Other - Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

If you caught your partner cheating,and the person with whom they were cheating,was really attractive,would you get mad or join in on the action?

2007-07-14 23:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lady Luck 6

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2007-07-14 23:22:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 23:21:31 · 10 answers · asked by satyr 1

2007-07-14 23:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 boys aged 3 and 6 and they will not do as they are told. They will keep nagging and going in the fridge, they trash the living room, wont put toys away. Im sick of the sound of my own voice. It doesnt matter if i shout or not they will still not listen to me. Ive tried the usual putting them on the "naughty "step but my youngest just sits and screams. He is contantly nagging and crying all day long and its starting to wear me out. They have days out and are not spoilt but dont go with out.I dont feed them full of junk so where am i going wrong? I try my best for thm but all they do is throw it in my face. My eldest son breaks things he has been picking at the plaster on his bedroom wall so now theres a big hole, he doesnt seem to understand that these things cost money to repair, neither of my kids seem to understand why i get angry with them, they think its normal!! I love my kids to bits but i want them to actually listen to me for once. Help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-14 23:15:26 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-07-14 22:58:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the closing shift manager at a Wendy's in New York. There is this 19 year old kid that's always giving me a hard time. Every chance he gets he does something to cause me grief. There are 2 other guys that work with us that he hangs out with. He got in an arguement with one of the guys, the other one is his best friend. He told his best friend he better not talk to the other guy, anyways one night we were all working except for the jerk, we will call him Bob. Bob parked down the street and spyed through the window and saw the 2 of them talking. When his best friend went to leave Bob was outside waiting and yelled at him for talking to the other guy. This is just some of the stuff he does. He has went to the police many times to file complaints about my husband saying he's harrassing him. My husband has talked to him only because Bob gets me so upset. He lies about me to get me fired and I dont know why. My boss wont fire him and I dont know why. She knows he harrasses me.

2007-07-14 21:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was 16 when i lost my virginity. My friend Madison is only 14 and is already asking about having sex. She keeps asking me on advice if she should do it or not. I keep on telling her she needs to wait but she dissagrees. Her bf is my age 16 and i think hes presuring her to do it. how do i stop my friend from having these urges to have steps. Do you think shes trying to follow my footsteps?

2007-07-14 20:56:10 · 10 answers · asked by hollister_babe_177 1

My boyfriend is black and I am white. I have never really been attracted to white men. I love tall black men and they're right: Once you go black, you never go back! I've been in 3 relationships and two have been with black men and one with a persian guy.

My friends think i'm weird, and people still point at my boyfriend and I on the street as if we are weird since we are of the opposite race. I still can't believe that in this modern day and age there are still ignorant people out there making a big deal out of interracial relationships!

But that's not what i'm curious about. I know interracial relationships are completely normal, but I was just wondering if it's okay that I am not attracted to white men? I mean, I find some of them extremely good looking, but it's not exactly about physical attraction; it's beyond that. I'm just not attracted to them overall. I love them as friends and I respect them but can't picture myself dating one.

2007-07-14 20:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by Tiger 1

My boyfriend and I are doing really great but my old friend Ben radomly comes out of no where in town and all these old feelings came up and I felt like I loved him and it was nice to have him around again but when I woke up next to my boyfriend sleeping I knew I loved him and not Ben and I felt reallu bad. I told my boyfriend all we did was talk and I thought I had feelings but I knew Derek was the one. He said all he cared ws me being honest and he trusts me but I still think he's relaly mad but tells me he's nto because we're dating?

2007-07-14 20:31:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have a 3 year old, plus we work separate shifts so that we're raising our child instead of a babysitter. But this leaves very little time for sex and it gets pushed back to "some other time". It seems like the more we don't do it ... the more he's not in the mood for it when we have a moment to do it.
There was one occasion recently that I had romantic plans and a babysitter, and he ended up enviting his nephew to stay with us for the weekend.
What can i do to help rekindle his desire?
I'm not the cheating type. I've had plenty of opportunities. But I want him.

2007-07-14 19:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by sistersahara 1

okay I am 21. I My fiance is 23. I sleep over his house yesterday. I don't remember exactly what happened.but about 3 am I woke up by my BF was kissing me. he was half sleep and. then was start having sex. when we were having sex I felt like I was dreaming or something I don't know but it was great. in the morning I asked my BF if he remember something . he said he doesn't . can someone have sex while sleeping??!!

2007-07-14 19:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1

I need serious help. I absolutly love my boyfriend...but my grandpa is a total racist. Im white...my bf is black. A few insidents have occured:#1 My g-pa was driving me home 4rm skool...me n my bf jus startd goin out...i saw him as we were drivin...i pointed him out..he said "HIM?!"i was like "ya...hes black"he didnt say ne thing.#2 I was going to go to prom with justin (my bf). My grandpa asked me who i was goin with...I told him. All he said was "your going to get a reputation" later i found out that there is a word for black guys that date white girls. For about 2-3 months he didnt talk to me at all...We're talking now...but i cant bring up justin at all...Is this something i just have to live with or what?

2007-07-14 18:52:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you believe that the housework should be 50/50???? here's what i think!!!if the wife has to go to work because of financial strain,or because her husband suggests it, i think they should share the load!!! because this was not ultimately the woman's choice!!! now, if the woman gets bored at home,or wants to pursue her career, i'm not sure if she should be demanding equality in housework!!! especially if there are kids!!!

what are your opinions????

2007-07-14 18:29:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been going out with this guy for 6 months...TODAY. And my feelings for him are crazy! We are perfect together! we haven't even gotten in one fight and he treats me like a queen! Its like a fairy tale.Im only a Junior but i really could see myself being with him for the rest of my life. I love him with all my heart and more. My issue is...how can i make him see completely how much i care about him? how can i let him know i want to be with him forever and so much longer? Someone help me make him see...he's the one and only for me!

2007-07-14 18:26:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a ripping feeling inside everytime :'( plz HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-14 18:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by v-unit.aka.vanilla ice 1

2007-07-14 17:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

been divorced for 6 yrs with joint custody of 2 small children.My exwife did not take the divorce well and our children are "her life"now.The problem is i just got remarried(which she did not take well) and don't want any "problems" for my children.What i mean is my ex is very possessive and i don't know how she will react to anouther women with our children.So my question to all you moms is how should my new wife behave with my children?should we raise them together when we have them or should i raise them with my exwife and my new wife just take a backseat?What would piss you off as an exwife?

2007-07-14 16:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently befriended a gay dude. but i actually think he's st8 and saying he's gay so girls will feel more comfortable about it.
he's always commenting on how hot i am and wants to hld me, hug me, and kiss. i think a gay guy should be asing other dudes to do that. and i ask him about guys he likes and it's the cliche "brad pitt" and "george clooney". i mean they're 40 somthin and he's 22. wat do u think and how should i confront him. he's a great guy but i dont want him 2 think he ca take advantage of me. :(

2007-07-14 16:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by Temporary Sadness 3

I've never been spanked by my parents. But a few days ago, I was at my friends house. Her little sister, who is 13, was being a brat, so her mom gave her a spanking with a wooden spoon. But she was crying and screaming during the spanking... do spankings hurt tha much? I wouldn't think so. Anyway, I was just wondering.

2007-07-14 15:57:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I overheard my grandma bragging to her friends about getting some "action" the other night with my grandpa.

i was wondering if this was normal.

i mean, they are 70 and 72 years old and my grandpa can barely walk! he is like 400 pounds and sorry to say this grandpa but hes very fat and he is about 6'2 in height! my grandma happens to be about 5'2 and she is no more than 120 pounds. i mean how are they supposed to do that!

i mean what possible position can keep my grandpa from crushing my poor grandma!!!

please help me because i am a wonderer and i just keep wondering how the hell can they..well you know.

2007-07-14 14:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced and just broke up from a 6 year relationship with a guy who has committment phobia big time! He had a horrible marriage and is now confused about where our relationship is going after 6 years. We are taking "a Break." My friends are happy that we are apart and say I deserve much better than him. Over the six plus years we have been going out 3 nights a week and going away a lot and basically I am getting lonely and miss him. I know he goes out all the time, (as he has done his whole life) with his guy friends and we live near each other. My friends are sometimes busy with their families, etc... Would it look desperate if I went out by myself for dinner and sat at the bar in a nice place? I know he has always told me in the past that women do it a lot- but I usually am with friends... What if I do it and he shows up with some friends? It would be embarrassing- but guys can sit at a bar by themselves and no one thinks twice- What do you think about going solo?

2007-07-14 13:30:21 · 25 answers · asked by sunflower 2

but sometimes im sure when im really hot for him and sometimes im not it sems like an good idea becuase i want to and dont say he's just looking for sex becuase he's not acually we hardly every talk about i have to pry it out of him some one tell me what to do and please dont be mean about it

2007-07-14 13:19:56 · 21 answers · asked by HollywoodVampire 2

Me and my boyfriend live together. We have our problems like some people but for the most we usually work it out. He is the only child and he is use to being alone. He loves his video games, he'll play from morning to night. Just today he told me that he wants to be alone. It's not you he said but it him and he just rather live life alone. He also says that his mother never married, she is alone and she is happy. Yes we been together for a while we have a house cars I mean numerous things together and now he says this. Is it me? I cook ,clean.work and still spend time with him and take care of children. Need a little different out look. I have prayed. I am very torn about this.

2007-07-14 13:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by confused! 1

2007-07-14 12:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by aruna w 1

2007-07-14 12:10:25 · 13 answers · asked by scrtlvss 1

How do I get my mind off of him without involving another guy? Crushes are fun and all, but I really need to stop obsessing. Tips?

2007-07-14 11:32:04 · 3 answers · asked by Next-Hollywood-Spinner 1

Hi, I am a guy, and have a problem. I am unable to ejaculate in front of my girlfriend. I am fine in private, and even over the phone with her. This issue has really effected us deeply and its a huge problem because were scared that when we take that "final step", that I may not be able to finish. We have tried a few different ways, of which none worked: her doing it, me doing it myself in front of her, and her even masturbating herself while i tried. I at this point believe the problem is 100% psychological, and i really need help trying to solve it. Thanks a lot!

2007-07-14 11:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we first meet he told me he was 29 which this year would make him 32...I do love him dont get me wrong I dont think its the age gap that bothers me but the fact that he lied about it...I dont know how to confront him about it? I looked in his wallet cause i had been suspicious about it...How do i tell him or ask him why?

2007-07-14 10:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by boricuamami_85 2

He's into football and baseball, video games, playing outside with friends. I can't think of anything to get him that he doesn't already have, please advise me with something creative!

2007-07-14 10:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Kerry B 2