 20 years elder to me. But I always fanatzise about him. However I'm hesitant to tell because 1. He is my teacher, 2. He is too elder than me, what shall I do, shall I ask him for a date??

2007-09-28 21:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa H 1

I was wondering: what is the motivation of people who stalk you on the internet and abuse you?

Over at Yahoo! Japan Answers, there is at least one man( could be more than one) who keeps answering all my questions, and posts abusive comments. I keep blacklisting him to block his answers, but then he changes his ID (and he chooses ID names which make fun of me, for example, he might copy my ID name, or make his ID name something like "thiswomaniscrazy/stupid".

The kinds of things he would say include:

"Sex, sex, sex...is that all you think about, slut? Why don't you become a prostitute if you like sex so much!"

(And this is only in response to some questions regarding my ex-boyfriend...Yes, I did sleep with him once after breaking up...but given that my ex is the only sexual partner I've ever had, I don't think this makes me a slut and his comment is unwarranted...)

Also, he says:

"I feel sorry for your parents for having made a child like you"

Unfortunately, this stalking and

2007-09-28 21:17:09 · 6 answers · asked by risono2166 1

QUESTION: Is there something wrong with me?

Before I give the gory details I'd like to establish some premises:

i) I'm not gay, because I feel no attraction to males or have any desire to have sex with guys.
ii)I'm a male. (I suppose if i) holds then ii) is a corollary.
iii) I don't have a big Peter myself. It's actually average if not smaller than average. (approx. 4.5 inches when erect.) Not big I know.

Here's the thing. I think about c0cks all the time and much like the character in the movie Superbad I used to (and still do when the mood strikes) draw pictures of *****. Also I usually google pictures of Peter North and other male porn stars all the time just to admire their monster Tools.

2007-09-28 20:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been anti-abortion from my religious beliefs.. but I need advice

I am 19. 20 in December.
If I keep it my partner will do a runner and I'll be alone. I dont have a cent to my name nor a job or my own place at the moment. I'm not in the right place at the moment and I dont know how I'll manage it alone...
I am exploring all options now Im looking at Abortion though im still undecided.
I see that the abortion pill is not legal in australia? I could maybe do this... but the vacuum thing? Seems so traumatic. The only way I could is under general anesthetic. So im out of it the whole time.
I was just wanting to know from people how the process is. How traumatic and if anyones had general anesthetic.
Just any imput or experiences please...

I'm 6 weeks in a couple days...

2007-09-28 20:30:15 · 7 answers · asked by KS 4

What is this sogn quick its on live radio?

2007-09-28 19:48:15 · 1 answers · asked by chris a 1

I've heard that men always get bored with the same old girl and want some "strange." Also I heard that they can love you but not really be sexually attracted to you anymore, and if they got someone new, they'd be banging the hell out of her!

He used to have a strong sex drive. But over the past 6 months I have been pregnant and gaining weight and it seems we have been having relationship problems. And his sexual advances have become less and less. it's not that I'm all about sex, I could care less, but it makes me feel unattractive.

What could be going on?

2007-09-28 19:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could someone please give me come advice/help! I have really bad attitude and it looks like its getting worse. I really want to change, i have always been shy,quiet & sweet ( which most people day..) But Now I find my self geting mean & hardheaded. My mom says that I'm disrespectful & I hate that I let myself continue this. I keep saying that I need to stop and change, but i dunno.. I know you can say everything thing..but actually doing it, its a different thing. I have aslo had low self esteem for a while,but I still don'yt understand why I ahve started this. I do want to be mean to anyone , I feel bad & just can't deal with me anymore. I keep praying that that I get strength to realize I truly need & want to change!

2007-09-28 18:02:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 17:57:03 · 3 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

Ok, this guy and I have been talking for a while(3 yrs) but I just started having feelings for him. I really like him and I really don't know what to think of him. He likes to make me feel bad at times, he calls me names, but he says its how he plays, how he jokes. So, sometimes I am ok with it besides i call him names too at times. Sometimes he makes me cry, but he tells me not to cry because he was just playing. He says I don't know why he do what he does.. when i ask him for an explanation to his behaviour of being so mean to me and making me jealous.
He likes to make me jealous all the time. He gives me great advice, he is always there for me. he always talks to me for hours, but I don't know. He confuses me.
I feel like he likes me, but he doesn't at the same time. He tell me some of his plans or what he is planning to do (he just graduated from highschool), and life experiences. I ask him if he doesnt likes me and he says he wouldnt talk to me if he didnt. But I am not a guy to know for sure if he does or not.
I was saying that I am not a guy hence i am a girl, so I don't understand what he is trying to say or why he is acting this way with me all the time.
see sometimes i ask him if he is just playing/using me and he says why would he do that to me? what would be the purpose in it? and he sometimes gets deffensive because i keep on asking that. He also gives me explanations to where he was or what he was doing without me asking or sometimes I do ask. He also asks me what i do and who i was hanging out with (my best guy friends). But then, everything is fine and he starts being so mean. I have told him I don't like that but he says that is who he is, but he never calls me names when he gets angry at me. It is just when we are talking.

2007-09-28 17:43:27 · 1 answers · asked by Cameron C 1

I am old enough to be her father and this girl at work keeps touching, hugging and pestering me...she is a nice girl and I don't like the idea that she does this..it's really annoying.....not to mention others are starting to get weird ideas. I don't want to get her into trouble with work and I already told her it was inappropriate for her to do what she does.
I am wondering if I should tell her boss...I can't talk to her parents....her mom was murdered by dad when she was 6 yo and is having problems with an aunt she is living with and wants to move out....HELP!!! or am I just overreacting.

2007-09-28 17:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you please help me drown out the sound of sawing wood?

2007-09-28 16:40:55 · 15 answers · asked by Guinness 5

2007-09-28 16:31:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 16:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by Random 3

So, I'm 15 and I have no talents what so ever. All my friends have these super awesome obvious talents and then theres me....talentless me. Like, I'm positive there is nothing special about me. Everything I do I suck at. And I'm not one of those that just quits I actually work at stuff and try to be really good at it, but then other people start doing it and they are sooo much better at it then me that the only sane thing to do is quit.
I'm not super pretty, can't sing, draw, play and instrument ect... everyone thinks I'm so confident and stuff when I really feel like such a talentless loser. So. Enough of me whining. What is my freaking talent?! How do I find it? Am I just destined to be an un-special talentless girl? Thankks in advance.

2007-09-28 15:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told I have some family in Japan, I know some things about it, and some things i don't know. I live in the US, and thats where my mother had me. She is from Japan, but came here 40 years ago. anyways my mother never told me much about my family, and I want to find out how to get information. I can't ask her because she is dead now. So I don't know what to do. help me please.

2007-09-28 15:42:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short.... I'm a married woman, i started seeing another woman (while married) She knew I was married!! Things got too serious beteweem Her and I, my husband found out, She became obsessive so We broke things off, He forgave Me after 6 months so my husband and I are back together. In the period that I was with her She made me quit work, She's a very wealthy person. She lavish Me with extravagant gifts, the big ticket items are a 6 carat diamond ring and a $350,000 condo Paid with a cashiers check . I didn't know I was getting this unit until I went to the closing (she bought one for her also) Her and I had a relationship! now a lawyer showed up to my house with a letter saying She practically wants everything back! I never asked for anything. My husband makes great money so She made sure That my lifestyle will not change but get better. What a mess!! I'm going to contact a lawyer on monday but I need some advice to get Me over the weekend (legal advice). Please Help.

2007-09-28 15:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by marinrey1 1

i love my boyfriend to death but there are some things about him that bother me. at first it was that he didn't want me talking to him while my friends are around i accepted then it lead to don't talk to one of my best friends who i have known since she was born next came any guys and now he doesn't want me to talk to anyone not even a hello not even teachers at my school he is really paranoid about getting cheated on and i have told him that i would never do that and i dont want to hurt someone that i love i know why he has these trust issues but i don't know how to break him out of this habit it is affecting our relationship it really hurts me when he falsely accuses me i tell him this then he apologizes and i know he means it but the next day he does it again i am scared to tell him somethings because im afraid he will get mad he gets mad at me for stupid reasons and half the time i dont even know what i did .. what do you think?

2007-09-28 14:36:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex today said that he cheated on me while we went out, i am still likeing him. wat should i do, im not quite positive that is wat he said but im oretty sure

2007-09-28 14:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a new baby boy. i've been having so very wierd dreams latley. i was sexually molested as a young girl and my biggest fear is that the same thing will happen to my children. i've been having sexual dreams about my son and myself. i don't see him as anything more than a beautiful baby boy. why am i having these dreams? do i need mental help? is something wrong with me?

2007-09-28 14:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Los Angeles. I do have a living will. Now, I have furniture and a lot of things I told each child to pick now when I am alive, that way there won't be disagreements later on.
Is this o.k.?

I have an itemized list of each item like let's say silver, couch, or buffet table. Each of my 3 kids picked what they wanted. All my 3 children and I signed the very bottom as an agreement to what would go to who. I also have it notarized. Is this sufficient and will it hold in the court of law in case of a disagreement?

2007-09-28 11:45:41 · 2 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

I am starting to feel a bit lonely at home with the kids and im pregnant so thats not helping either

2007-09-28 11:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Really, not who your favorite person is, but if you are anyone's favorite person.

and how sure are you?

a.) Absolutely positive
b.) pretty sure
c.) guessing so
d.) hoping so

2007-09-28 10:15:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If that's the case then here:

<(^___^)> hug!!!!

2007-09-28 10:09:58 · 14 answers · asked by tinybubbles 5

You know, middle school you guys are all BFF and all that crap, but then you get into high school and it all f-u-c-k-e-n changes, i'm pissed at how many people are liars :( bff my a-s-s, who feels me? or who has kept their bff's

2007-09-28 10:08:38 · 1 answers · asked by torontoguy23 4

My dad's a scary man & when it comes to church..he over reacts,like yelling,hitting,acusing,and all that comes out of he's mouth is bull. And....I don't know if I can tell him that I'm..that I'm 4 months pregnant...please help me,I really need it, I want the child,me and my boyfriend both wanted a child,that's why we had sex in the first place. Please,again,I NEED help.

2007-09-28 09:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Kitsune 1

my fiance was recently in a car accident after a series of bad decisions, which i cant help but blame on him being disfellowshipped and his family and friends not talking to him. he always said he was depressed and was trained to believe it, but stepped out and couldnt believe what he was taught. now he says hes going back and doesnt want to be with me because now that hes in the hospital all the jw's are there w/ him. i cant help but think thats its fear thats making him go back, and what can i do to help him? is this just because hes scared and they are making him think this happened because he left? i know it was his own decisions, but he went through a very angry time after he was dissed....im so hurt and confused as to what i can do to convince him he wouldnt be happy, which i know in my heart he wouldnt.

2007-09-28 08:21:50 · 8 answers · asked by Heather M 1

my daughter's eye color is so enigmatic, sometimes grey, sometimes taupe with a smidge of green, with a prominent outer ring and pupil.
Mine are similar, but more green and light brown than grey. Hubster's are blue. I love eyes. Big brown ones are cute!

2007-09-28 08:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by Guinness 5

we attend the same school so i have to look at him with her everyday and it really gets to me i try to talk to other people to get him off my mind but it dont work I LOVE HIM

2007-09-28 07:46:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please name anything EXCEPT "Smile". Thanks!

2007-09-28 07:19:40 · 19 answers · asked by lady 3