My dad's a scary man & when it comes to church..he over reacts,like yelling,hitting,acusing,and all that comes out of he's mouth is bull. And....I don't know if I can tell him that I'm..that I'm 4 months pregnant...please help me,I really need it, I want the child,me and my boyfriend both wanted a child,that's why we had sex in the first place. Please,again,I NEED help.
2007-09-28 09:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Kitsune 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll give you a hint at my age; 15-18
So I'm gonna have 2 kill it.....We have a secret house, it hasn't been used in forever,no1 at all knws 'bout it. My bf is a half job worker,which is fixing cars or somthing like it....do ANY of you knw wat a; " SWITCH " is? It's a stick long or short, and u take away everything that's on it so that it's a naked stick,and F****** hurt's like hell.
2007-09-28 12:35:51 · update #1
There is a huge difference between 15 and 18 sweetheart. You need to call a pregnancy hot line. Do you honestly believe you are capable of caring for a child? You need to get in to some child care classes. If you are thinking about hiding in an old abandoned house, that is very dangerous. I hope someone is there watching out for that baby, so if you aren't doing right, it will be taken, and given a good home.
2007-10-05 16:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by kiki72404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need mom in this scenario more than you know, not only to keep dad from going balistic on your boyfriend cause more than likely if he's the way you say he is, your in for the
perfect storm.
And your boyfriend better get on the ball and start acting
like a man and do the right thing despite the age issues
cause like it ornot and contrary to all the spouting off i
hear about how age is just a number cause love is love
with older or younger, i'd say there's a lot of denial going
on, and whisful thinking, if this doesn't prove it i don't
know what the hell does. better inform dear old chruch
going dad before someone finds out the hard way the
true meaning of fire and brimstone . . .
good luck your gonna need it along with some prayer . . .
2007-10-05 16:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone seems to be asking your age but since you are 4 months pregnant, I don't believe that's the real issue. The issue is that there is nothing that can be done. You are going to have the baby and dad will figure out soon enough when you start to take shape.... The real question is.... do you intend to keep it? You hint that this was the plan originally that you and your bf made.
My concern is this....
Are you in a position to care for the child yourself?
Is your BF able to work a fulltime job and support the baby?
Have you got insurance?
Can you afford a place to live on your own or with your BF's help?
If any of the answers to the questions is NO, then I can already guess you are underage, and in spite of your BF's intent, you only can depend on one person in your life.... your Dad! Yes he will yell and scream, but he is your dad and loves you even though he may not display it. It is time to come clean with him and voice your intent. To avoid him will only make your relationship worse than it is now.
2007-09-28 17:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, how old are you? The best way to tell him is to be straightforward. Perhaps you should have your boyfriend and a few more trusted people around so that your Dad will be less likely to fly off the handle and start hitting. You're going to have to tell your Dad sooner or later, a baby is one of those secrets that is pretty hard to keep. God bless you.
2007-09-28 16:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by grace95838 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information given. How old are you? Do you make your own money, support yourself, have your own place to live, have you completed your education? Is your boyfriend a decent, hard-working man? Is he mature, able to support you and a baby, and committed to being a responsible father?
If the answer is yes to all these issues, your dad should not have a problem. If you had to answer "no" to any of these, I'm not surprised that your father is upset.
2007-09-28 16:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never said how your age. this is tough the only thing i can think of just sit your dad down and tell him the truth. you all have to sit down and talk it out. your dad will be very upset, but you have to understand that you are his daughter and he wants the best for you. so yes he is going to over react about the situation and it will take some time for him to get over it. your dad has to understand that you want to keep the baby and its your choice. hope this help!! good luck!
2007-09-28 16:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You intentionally got pregnant? So if you wanted a baby why did you not get married first? Since you planned on a baby and set out to have one I am assuming you have your own home and a job and are self supporting. Call him and tell him you are pregnant. If he raises hell don't let him in your house. If you are a teen and you brought this on yourself then listen to him rant and rave and he would be justified in being angry since he will most likely be the one to support it.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------You set out to get pregnant and now you are going to kill it? You definately do need help and I'm not qualified.
2007-09-28 16:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him cause some or the other day he will get to know about it
then the scene would be more worse then you expected
wish you all the best for your child and your love life
2007-09-28 16:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move out of that fuchen house as soon as you can.if you are 17 you can move out and there is nothing that he can do. but if you tell him then you need to make him see that you will not have an abortion.no matter what
2007-10-05 15:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by alicia c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him. hes going to find out anyways. but if hes the kind of guy who gets mad i say u got pregnant by another guy not your boyfriend.
2007-09-29 03:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Little Arthur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋