i had a six year relationship wit my ex got a child together and left him due to high domestic violence leavin me severly disabled, 4 years on im in a new lovin relationship but in some strange way still love my ex. WHY??
2007-09-27 23:24:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I got out of a bad relationship last year with a person who i did truly love i had a girl to her and thought everything was complete then she had a change of plan and we separated on bad terms i still love her in ways that she is the mother of my daughter and i must respect that, but my heart will belong to the person i am with and i truly love that person, you will never get the person out of your life aslong as you have your son cos he is the memory of what you did have good or bad memories, your life is now improving you have someone that will treat you alot better and not do anything your ex did, so love that person and dont give in to the past move forward not backwards!
2007-09-28 02:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were in a very long relationship with this guy & had a child together. It's normal to have some sort of feelings like that to some extent. As long as you realize that he's a jerk & as long as you do not want to get back together with him, there's nothing wrong with that.
If you were to start thinking about getting back together with him or to want to have an affair with him, I'd suggest getting some therapy. Sometimes women get addicted to guys like him because they feel like they "deserve" him or that their love will change him. My mom was like that when she was trying to seperate from my abusive step-dad. Luckily they were in couples' therapy at the time & the therapist was able to point it out to her so she could recognize it & leave the relationship for good.
2007-09-28 06:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its happening to u just because of love. because u both were in a very deep relationship. and i think u still love him becoz u got a child from him. u never forget those moments of ur life. so its natural.but dont go back to him.becoz he hurt u.continue ur current relationship with happiness.
2007-09-28 07:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by priyankac81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a part of him. your child is what brings u two together. if u loved him, u wouldnt have left. love makes u deal with the worst even when its not right. or it lets you leave for the better to allow that person to better himself. u're in another relationship which u allowed.
2007-09-28 06:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by acaia20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the grand scheme of things we are not supposed to ever not love someone. We are supposed to look for a way to love everyone. It is not uncommon for your loving two people for heavens sake. Love and adore all for everyone has something unique to offer in life weather it be a boyfriend or just a friend. Enjoy!
2007-09-28 06:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is the father of your child, and you will always cherish the part of him that was good. That does not mean that you are still in love with him, just that you love him in a different way.
2007-09-28 06:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to love a one person truly!
2007-09-28 06:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by me_always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop this he hurt you, never think about going back to him. Do no see him, do not talk to him, Do not write him, Get his a&*&*(*(_& out of your mind. Going back would be the biggest mistake of your life... I really wish you luck here.
2007-09-28 06:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on sweetie. Love yourself.
2007-09-28 06:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by warm_vanilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if he is your first love then he'll always have a place in your heart x
2007-09-28 06:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Colle =] x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋