I'm in a relationship for 1 1/2 years, living w/ the guy. Everytime I try to say ANYTHING, literally, i'm told i'm stupid, i don't make sense, shut up. I feel like i'm walking on eggshells & have to pre-think everything for an hour before I speak it. If I make a small joke or say anything funny, i'm told it's a TURNOFF to be silly. If I don't do something, I get told about it, then when I do that something another time, i'm asked why i'd do something stupid like that. I feel like no matter what I do or say, there is no pleasing. I'm not even myself anymore. I'm normally happy-go-lucky & fun-loving, but with him i'm not allowed to be, i have to be "serious" 24/7. I've tried to break up about 10 times now & everytime he convinces me to stay, saying he needs help, but never gets it. Now, we're supposed to get married. He never proposed, just "said" we're getting married next month. Please help, any advice is greatly appreciated. I live in fear of my every move, making sure i'm pleasing.
2007-07-17
17:00:18
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Laura
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