Other - Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

she has a good boy friend and they are in touch by phone call & sms,now she want to make physical relation with his boy friend at once with my permision.i want to see him happy ever,should have allow him ?

2007-07-16 23:30:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I am female and yes if I got pregnant by accident I woundn't be happy about a man been given the decision to terminate my baby, BUT, how come women are given the option when men aren't? you could argue that the man should have used protection but so should the women and at least she gets the chance to put that mistake right with abortion, a man doesnt get that chance, and then may have to fork out child maintenance until the baby is 18. I know so many women who have one night stands on purpose to get pregnant they have the baby then send the CSA after the unsuspecting guy, I also know a lot of men who feel like ending it all as they cannot afforard to live due to paying this.
On the other hand I also know a lot of men who have begged their girlfriends to keep the baby while she has gone ahead and terminated.
Surely this is not fair, I think the farther should be allowed to sign something.
What do you think should men be given a voice in this decision (it is half their child).

2007-07-16 21:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

through the letter box .why can.t we get cheques in stead .

2007-07-16 21:51:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 21:47:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend is more popular than me and at lunchtimes we hang out togther but she always going over to her other friends, i dont know any of them and im REALLY shy. im afraid that shes getting sick of me and will want to hang out with these people instead. im dont have anyone else i could hang around with.
also- i try be friendly to her friends but some of them dont really like me and whenever im around people i dont know i dont talk because i think ill sound stupid
help!!???

2007-07-16 21:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

one day my sister told me that she saw him kissing some girl. I did confront him about it and he said that my sister was just trying to break us up because he doesnt like him. I dont know who to believe. please help

2007-07-16 21:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've recently been catching up with lots of people from school and 1 of the only people i haven't seen around or been able to get hold of is an ex (well i say an ex but we were 13 & together for about 6 months!)....so i wrote a card inviting him (& his partner) to a party i am having in the next few weeks.the card was only friendly & just said something along the lines of 'hi, havent seen you for ages & just wanted to say hi...im having a party in the next few weeks & id really like to get some old friends together if youd like to come. bring your wife/girlfriend. either way it would be nice to hear from you. give me a text or an email' & i gave him my email address & mob no.

well....i got an email from someone in his family saying that the guy in question and his wife didnt want any contact from me and that they would appreciate it if i left them alone as they are married and kids!

i feel so stupid but also feel like they have acted a tad over the top. what do u think?

2007-07-16 21:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18 never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss, never been on a date. I am 5'9" 145 pounds athletic/built, just smaller frame and 4% body fat. I am a nice guy, outside of the boxing ring. I am kind and respectful. I can have fun doing just about anything and like to party. I am pretty smart, going to college this fall and always had pretty good grades in highschool. I dont believe I am ugly, maybe alittle young looking for my age but not ugly. I love pretty much all sports, but boxing is what I mostly do now a days. I just dont get why girls have never found me attractive, I had not really noticed until my friends all had girlfriends and I didnt and I think they think I am weird or gay which I am not. I am just really shy and never could ask any of my crushes out, but they didnt seem to like me that much anyways, so I think I am just gonna give up on love and just ignore girls cuz they never showed any interest in me so why should I.

2007-07-16 21:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For years about the last 10 years now,lol
when ever I’m angry or upset about whatever, instead if expressing these feelings I’ve been suppressing them
One reason is the embarrassment of being out in a public place (not wanting to draw attention to myself)
And it’s the same when I’m angry people know when your angry hey, maybe it’s the negative energy or something.

Anyway the other day I was at work and there was a song on the radio
As I was listening to it I started to get really emotional, so much that I felt like crying not because of the song but because it reminded me of something I went through in the past
Usually when I’m in this state I start praying hoping that what ever is causing it will go and it usually does, but that afternoon when I got home I tried thinking about it to cry it out but it was gone.

How many of you out there have gone through this?
What do you do to stop yourself from suppressing these feelings?
I guess nobody wants to be seen out in public crying especially if you’re a guy
But like how do you express it when your not in public…what can you do to stop yourself from suppressing these feelings…is it best to just cry or yell it out or what?

(Does anyone get me)
Anyway all answers appreciated

Thanx…seeya

2007-07-16 20:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok..its not that i dont like them, but i feel like they hold things over his head. for example...he doesnt want to go to school right now, which is understandable, they choose which and how many classes he has to take, and if he doesnt listen, they tell him he better start lookin for his own place to live. he does want to go to school, but he just wants to take a semester off. but if he does that, then his parents tell him they wont pay for his school, they basically tell him that if he does anything they dont want him to do. i understand that parents just want whats best for their children, but i think they should let him make some of his own decisions...i tell him that, but he's so afraid of disappointing them...wut do u guys think?? personally i think his parents should tone it down because i see how much stress they put on him...but i dont want him to think that im sayin anything bad about them...

2007-07-16 20:08:10 · 2 answers · asked by Calilv0123 3

its confusing, i've read many articles on how guys who wants serious rship are angry at gf past, when i feel that i love her so much and rmbr that her body was not mine only it hurts deep inside, i know some people say its the 21st century and its ok for a girl to be sexually active, but its hard to accept it for the person u really love, im i being 2 sensitive over this? can she be my life partner?

2007-07-16 20:03:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...Do you believe that some part of you will always be with them? Or that some part of you will always love them?

2007-07-16 20:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 18:47:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just got back from a frends beach and thers a cool girl out ther that i want to get to know but i mite not go out ther again, but i colud still get her number from a frend who is out ther .. shud i do this and just call him up and ask him to find me her number.. if not what shud i do.. i relly wanna get top know this girl.. im 15 by the way.. thnx for the help

2007-07-16 18:36:40 · 2 answers · asked by iversonfan3rox 2

muh brother likes making collages outta food that we are eating for dinner. So one day he asked my mom, "Mommy, can i use some carrots for my picture?" and she said "As long as u eat them for dinner!" and then my brother said "Oh, well can i use some cookies?!"





very smart for a 4 year old!

2007-07-16 18:03:38 · 2 answers · asked by JuStCurious! 2

Do any of you woman like me get sick of always hearing about men and their "needs"..They think the world revolves around them and act like their gonna die if they dont get any once in awhile from their wives they get a nasty attitude with her..I think all men are sex addicts and only see women as sex objects.

2007-07-16 17:43:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tonite I flew into my old hometown for a family reunion this weekend. I had dinner with my ex whom I am still very good friends with, even though we both now live on different coasts. I haven't seen him in 2.5 years so we had alot of catching up to do.
About an hour into dinner he starts talking about how his new wife won't have sex with him(she just gave birth 2 months ago). I told him he should talk to her about it but he feels he can't (I do remember her being a bit crazy and violent at times). He then started re-hashing how our sex life was amazing and if I would consider sleeping with him tonite. For the record I did not. I kindly asked that he bring me back home and to work things out with his wife.
My question for women is: Do you lose temporary interest after having a baby?
My question to men is: Would you cheat on your wife/girlfriend if you were in my ex's situation at home?

2007-07-16 17:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by caribbeansoulhoney 1

I have a girlfriend. I went to the movies with my friends and met some girls there that invited us to their party. One of the girls and I went to a room and had sex. Afterwards we talked and then I never talked to her agian. I felt guilty for a couple of days. Did I cheat?

2007-07-16 17:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dylan M 2

2007-07-16 17:27:12 · 18 answers · asked by littlejamiebear 1

My dad has a hernia in his stomach he has had it for about like 3 years and now it hurts so bad he says but he said he has no money to go take it out and he said he is so stressed he whould take it out himself im scared i dont know what could i do he doesnt listen :[[[. what coul happen if this goes on?

2007-07-16 15:29:21 · 1 answers · asked by Jay b 1

What do you think is better taught in schools, and remember that this is taught in the 5th grade. Planned Parenthood teaches about safe sex
Abstinence teaches the safe sex after the reasons not to mentally and emotionally.

2007-07-16 14:44:23 · 20 answers · asked by CJ 3

2007-07-16 12:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by c'mon, cliffy 5

2007-07-16 11:07:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my girlfriend for 3 months. We broke up but we kept sleeping with each other. She just told me that she is pregnant. I have no worries that it is mine but she also confessed to me that she got pregnant on purpose and had been lying to me about being on birth control for the last month.
At first I thought that she was trying to trap me to stay with her but then she told me that she doesnt want me in her life and just wanted my sperm to have a child with. I want the child. I want to take the child from her completely and take full custody of it when its born.Let me explain though, she is beautiful, intelligent and has a lot going for her but clinically insane because of a lot of issues that happened to her as a child; I don't think that she would be fit.I'm so angry at her though and I want nothing to do with her as far as us goes but she is threatening to dissapear with my child if I don't cease to stop being an "asshole" to her. Im just so angry at her,what do I do?

2007-07-16 10:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

these are pictures of my 46 year old mom....
http://img521.imageshack.us/img521/1306/78af9.jpg
http://img241.imageshack.us/img241/3461/89530909ev2.jpg
that's how she dresses all the time. a lot of women have their thongs sticking out, but that's usally unintentionally. but my mom seems to like it that way....sometimes when she sits somewhere and looks at her back, she doesn't pull her pants back up....no, she grabs her thong at the sides and pulls it higher! and one time, i heard her saying to her sister how her pants have to expose her thong enough when sitting down. she thinks it looks great.

does any of you women do this on purpose too?

2007-07-16 09:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 6 year old daughter is always losing books. Books from the school library as well as the public library. She's very well behaved otherwise, but I'd like to remedy the problem. If I thought corporal punishment would help, then I might spank her--but I'm not convinced that it would do much good. I'm leaving that as a last resort. So I'm looking for some creative ideas that would be equally productive. Any quality parental thoughts?

2007-07-16 09:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by HyperBeauty 3

When I was younger i dated an older guy. Our parents didn't like our age difference, so we had to hide. It got so hard, we broke up. I met my new bf, who I have been with for 4 yrs. and we have a son. I tried to tell him how confused I am because my ex contacted me again(it's been 2 yrs.) Anyway, my ex told me he loves me and misses me, and called me beautiful. This happened about 3 wks. ago. I told my current bf that I was confused about it and needed time to think. He siad it would pass. I still have feelings though. i've tried to tell my ex that we can only be friends, but I want more. I wish I could have both. LOL. Anyway, is this normal?? And how long has it lasted?

2007-07-16 09:26:29 · 18 answers · asked by Jenel 3

What does sex feel like to a guy...and what's it like when you orgasm? Details pls. I'm curious!

2007-07-16 09:26:10 · 3 answers · asked by Candy C 4

i cant stay faithful, and this guy whom i'm with is amazing but yet ive not stayed faithful and he believes i have. =/ what should i do ...

2007-07-16 07:45:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 07:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous