Other - Family & Relationships - 14 July 2007

... men think with the head on their "dick" while women think with their heads. Well many times its enough for a man to get laid by whoever and sometimes with no emotions or strings attached. Women however are wired in such a way in their heads that whoever they sleep with is often considered by them a potential long time if not lifetime partner. This leads them to start thinking before they indulge in relationships. Below are some of the questions that may pop up in many womens heads.

1. Are this mans values and norms compatible to mine?
2. Does he seem to have/ show respect for the people that brought me into this world (and for women this is mainly their fathers)?
3. If I bear children with this man will he want the best for them and will he and i be able to work together towards a good future for our children?
4. Does he care about the wellbeing of my family/relatives or wish them well?
5. Is his "love" for me reflected in what he says to me and about me to others?

2007-07-14 09:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Midnightbully 4

My little brother is only 4, he'll be five the 22nd. Our mom passed in Nov and he really didn't understand it. He knew about the whoel dying thing but he still thinks my mom is coming back. I don't want to sound like a bad sister and say " mommy is never coming back" he said he doesn't understand why she left again On christmas the year before, my mom left us because my parents got into a fight) It's hard not to cry to see your little brother praying out mom not to come home. I take care of him with my boyfriend together, our dads pretty much a dead beat so I have to be the one to tell him. He's a boy so I dont think he wnats to hear mushy stuff, any help, pleae?

2007-07-14 09:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 09:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by ready j 1

I was driving down the street and saw one of those car wash deals, like a fundraiser of some sort. 5 girls, about 13 years old dressed up in skimpy swimsuits. I am not even a parent, but I was thinking..Would you not be concerned about your daughter if old men and perverts are driving up and down the road? Secondly, isnt that also a bit of like "prostitution" if you are doing that to get someone attention? I just find this absolutely decadent, immoral and what not. I dont judge the kids but what the f is wrong with these parents?

2007-07-14 09:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love wandering naked while no one is at home! I did that for years occasionally without any incidents but my luck ran out one day and I've got caught wandering at home naked by my neighbors living at the next apartment building! They snapped my photo and posed it on the elevator on every floor with an attached note stating : "Beware of flasher in neighborhood! Any witnesses please do not hesistate to take a picture and call the police!"
I was shocked when I saw the note with my naked photo on it although my private areas were being blurred out!
My entire neighborhood knew about me being nude at home and I was so embarassed when I met my neighbors!
I knew I should have pay more attention to the people living at next apartment and be more cautious!
However, I was really pissed by the person who posted those bronchures! He should have approached me and try to talk to me about it and I would apologise but instead he chose to embarass me in public!
What should I do now? Help!

2007-07-14 09:16:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Perhaps it is a pig its being done?

2007-07-14 09:13:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some one tell if it is good for the kids or bad i don't reallly know that much...

2007-07-14 09:08:33 · 10 answers · asked by Letbouche 1

Her husband always gets her pregnant & he waits until she gets pregnant to beat her up & then leave her & cheat on her for young teenage girls & set her up to get raped by his friends during each pregnancy because he's using her past rape situations against her. Yes she was repeatedly raped in the past. & then she complains about how he does her wrong, & she takes him back. When she takes him back, she tries to hide away from people because she's afraid that we're gonna think negatively of her or call her stupid. She just had a baby, & I just found out that she took him back, after she said she promised she'd never take him back again. & he got her in all kinds of trouble, & she keeps forgiving him, but she holds a lifelong grudge against her own family, especially me, just behind false rumors my family has made against me. Why does she keep taking him back? If he doesn't kill her, he'll set somebody else up to do it. He already hit her upside the head with a wrench while pregnant.

2007-07-14 08:35:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

why would a guy want to get married to a woman that has kids from a previous relationship.

1st off, you would have to deal with the ex on a regular basis, and his family. Or worst the kid was a baby from a one night fling...sounds like you have a real winner huh?

Also- you have to deal with the kid, and you know how kids don't get along with the parents once the hormones kick in? Imagine hearing " f*ck you, your not MY dad" on a regular basis.

Also- these days with the economy what it is, you only have enough money to raise one or two kids. If you raise somebody elses kid, you are denying yourself the ability to have your own kid.

Or if you have another kid that is yours, how do you not favor your child?

What do you think?

2007-07-14 08:33:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was driving the car and next to me was my little son who is 9 years old. I complimented him and he was like "oh okay" with a smile on his face, and suddenly a not so good smell came. He farted, can that be how he show me love? Because if thats how he gonna show me love then I don't want any love.

2007-07-14 08:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Laura Pardo 1

My friend Ben and I were really good friends but then his mom died and a lot of things ahppend ( my mom died a month before) Ben shut me out of his life but yet was talking to others and would totaly ignore me. And when I did talk to him, he'd ionly say a couple words and then have to go. But last night I just saw him for the first time in months and he said he was sorry fr what he had done and that he loved me.All these old feelings came back and I don't know what to do?

2007-07-14 08:18:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 08:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every year more and more men are looking outside of the USA for women to take as their wives. I made the decision to do this, and married a beautiful woman with great morals, and family values.
I have talked with several other men that are in the process, or have done this, and they all tell me the same things. They couldn't find a woman here that 1. wanted to settle down with one man 2. had children from a past realtionship ( or children from several men) 3. were addicted to substances (including pharmacedical), 4. Had too much baggage (lots of ex-lovers)

The majority of these guys aren't the ones stereotyped to look for women overseas... these guys are mid 20's to mid-30's, in good condition, well off financially. THEY AREN"T LOOKING FOR SLAVES ladies!

So I pose this question...do women from different countries make better wives?

also- any guys that have any questions on the process- email me. I can give you some advice ( I am not a professional on this, but can help some)

2007-07-14 08:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by baron d 2

when my friend who i like asked me 2 go out 2 a water park i said ya ok ill go. and she said everyone will pay their way. (there were 4 of us now). after a while the car broke down, a mech helped us and didnt charge us. but my friend and the driver gave 10 each. so we got 2 the park and when we left the car broke down again. the driver paid for anitfreez ($10). it broke down again, then we found this guy that helped us. the driver asked me and i gave 6. my friend and her cuz gave bout 4 each. it broke down again then the drivers parents gave everyone a lift home exept me. my cab ride $12. my friend gave me 5. but i was right the whole time giving them directions and trying 2 save power on the car batt and noboy would believe me and my friends cuz was giving me a attitude and expecting me 2 pay for everything. but no one would listen 2 me. and my friend was supposed too pay 4 her cuz cuz she didnt have money. mayb it was the sircumstances but i felt like i was paying 4 everyone.

2007-07-14 08:05:32 · 2 answers · asked by ace 2 1

always curious about this and want to see what people have to say about this. HOw on earth provide alink if possible on how to join the porn industry and become a star there.

2007-07-14 08:01:06 · 11 answers · asked by fijihunkinca 2

i've met my mothers 2nd cousin recently. but i did not see him since i was child, but my problem is im begening to like him becoused we have comunication ever since the day we intruduced. he send me sweet notes, and he cares for me a lot and i can feel that he like me too. we sleep together and he kissed me. but i ignore it as if im in a deep sleep pls. help me what should i do

2007-07-14 08:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 07:44:10 · 8 answers · asked by jane 2

I dont know why but he just does lol its really funny and stupid though lol

2007-07-14 06:34:23 · 2 answers · asked by Brookie Baby 1

My hubby had an affair , i was pregnant on our 5th child when it started, i didnt prove what was going on until my baby was almost 2, i knew in my heart about it but he was so sly and and decieveing and he kept denying it and twisting my thoughts that it took a long time before i could prove his affair and put a stop to it.
He said he didnt love me, that he was only ending things with her and staying me with for our children.
Its been almost 2 years now since his affair, now he says it was his mistake and he was messed up and that he loves me.

The thing is, i have no feelings for him anymore, ive tried, im still here, i love him kinda like a brother,but i really do not love him anymore , Am i wrong to not love him ?

2007-07-14 05:38:22 · 12 answers · asked by ☆♥ Tinkz Baby! ♥☆ 6

okay so i hvae a frined....she thinks shes God, and its really annoying, cuz she told me, my sister and my BFF that we were going to hell, she was like, implying that catholics dont go to church, and tht just cuz we dont go to church evry friggin day of our lives, we horrible ppl, i mean, i beileve in God, but is this right? and what should i do?

2007-07-14 04:58:56 · 27 answers · asked by deleted 3

We've all have made mistakes throughout life, but we want to make changes. Then when we do people continue to bring up my mistakes. How can I work on not critisizing others about their wrong doings, because I sure get angry when someone brings up my mistakes.

2007-07-14 04:56:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 04:00:20 · 18 answers · asked by manu 2

The thing he dosent understand is that I am 3 months pregnant, and have been extremely tired and very nauseated. I admit to sleeping alot lately, but my body is telling me to sleep. I am not lazy, just tired. Also I am a germaphobe, I hate dirty, yucky things, and he says " you need to just bite the bullet and clean those things that grosss you out", well it makes me ill, and i cant stand things that smell funny. Is he right to keep yelling and criticizing me because of my nonproductivity lately(just since becoming pregnant), or should he give me a break? Please help me by giving me any suggestions you can...our relationship is falling apart because of this.

2007-07-14 02:49:11 · 17 answers · asked by Smiley 4

2007-07-14 00:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by manathu 1