Other - Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

2007-09-27 23:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by marty47 4

i had a six year relationship wit my ex got a child together and left him due to high domestic violence leavin me severly disabled, 4 years on im in a new lovin relationship but in some strange way still love my ex. WHY??

2007-09-27 23:24:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i try so hard to stay out of his way...that i end up...locking myself inside my own room the moment he arrives from school ...around 4pm...then i start drinking...more often than i usually did =(
whenever we accidentally bump into each other inside the house...he stares at me like he wants to attack me!...
sometimes...i'd have weird dreams...he's right outside my room...waiting...viciously...right outside my door..staring...violently at me while i'm sleeping...
he's only almost 14.

2007-09-27 23:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3

I told her I wouldn't be interested before she turns 18.

She's the daughter of my neigbor so I cannot avoid to see her almost everyday. She threatens to report me as a molester if I don't do as she pleases...

I'm 35 and it's her mother I'M really interested in...

What should I do?

2007-09-27 22:40:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for someone who I live with, an evil parent. Please send me tips on how to really annoy someone, without going to far

2007-09-27 21:50:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have seen it happen but it is always a mismatch. It doesn`t last. They get hooked to it and empty promises that land them in problems that how most have spoiled their fortunes. Your opinion you cute ladies?

2007-09-27 21:49:29 · 3 answers · asked by nelwes 2

my gf....she poppin pills now...i dnt kno wut to do...she evrything to me!!
i dnt want nuthin to happen to her..she my whole life..if ya can help..

pleaze tel me a way i can stop her...dis is importent to me please im evn prayin to god
to tell her to stop..

i need her in my life..

please tell me a way b4 smthg smthg really bad happenz..im alreadyy stressin,cant sleep..cant do nuthin...

i need yall to tell me smthg

please....... =*(

2007-09-27 21:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

without her being there with me.they constantly bicker and fight.my g/f says ehr best friend never calls her and when she does its for me,yet her best friends cell phone bill lists my g/f's number over 60 times in the last month.what do i do.i think shes in denial and wants everyone to feel sorry for her.plus when me and her go down there her best friend and her fiance and i drink alcohol yet my g/f sits far away from us doesnt talk to us and stares at the three of us.shes only drank once before and she had 14 mikes lemonades and puked all day the next day and is afraid to drink now.i told she went too far her first time.she has lots of trouble with fizzy alcohol,beer and liquor and wine.what the hell should she drink.i just need to know how to get them to be happy again and not fight.what should i say to her.also what drink should i get her?

2007-09-27 20:12:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating a guy for almost two years. we're both in college - he commutes and i live in a dorm a half hour away. everything was great until his dad said that i am "manipulative" and im using him. then he insisted my boyfriend only come see me every two or three weeks. my guy feels like he cant disobey his father, but hes 19 (a legal adult!) and he should be able to make his own relationship decisions. it might have been okay had his dad a good reason, but he just doesnt want him to see me. i want to either figure out a way to get his dad to back off OR make my boyfriend stand up to his dad without having to choose between me and his father. im really upset about this, ive never been away from my boyfriend for more than a week at a time, and when we are both done with school we might be at the point where we want to get married. i cant have his dad constantly telling him what to do, especially when he is already old enough to be responsible for himself. what should i do?

2007-09-27 19:55:40 · 2 answers · asked by ironic_chipmunkk 2

I want to meet some new friends online, chatroom and ICQ used to be the way to go, but now they are filled with inappropriate language and people.

Where can I meet new people on the internet who are not sullied?

2007-09-27 19:50:08 · 5 answers · asked by LifeisGoood 2

he says how much he loves me more than anything & how precious i am to him, wants me to have his kids & get married but the actions are : hides his phone, so i do too, he doesnt answer half the time, the the last girl he dated when we broke up in january lives 4miles away from him & his friends say he wants his cake & eat it too... Why is he playing mind games with me? he said he loves me so much. we see each other once a week, @my house, he stays over which includes sex, but we're not an official couple. We havn't been in public in 9 months. Why does he do this to me? Im still in love w him but i know i should cut him out of my life. He blames me for staying away from me so much because of the mean words( which are accusations of being w the other girl, Lindsey) He blames me for everything. How can i be stronger and just ignore this craziness. (it's actually worse than words can describe.)

2007-09-27 19:20:07 · 6 answers · asked by ceecoffee 1

i have been dating this guy for almost 7 months, i love him alot and i think he loves me,well i work all the time and never see him, he keeps crying b/c i have not been spending time with him, and talks about breaking up, and asking me if its what i want, what i want is to be happy he makes happy but relationships in my book cause too much pain. i mean i want o be wtih him but i cant handle this cry stuff i mean im 25 and so is he, and i think he needs to see a counselor, please help me and no insults just be for real!~

2007-09-27 19:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by dark_confession24 1

My boss has been flirtatious with me for quite some time and I was beginning to become distracted by it and feel romantic feelings toward him. I confronted him about it (totally awkward, of course) and I don't know where to go from here. On one hand, I'm glad that I said something because I was starting to feel a little obsessed about the issue and it was affecting my quality of life (daily). On the other hand, I think it scared him because he values his job and might be concerned that I'll report this. I don't intend to do that. We're both human and I know that there is/was some mutual level of admiration there. This is just a disappointing situation because we did have a good rapport and I really do respect him. If only I had been able to ignore what I felt were his advances... I'm somewhat worried about potential backlash...

2007-09-27 18:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by Joanie 2

We've been friends for 4 yrs. I'm 24 & hetero while she's 28 & BI. She's always a shoulder to cry on when I'm feeling down. But lately, she's been trying to fondle me & I don't feel comfy with that. I told her I don't like that, & I'm afraid she might turn against me & not wanna be my friend anymore & use my flaws against me & throw them in my face, even though she said she's not gonna do that. She's my only friend, but I'm starting to sense something fishy. Our friendship seems too good to be true because many people tell me that no one is gonna be PERFECTLY nice to me. & me & my friend almost never argue. I'm wondering if she's thinking I have to pay her sex to tell her my problems. I don't wanna live like that. I thought she was understanding & caring but now I'm not sure. She was molested as a child & she's a bisexually promiscuous nymphomaniac. I need help. I sort of sensed our friendship tearing apart when I started having nightmares of her treating me mean. Is she a good friend?

2007-09-27 17:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking for others who are polygamist or are interested to discuss pros and cons about this lifestyle.

I have been married to my husband for two years now, been together four. Never did either of us think he would ever fall inlove with another woman. Yet three months ago, it happend. I was at first very upset and hurt, and I guess I still am. The fact he didnt tell me before he had decided to do something was the worst part of it all. I have since accepted what has been happening. and cant really bring myself to leave him. I see he does love this woman, but also loves me at the same time.
We have been discussing the possibility of the three of us moving in together, and bringing our families under one roof, alot because we see no point in having to spend the money to go the 60 miles back and forth to see eachother.
I would like to find others who are also interested or in this type of relationship to give me some feedback on how life is, and if its worth it. Thank you.

2007-09-27 17:22:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica P 1

My husband(29) has been taking anti-depressants for 3 years. I(24) have had several partners in college. I find myself telling my husband "we're not having sex enough".I think the anti-depressents interfere with his sex drive. I crave sex all the time...I would love it once a day...he could go a week or two without wanting to have sex. How often should we be having sex? What can I do to increase his sex drive without taking him off drugs or giving him more drugs?

2007-09-27 17:15:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it wrong if i have a sexual thing going on with a guy to try it with a girl for the first time with his sister? will he get over it?

2007-09-27 17:10:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-27 17:04:04 · 1 answers · asked by Curious 1

This guy was not my boyfriend. but we had feelings for eachother, he lives 2 hours away and i only see him about once a month. we were involved sexually. and i got extremely drunk one night and had a bi curious experience with his sister. i feel awful about it, he found out and now hates me and says he lost all respect for me and says any chance that there was for us is now gone. i was just soo drunk when it happend and i figured if i was going to do somehting like that it should be with someone who i knew well. its not like i would have not wanted him and wanted her. its not like i did his brother and got preg or fell in love or anything like that. it was just a one time experience thing. will he ever forgive me? should he forgive me? i truly am sorry and wish i never done it! b/c i do love this guy!! and i really want to be with him!! i just think if me and her can act as if it never happend then why cant he move past it and give me another chance?

2007-09-27 16:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom died a year and like, 2 months ago and my dad already has a new girlfriend. It upsets me, and i have told him that it does. She took me out to dinner tonight and i could tell she didn't really like me at all.

How can i work this out?

2007-09-27 16:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Dear prudence, 1

And what are the legal issues?

2007-09-27 16:45:59 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean guys with no class at all. She cheated on her boyfriend back home with several guys when she first got to college - one was with a guy on the first night of frosh orientation. The second time was in her college dorm room with an out of town guy who paid her by check for sex.

There were a few other guys who got her drunk in bars and then took her back to her dorm room for sex - noticed by others on her floor.

One of those guys is a college grad 5 years older than her who works two dead end jobs - probably because of a shoplifting conviction. She not only slept with him, but his older married half-brother - behind his back, and also in a threesome.

The latest guy is 19 years older than her, who beat his wife and a child, divorced the wife, went bankrupt, and had to be taken to court twice to pay child support. He always seems to have money for flash clothes and a car, although he can't pay his property taxes or auto insurance.

Could it be she is compensating?

2007-09-27 16:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by Raleigh Guy 1

Why when I answer certain questions, such as promoting getting married before you have kids, or bringing up the morality of sleeping around with a practical stranger as being bad behavior, why do I get thumbs down? Why are people so against standing up for doing the right thing? Are we so lost in society that we believe we should just do what we want and feels good regardless of the moral and/or ethics of what we are doing?

I'm not saying I do everything honorably or that I take a moral high ground with all my decisions in life, but certain things should still be important, like actually getting married vs. pretending to be before you bring a baby into this world?

Please, I'm seeking honest thoughtful answers. Thanks!

2007-09-27 15:26:16 · 5 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6

who she was completely into. But after he sent her a couple mixed signals she began to like his bestfriend. The Bestfriend asked her to homecomming and to be his girlfriend and she said yes. However basically the moment she said yes the orignial guy started completely flirting with her and told her he loved her. I told her to be honest with both guys but she wont listen and homecomming is in two days, and we're going...with both of them. Any suggestions to avoid a huge blowout?

2007-09-27 15:17:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My -best- friend gets me so upset.
She never listens,
she's so "popular" now.
She is so pretty and everyone loves her,
I feel soooooo left out.
Then this guy named Matt; calls me ugly and pale..every day!
And the 'popular/preppy' girls laugh at me all the time.
Everyone calls me weird or they don't notice me;
&&& i'm like- in LOVE with this guy.. he is so sweet! and helpful, and cute! but he likes my best friend......
and if i fail something, just ONE small thing, everyone gets disapointed in me. I can't play my clarinet for beans, either! NO ITS NOT JUST BECAUSE IM A GIRL: its because ANY human being with FEELINGS would feel hurt and betrayed when no one talks to them!
How can I start talking to people more, how can I make them like me? It's only been a month at school, and I feel like I don;t belong [its not a new school].

plus ++++ my dad is very "evil" [atleast, i believe so, for many reasons.] my mom isn't here, and she yells at me over the phone &so much other things

2007-09-27 13:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do i find out if this guy likes me without being too obvious? By the way, I'm not the prettiest girl...

2007-09-27 13:10:54 · 1 answers · asked by in*love*with*roi 1

I really didnt confront the girl but I text her and told her to knock it off or I will tell her husband and it made her mad and my man mad so I feel things were going on but he's not man enough to admitt it cause he doesnt want to hurt me, well its hurts even more not knowing the truth in my eyes . I have been showing trust to save the realationship but not sure really whats going to happen. I think and hope this is all a test of our realationship to make it a stronger one but in reality not sure . I hate it for the fact that I cant say I love you and have that closness agian I really do still love him and I want it to work and Ido forgive anything that might of happend but I cant get him to be honest with me I mean maybe he is but I get the feeling he wants to tell me something but is affriad to. If you really love someone and want it to work should you stay and be patient and see what happens???

2007-09-27 12:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Brenda 1

I feel terrible.
lifes been hard this year .
my dad died about ten weeks ago.
he had lukemia.we became a family again for a while.
it was good. i love the time we had together.
Now i am living in his house. and i have no job yet after careing.
also my girlfriend who lives 200 miles away wants to move in.I dont know if i can do that. with out her life would have been realy hard. i care a about her,but we didi live together once and things didnt work out to well. thats why she lives away. i understand that she wants to settle down .she loves me and she keeps telling me the clocks ticking. but for some feeling i dont truely feel happy to be in thie relationship. i want to be .i want her to be happy .i want to be happy.but i feel trapped.in some ways it hurts.like its not where i want to be.that i feel i cant give her all she deserves.but in anaother way i dont want to be alone. i feel a fool to hurt her. shes beautiful brilliant and funny and extremly kind .
total pain and termoil

2007-09-27 12:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by vdgeest70 1

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT Creditors placing a Lean on YOUR Account.

Do you think it's another way for the U.S to make the Rich Richer and the Poor more poor.

What will the U.S do when the lower class citizens reach bottom.

Was the Jews right about Banks Stealing money.

What will happen WHEN To Much Poverty Begins/ Will Kaos begin ,(stealing/rioting) after so many years of lesiure an hard work on living from check to check...

The STOCK MARKET WILL DROP AND BUSINESS WILL BOTTOM OUT. *BECAUSE THERE ARE MUCH MORE POOR THEN RICH.. AN A BIG PORTION OF THE U.S IS IN CREDIT DEBT.

IS THIS A SCAM TO PAY LAWYERS.

IT IS A GIVEN FACT THAT ALL BANKS HAVE TO REPLY
to such court orders given from creditors.

Dont get me wrong if you owe someone you should pay them,

But Is it the Creditor Fault from being so giving to people even at the age of 18 teen years of age & younger, not knowing the indept & responsibility of life.
Because of there mistake will the U.S Fall.

2007-09-27 12:03:53 · 5 answers · asked by ★ ★ ★ ★ America United★ ★ ★ ★ 1

Im 23 in a great relationship, w/ great girl (24), i know im going to marry her (eventually), but she is a virgin, and i am not. its starting to drive me crazy. what should i do or tell her? Cheating is not an option. serious advice only please

2007-09-27 11:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mark 1