is my boyfriend cheatingg..?

Question

He left to go on a cruise on WED night. he was supposed to leave thur morning from MIAMI. hes really attractive and hes always talkin to other girls on the phone.. well i tried calling the hotel he was "stayiN" at.. and they said he never checked in there... and his cell has been off. and he hasnt called in over a day.. i dont know what to do :( everyone says hes quite the studd & flirtt. and i think he might be cheatinnn.,

UGHHH u guys are right... when he gets back ima talk to him!! and yeah..... this happens everytime i date someone :( grrrrr

Answer 1

Don't jump to any conclusions....give him the benefit of the doubt until you get the chance to speak to him.

I wanna know why you weren't going on the cruise with him. Who did he go with?

Answer 2

if he went on a cruise then he prolly doesnt get reception. Although if you called the hotel he was supposedly stayin at and they said he never checked in? hmmm...sounds kinda fishy! when you do talk to him again just fill him out and see how his trip went, play cool dont act jealous or suspicious...Until he starts bringing the hotel part up..catch him in a lie. Dont let him know you called the hotel just see if he starts talkin about him stayin there an then see if the story matches up. If he is lieing kick his butt to the curb! Always keep your gaurd up no matter what! by you saying hes very attractive and flirty could mean hes prone to cheating. Dont compliment him all the time to where he thinks hes the "****" b/c then he knows you should be lucky to be with him so he can take advantage of you whenever he wants. Hes knows you think hes hot so he can cheat and then try coming back to you! Dont play that game...you are too good for that! Goodluck!

Answer 3

If you suspect that he is cheating then he is cheating. Think about it he has not called you in a day and the hotel he so called checked in he has not. Don't you see he may not have even left town and might be in another part of the city cheating with someone and you are at home worrying. Worrying about what? If he cared anything about you why would he do this to you, you know why because you allow him to and you afraid to leave him because you think that you have a good catch. No one deserves to be mistreated like that you deserve someone that will treat you with respect and that will love and honor you. Someone you can trust and have faith in and someone that will not lie to spare your feelings. Let him go do not call him anymore and when he does call or come by do not bring it up just tell him that it's over and that he needs to leave there is nothing to talk about. You know that deep down inside that he's cheating, why dwell on it move on and do you cause he is doing someone else.

Answer 4

If you know how to hack into his email account, then you'll be able to confirm. I had to do that with my husband. Not only was I certain that he was not cheating, but in the six years that we've been together, he's never shown any indication, until I read his email. WOW!!! Since '05, he's been seeing this female. Had I not performed this surveillance, I never would've known. So, do you know what I do, now? I listen to him parade around--telling me how I am the only one, that there's no one else for him. I know otherwise and when something's a fact and it's written in black and white, how can it be a lie? I also had to take additional measures and get tested for STDs. Now, I make him wear a condom. He doesn't like it, but I don't care, because he's a lying and cheating fool. I'll call him on it someday soon, but I want to wait a little longer, just in case he chooses to tell me. Am I jealous? Insecure? Angry? Nope! I can have any man I want. I am just waiting for the right time to approach him. Also, how did I get the idea that he was cheating and to hack into his email account? Gut feeling--and a strong one. You always go with your gut, otherwise it could bite you in the @$$ one day.

Food for thought.

Good luck to you.

Answer 5

usually when somebody has a feeling that someone is cheating they r right. im sorry but if u feel like he is, which u do, chances r that he is. and those r signs that cheaters leave. i think u need to have a serious talk with him, and u need to ask him to tell u the truth. if he cant look at u straight in the eyes w/out being sarcastic or anything and say that he never cheated on u, it means that he has. if he has or u just know he has for sure, u need to leave him. if u cant trust someone, u shouldnt be with them. relationships are based on trust. u need to leave him if 100% he is a cheater.

Answer 6

The guy is lying let him go. And if this is happening over and over it says you are picking the same type of guy each time. Perhaps you are to "needy" and drive them away. Perhaps you are "too giving" and drive them away.

I would think about going to your local mental health center for some counseling in the area of relationships and assertiveness.

Answer 7

Girl either he cheating or he lost his cell phone but if he didn't check into the hotel then he sum where he ain't suppose to be

Answer 8

Feeding on your insecurities may be bad to the relationship. Try to hold out on what you hear and believe more on substantial evidence than on what you play up in your mind.

Answer 9

He's using you and he's out having fun and cheating while you're at home worrying and asking Yahoo! Answers for some support.

You've sunk low as a female.

Answer 10

If he's on a cruise, he probably dosn't get cell phone reception.