i try so hard to stay out of his way...that i end up...locking myself inside my own room the moment he arrives from school ...around 4pm...then i start drinking...more often than i usually did =(
whenever we accidentally bump into each other inside the house...he stares at me like he wants to attack me!...
sometimes...i'd have weird dreams...he's right outside my room...waiting...viciously...right outside my door..staring...violently at me while i'm sleeping...
he's only almost 14.
2007-09-27 23:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
@farzana<3
yes he is...he has violent tendencies towards me...but only me.
He has an older brother and his older brother is his complete opposite...but is very sickly... making me...more afraid...i am thinking...if i lose this good son of mine...i am going to really lose every reason for living...
their father died 2 yrs ago...but we have been saeparated years before that...their father also used to hit me alot.... =(
2007-09-27 23:34:20 · update #1
*separated...sorry
2007-09-27 23:35:24 · update #2
@tweety
yeah unfortunately...i'm a young mom for his age...and he's now taller than me...i have no parents...no close relatives...no one to help...and as you can notice...i'm traumatized?
2007-09-28 00:45:51 · update #3
@Weezilmom...you got it all mixed up...maybe you're the one who's been drinking?
2007-09-28 08:12:08 · update #4
@Weezilmom...
anyways...other than the first line in your Q...i appreciate your concern. thanks.
2007-09-28 08:24:24 · update #5
He terrorizes you and yet he's the "good" son? Have you been watching a movie call "The Good Son"? Okay, stop drinking, don't hide in your room, take over being the parent. If he has tendencies towards hurting you, you will have to make a decision - you can live, or you can die. So you don't want to send him away because he scares the living daylights out of you? Make that decision - live or die. Remember, you are the parent in this situation.
2007-09-28 05:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Weezilmom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if your son is violent towards you somthing is terribly wrong. You might want to call the authorities right away. I dont have kids now, so i cant say i understand why you would not want to turn him in, but in my humble opinion thats the best way, besides getting violent back.
2007-09-28 01:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is the adult here? I'm sorry for your pain but a 13 yrs old would not be running my house...it seems to me he should have been more disciplined as a young child now this is what you get a demon child..you need to beat his *** one good time ..instead you you trying to stay out of his way the little punk would be trying to stay out of my way.don't get it twisted...
2007-09-28 00:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all children at this age are evil if u ask me. and i know i was one of them unfortunately i did attck my mum but our relationship is heaps strong now ive grown up. not that it stops her from still telling me what to do. if he was a few years older id tell u to send him my way... i like the bad boys
2007-09-27 23:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by chlo_bo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you and your son could really benefit from family counseling.
It also sounds like you could use a little one on one individual therapy, or at least an evaluation.
Good luck to you.
2007-09-27 23:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your his dad, go out there and worp him across the head. Get the respect you deserve.
2007-09-27 23:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone about it... phone someone...Jeremy Kyle? You can't live that way!! x
2007-09-27 23:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Colle =] x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your real son? if so, why would you be scared?
2007-09-27 23:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋