Other - Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

im divorced and hav 2 kids and live on my own and even then my mum controlles me to the extent that its becum suffocating she even cums to live with me cuz she dus not think i shud live my own life im very unhappy about situation .thanks for all support, silky1978

2007-07-19 23:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by silky1978 2

you see, me and my dad are not that close, and i think this might affect me in the future..i mean, we barely hug, is this wrong especially to girl in her teen years?

is it just me who isn;t close with my dad, i mean he came home drunk one night and i was awoken by this, and i heard him saying stuff about me being older now, and growing, and our relationshipgrowing apart as well, he even said that we don't even hold hands anymore, and i was hugely affected by this... i mean come on, he's my dad...

pls..help..

2007-07-19 23:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyInPunk 2

l have a sister who is a talkative,she talks too much as if there is no tomorrow, she tells her secrects to everyone unknowly and latter she will feel so bad about it,she is 25 years old,she said she dont know what is wrong with her,that she tried so had to controls her mouth but is not possible.l feel so pity for her, cos she talks she cant controls her month and latter she feel bad and cry,l just want to know
1)IF IT IS A SICKNESS

2)WHAT WILL HELP HER CONTROLS HER MOUTH OR TALK LESS

3) ANY ADVICE FOR HER WILL HELP PLEASE

2007-07-19 22:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

well when ever i got to cut someones grass they say no come back later or whatever and i dont make money. my neighbor is the only one that lets me but he moved and he owes me over $100$ and im mad. help please

2007-07-19 19:42:41 · 7 answers · asked by Carol G 1

Today I went to that park with her and she sounded like she was going to kill her self I'm really worried about her. But I dont know what to do.

2007-07-19 19:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really unhappy. No one gives a damn about me! I don't know what to do anymore. I wish this would just be over!

2007-07-19 19:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ B ♥ 4

he advice me love me ,but he was married ,i m not able to control myself i love him ,too i m calling him but he is not piking my phone,i m missing him badly .plz advic me wht to do ,i m very much depended on him.now all of sudden i m lonely.

2007-07-19 18:51:17 · 4 answers · asked by Tina S 1

about having 2 drug addict parents along with being hated by the person I love?

2007-07-19 17:56:46 · 1 answers · asked by Stuff 3

He left to go on a cruise on WED night. he was supposed to leave thur morning from MIAMI. hes really attractive and hes always talkin to other girls on the phone.. well i tried calling the hotel he was "stayiN" at.. and they said he never checked in there... and his cell has been off. and he hasnt called in over a day.. i dont know what to do :( everyone says hes quite the studd & flirtt. and i think he might be cheatinnn.,

2007-07-19 17:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by chubbymonkeyaiden 1

A friend of mine is in the hospital right now because every relationship she steps into with a guy, she's always being physically abused. & she keeps getting hurt because she leaves 1 guy for another, thinking the new guy is "Mr. Right". Well, today she got sent to the hospital because this guy got her pregnant & she thought that if she get pregnant for this guy, then her ex would leave her alone. Well, her ex found out that she's pregnant & now she wants to get an abortion, & the guy who got her pregnant beat the life out of her when he found out her abortion plan. & on top of that, she lost the baby & when he choked her, she bit down hard on her tongue. How long would it take for her to recover from the tongue injury? She has to get stitches. So him beating her up killed the baby. Now what? & this guy who put her in the hospital was a 1-night stand & not a boyfriend. This is like the 5th guy she's been abused by, & this is the WORST scenario. 1st time being hospitalized.

2007-07-19 17:46:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no motivation
I feel tired and listless
I would rather sleep or lay in bed for 12 hours than get up
I feel bored all the time
I don't have any close friends, someone who I could talk to or look to for support.
About once a month, I get very upset about something, to the point of extreme crying, anger, and feeling suicidal
I have no hobbies
I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 7 years, but I feel very unimportant and forgotten by him.
I'm always "nagging" him to spend some time with me, but I never know what we should do. Is it unreasonable to expect someone to just talk, or hang out and be bored together? He's got his hobbies, and everything I suggest for us to do is never fun or entertaining enough for him. But I'm just tired of being alone all day. We live in the same house, yet I still feel very alone.
I cannot keep up with my housework or basic responsibilities at home, even though I don't have a job.
I'm here all day and feel no sense of accomplishment at
the end of the day.
I have 2 children who I love very much, but I feel so guilty for not playing with them enough or interacting much.
I just feel totally useless and like a bad parent and a lame girlfriend who isn't worthy...
What can I do?
I don't have much if any of a sex drive....
No motivation to do anything constructive and nothing to look forward to.

2007-07-19 17:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by a person 3

what happend was i have been trying to get a job for so long and at the same time i was trying to get on a tv show so that i can perform and i was talking to my sister about it and she said that she think's that i didont realy want to work because she thinks that i am putting my music first which is not true and it hurted me for her to say that because i realy have been trying to get a job and today my mom had confronted my sister about it and now shes being in denial that she did not say that stuff to me.should i have kept it to myself or did i do the right thing by telling my mom the truth by telling my mom how my sister hurted my feelings?

2007-07-19 17:15:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work 12-10 , 4 days a week and got into the habit of staying up late, and sleeping till i go to work,, now it seems like all i do is sleep and work, whats the best way to break out of this pattern so i can sleep at a decent time and wake up refreshed to get my active life back??

2007-07-19 17:14:51 · 1 answers · asked by angela j 2

I DIDN'T WRITE THIS YARP DID BUT I'M HELPING SO PLEASE VOTE FOR THIS GIRL SHE SEEMS SO SWEET.
YARP:

Okay, she is best friends with this girl who's having a Super Sweet Fourteenth and wants to get it on tv. All her friends are getting people to vote and stuff. I don't know her that well but she is really really nice and it would be cool if the party was covered by MTV. My friend that's best friends with the girl, Briana, asked me to post this here and ask you guys to vote and help her?

It would be so nice if you would. If you do make sure you vote for overall at the top, outfit, invitation, gift, venue, theme, and whatever else there is.

http://mysupersweet16.com/accounts/BrianaKirkland

You are really nice if you vote for this person you've never met so she can have the best birthday ever. Thanks



I COPIED THIS FROM YARP I WANT THAT GIRL TO HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY EVER SO I'M HELPING!!!

2007-07-19 17:07:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in southern cali. I have lost a loved one and would like to bury some of their ashes at a cemetery. Anyone know approx costs for this?

2007-07-19 16:48:29 · 1 answers · asked by Steve V 3

im 15 and i havent seen my grandma for 2 weeks and i miss her. she never calls me. when i call, there is no answer. she is always busy. she is very popular and always hanging with her friends. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help! this is going to be another day wasted! btw her name is nancy. i left her a message a few days ago and she still wont call me back. she is in town. my parents wont help me. i cant remember what house she lives in. so dont tell me to personally visit her. i never go this long without hearing from her. i cant mail her. what should i do? tomorrow is wasted. everyone keeps turning me down. i need my grandma more than ever. i miss her hugs and kisses. she wont return my calls. i usually see her once a week. she isnt sick. i cant stop crying. i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so bad. i need her in my life. she is the best thing that has ever happened to em. <333. what should i do? it hurts so bad!

2007-07-19 16:46:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend love sme very much it bothers me sometimes that we have very little if anything in common, i asked him if it ever bothers him he said he never thought about it, it has never been a problem or anything for him,

i am suprised he has never givne it much thought why??

he doesnt think about things as much as i do, my minds always going and im not sure why, he is very sweet to me and loves me alot hes not good with words though lol idk why the interests thing is more of an issue for me than it is him i wonder why hes never given any thought to it?

2007-07-19 16:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by bobbo 1

Maybe a resident from Los Angeles California

2007-07-19 15:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by Guess 1

Okay, so I've noticed that many people on here have strong beliefs about sex before marriage and tend to put others down when they admit to having sex in their teens or before marriage. I want to know why the majority of people here feel that they are the "right" ones [morals/religious beliefs/etc.] and that the people who have engaged in sex before marriage are "wrong". My question: why do you feel the need to lable people as "bad/wrong/dirty" if they have had sex before marriage.

Before you dismiss this question can you please for one day think outside of yourself and see from another point of view. That's all I really ask. Just one day.

2007-07-19 15:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by Liar. 3

This guy has been my friend since I was in 3rd grade. There was a group of 4 of us at church and we've been best friends for almost a decade now. One of them used to go to my highschool and we were best friends, but he went to Germany because his parents were missionaries. When my best friend moved to Germany my close friend moved into his house. He started going to my school and I left all my old friends to make him feel welcomed. By doing this I permanetely lost touch with my old friends, and I'm starting to hate my close friend. I have such a huge grudge on him. He does whatever he can to purpously make me angry, and theres a look he gives that makes me want to shoot his foot. I can't imagine how my Junior year will be like when I have to hang out with a close friend that I pretty much hate now. I'm so confused on what to do and all my old friends are gone now. Any ideas?

2007-07-19 15:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 14 year old an 11 year old, a 9 year old and a 15 year old. However, the 14 year old is extremely immature. Sometimes I find it hard to belive he is 14. He acts like the 9 year old. So, in your opinion, what should the bedtimes for them be?

2007-07-19 15:29:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

And how did you resolve it?

2007-07-19 15:24:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi could you right me a birthday message and star me for good luck thank you xxxxxxxx

2007-07-19 15:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by <3...lessthanperfect...</3 2

I have a best guy friend.... we are dating. He has told me he loves me and i have told him this too. Before we started dating we always talked about how we were gonna buy a house together and have kids. His dream is to be a dad and my dream is to be a mother of 3 sons. I also want to have a job outdoors but anyways. How do I know.... he is the one?
He's already a part of the family . We all consider him family. My parents consider him one of their own. Same with his family. We've never had sex. How do i know that he is the man i should marry when i've never had a boyfriend except for him who has always been there.

2007-07-19 14:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by L 1

I am asking seriously, my husband asked why I don't and I was under the impression it was bad for your stomach... caused ulcers.

2007-07-19 14:52:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 23 year old college student who has family in SoCal. My parents right now are having a lot of problems and I think my mom is up for a divorce. My father has abused us all emotional and mentally for a long time. I don't have much money and I would have a place to stay @ my cousins house. But she is married w/ 2 kids and I would feel like an intruder. I am interested in applying to schools in LA, but i'm afraid that i have past the deadline. Maybe i could try a community college for starters? Would I need a car? Money for an apartment? A job? Wow! how would I go about doing this all on my own, in a huge city where I don't really know anyone or anything? I keep going back and forth about moving there or not. But I know that my home environment right now is not healthy for me and I have become depressed as a result. What should I do? Anybody give me some pointers? Some help?

2007-07-19 14:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not all of them, grandma is a saint..

But I'm talking like the ones you see in public. In their cars they either get right up on your tail- or if they are in front, slow down like a snail.

For instance, I went to the post office, and had to mail a package to my sister the other day on my lunch break.This old grandma type lady was also walking in, and I held the door open, she like " I can get it ", so's I let her get in front of me in the line, after I get my mail, doesn't even give me a "thank you", sees me with my one little package, and goes about getting money orders for every bill in the last six months. She made the mail clerk read it back to huh twice!!! Then she wanted to see every stamp they had in the joint, and argued about the price of it! By the time she got done, I didn't have time for a cigarette and a coffee for lunch. Can you believe this? I'd rather deal with teenagers any day...they get a bad rap, but most are good kids, but some of these old folks..forget it

2007-07-19 14:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy. but, i always have trouble on what to say. like conversation starters. i dont know why, but i can never think of something to say to start a convorsation. so can you help me out? like give me some convorsation starters and some tips? thanx a lot. btw. im 14.

2007-07-19 14:03:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19, in college and its hard keeping youre legs closed when youre enviorment is eating breathing and sleeping sex. I would love to hear what you think and hear tips to stay pure.

2007-07-19 13:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by angelablsy 2

He is 26. Into all kinds of gadgets, video games, movies, sports but he seems to have everything. On my birthday we were only together for about 3 months and he took me out to dinner and then to see Cirque du Solei.

2007-07-19 12:45:02 · 1 answers · asked by Micaela 1