Other - Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

When me n my bf first got together, I cheated for about the first1 1/2 years. Then I stopped bcuz he kissed my friend when I was pregnant. Anyways, it's been a rollercoaster and now he won't stop worrying about me leaving him bcuz he's having nightmares about out cuz an ex tried to contact me and he picked up the phone. I wasn't trying to get back with my ex, and it's driving me nuts. By the way, it's been 4 yrs. since we first got together and I haven't even talked to my ex in 2 1/2 yrs. How do I get him to let go of the past andlive in the present. We have a child and I'm sick of having to reassure him that I'm not going anywhere. He also wants to marry me, but I'm not ready, I'm young and I think marriage changes ppls relationships. Anyways, what should I do? What would you do? I want us to have a good relationship, but he's such a downer and he's so negative. PLZ HELP!!!!!

2007-07-19 12:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by Jenel 3

I'm now 15 weeks pregnant, my fiance left when was 12 weeks pregnant for work in mexico city. He sent an email explaning that the person who promised him a job lied, and he has no work, or money to write, or call or to eat, he says he's lost 12 lbs since he's been there. I put 50 dollars credit on his phone but every time I call it kicks me to the voice mail and says it's full. I write him about 3 times a day, he borrowed a few pesos to send me that email but all the emails i've sent him are telling him that i have money to buy his plane ticket to come home, but I won't buy it until I talk to him or receive an email from him. Am I correct for doing this? Am I stupid for even thinking he's going to return to me and our baby? I have his mothers phone number but I haven't phoned her yet, should I? My mind is racing a million miles a minute---and I don't need any smart A$$es either please, I'm severly depressed and this is not a healthy thing during pregnancy...can someone help me???

2007-07-19 12:16:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My in-laws treat my children(from another marrige) different from their grandchild. I am ready to snap, but afraid since we are staying with them that they will say leave. What I want to say is till you treat your other grandcchild like crap keep away from my kids. I mean my children can be doing the same thing and they will get yelled at but the others wont. What can I do?

2007-07-19 11:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by cupidangelgirl2002 2

How do I find information on efficiencies in Raleigh, NC? Who could I talk to or where could I go? Any thing... thanks

2007-07-19 11:43:34 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1

What do I do if my boyfriend really has no preference in hairstyles, makeup, clothes, etc? He seems satisfied with everything, it's driving me crazy! He says, "Oh, I love all the things you do with my hair." And, "Any way you do your makeup makes you look beautiful." Are there any guys that are similar to this? I'm going nuts over it. We've been together for so long now and he seems to love everything!

2007-07-19 11:26:44 · 25 answers · asked by gratitude monster 2

My bf asked me if I would give him a golden shower. It seems kind of kinky and Im interested to give it a try, but I dont know much about it. Im trying to find out from some of the women out there: Has anyone done this before? How exactly do I do it to him? And where do I go on him exactly?

2007-07-19 11:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 11:11:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to make my ex jealous but I dont know how!

2007-07-19 10:52:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I recently went out with a guy, and we were the typical teenage couple that lasted a month. He confessed that he had feelings for me, but I had absolutley no connection with him- WHATSOEVER. When we kissed or made out, I felt no connection, it was just touching and lips, nothing more, even though he got horney from it, and I began to start hating him because he would always get horney around me. When I broke up with him, it was a relief.
But the main thing is... I don't think I can be in love with guys. The only two people I love... are girls. And not sexually at all, just this romantic love, and I know they'll never love me back how I love them.
I'm pretty sure I'm straight, because yes, a guy with a d*** turns me on, and I don't feel any sexual lust for women. I just feel... lust for guys and love for girls, does that make sense? My friend feels the same way about relationship, but doesn't know I love her. Can someone help me? Thank you.

2007-07-19 10:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by Snow White Queen 3

i just got a new dog 3 months ago. and she had an accident. and i didnt clean it up fast enough and my dad stated yelling at me and i was reading somthing and he ripped the paper outta my hand so i yelled at him back and then he hit me 2 times on my leg. it left a red mark. im only 15. would this be considered as child abuse? if i did call the number what would i need? should i call today when my dad is here or tomororw when im not in tears and when hes working? if my dad said i hit him but i didnt would they listen to him or would they listen to me? how does it all work!! help me please im in a bad situation.

2007-07-19 10:33:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 10:25:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the best way for someone to go about this? When there is a picture of you leaning back on someone so that you can get a picture taken.....but it was on your friends birthday at a club, and the person you were with ment nothing to you. (plus you have not even talked to them since that night).

2007-07-19 10:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by daddys_princess_star 2

If not where can I bring it?

2007-07-19 10:15:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's say a person fell in love w/ someone, but they were famous and seemed impossible to reach....and they're willing to do almost anything for that person. Where should he start or...should he even try?

2007-07-19 09:55:52 · 1 answers · asked by Best Answer 2

ok for a couple of weeks know my sis is fighting with her boyfriend and is getting my crazy
ok well it all started that my sis friend which is a boy called her and all they said was
sis: hellow
firend: hey, wait i need to go can i call u later
sis:bye
it was 2 second call and that is it
well my sis firend whitch is a boy called my sis bf telling him that she called him and then the boyfriend got pissed at my sis and he told her to not talk to guy firneds and she said that she can talk to anyone she likes beacuse that is her friend and they never talked in a lont time and if wasnt for her my sis bf adn her firend woulndt meet
but themn the bf gets all amd saying that i dont talk to girls and all that and my sis is like well we dont have the same thoughts
so they broke up and she is pregnant with his child
so i dont know who is right
i think is my sis beacuse she can talk to anyone she wants just as firends

2007-07-19 09:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 20f. Ok, so this friend of mine who is a guy has been texting me a lot lately. Its about silly things like making bets or deals. He text messages me stuff and sends me emails and things. He keeps asking me in a joking way when I am going to paint his nails. And this keeps happening over and over, at least 4 times a week. And he always wants to make a bet that if I win he has to paint his nails and if he wins he gets to do something to me. Don't get me wrong he is still a really nice guy and a great friend. How do I get this to stop what should I do? Girls if you where in my shoes what would you do about this? Should I just paint his nails next time he says anything?

2007-07-19 09:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by NDK35 1

Why do girls complain and say that they hat low-life guys. They say that they want a guy who is doing something with his life. They say they want a guy that wont cheat on them or play them. They say they want a guy who would wont them for more than just sex. They want a guy thats a one women man but.......

When that kind of guy they lookin for shows up. They hardly will even give him a chance. But they go and choose the kind of they thats total opposite of what they wanted. A low-life, or a guy that will treat them like crap.

2007-07-19 08:51:27 · 2 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3

isnt it just as bad

2007-07-19 08:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing someone now sinse january and I care for her very much, she is just what I need and life just gets better with her by my side but I keep thinking of my ex who I was absolutly besotted with and loved with all my heart but she drove me to insanity with her evil twisted way so I dumped her. I wish I could remove all memory of her but I can't, I only ever think of her when I'm alone and sometimes I miss her, my girlfriend knows that I still have feelings for the ex and understands, even though I love my girlfriend I don't think I'll ever be "in love" with her and feel like my heart is cheating on her which makes me feel bad. what on earth can I do?

2007-07-19 08:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know how and where to go to get a personalized outdoor planter for a garden mausoleum?
I have just recently buried my husband at Queen of Heaven outdoor garden mausoleum and I noticed in the bench where they put flowers there were some planters with the persons picture and dates of birth and death, but I do not know where to get this. The person at the cemetary said that a lot were home made or by a monument place but I thought someone would know. I have an idea but I want to know where to go to get the photo encased so I can glue on my outdoor planter
thank you so much for your ideas!!!!

2007-07-19 08:03:52 · 1 answers · asked by sandraplay1 1

2007-07-19 07:58:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we started dating we got along great. It was days of flowers and he constantly doted on me. The last semester of college was rough and I helped him through it and recently supported him through a job change where he is happier, but things have been weird since he is always stressed/tired. He went into his masters-online and now he barely has time for me even though we live in the same house! It seems like he's lost interest even though he swears he's totally into us. I tried to spice things up but nothing. He's always busy with schoolwork and starts it the moment he gets home until 1AM. I'm starting to get really lonely and having trouble supporting him. Now,at his new job he doesn't have time to call me at lunch and says he's ok with just spending time whenever we can while I think it's wrong to almost ignore someone you live with/love. I've mentioned my issues with him and he says I'm being ridiculous/doesn't see a problem. I love him but I'm afraid that I need more affection. ?

2007-07-19 07:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anchor Girl 2

2007-07-19 07:36:09 · 1 answers · asked by faithpapa 1

Okay, now everyone knows I am gay including my freinds..
But now I have a problem, my little sister thinks she's gay now she's only 17 years old and ever since she heard me say that I was gay she all of a sudden is gay to..My best friend said it's because I gave her that idea and since everyone is okay with it she wants to be different to..Is this true! I am confused...

2007-07-19 07:27:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our government has turned into a soap opera and just as silly and outrageous as the best of the day time dramas. Over the past 2 years we have had, drunk drivers, sex with interns, a war no one can agree on, divorces, thieving, Nancy P fighting over which government airplane she will get, bigoted statements, stupid statements, a president who can not find the door to get out of a press conference, a vice president who shot his partner while bird hunting, and a big sleep over for apparently no reason. Not one single thing has been accomplished since the last election. The Dem and Rep parties each just blaming each other for everything. Will the American people ever get tired of this and stop reelecting the same fools on both sides?

2007-07-19 07:22:19 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 5

2007-07-19 07:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's almost 33 and I'm 39. We had been dating for 7 months. He didn't tell me that he had applied before we met. He didn't tell me until a few weeks before he got the call. I am still in shock but reality has hit that we are obviously on very different paths in our lives. I could never see myself as a military wife or in that environment. I'm a career woman, don't want kids at this point. If he had told me when we first met, I would have ran the other way. I am very attached to him and he is a really nice guy so it makes it very hard but I had to break it off because what kind of future do we have together? At this point in my life I am looking for a real relationship with a man that is available physically and emotionally. Military life is very hard emotionally and physically on the body and mind. He is not in a position to give me what I truley want and deserve. He signed up for 6 years. He's 99% sure he is going to Iraq. We had a nice talk and I wished him the best.

2007-07-19 06:00:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 05:45:19 · 49 answers · asked by shanekeavy 5

Been with my wonderful girl just over a year, when we started seeing each other i joked and said, aye engaged in a year, married in three, and i was pretty serious about it. bought a ring etc, but before i coudl give her it we had an unplanned pregnancy and miscarriage. i crumpled and never gave her the ring, this hurt her badly. she wants us to try for a baby, but isn't bothered about getting married now, says it doesn't matter, that getting engaged with just be a reminder of when we didn't and that having a kid is a bigger commitment anyway. i don;t want to try for a kid yet, i want ot be engaged, i want to be married, then i want to have children with her. we fight about it now and then, and if i could i'd turn back the clock, propose and hope she didn't miscarriage....

i'm in so much pain, i am hopelessly in love with her but i have failed to give her what she wanted, what she needed again and again this year. Feel like a failure, what can i do to make things better???

2007-07-19 05:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by Derek J Kered 2

ok, this seriously is no joke and uh I looked it up on my phone bill, so it's not a lie: there is this guy and he likes me a lot, we have been friends since 6th grade, and he liked me more than a friend at the time. In 7th grade he started getting obssessed and my friend gave him my phone number, b/c she didn't think it would be a prob. Now these are real amounts below:

He calls me: 43 times a day

He txt messages me: 62 times a day

(those are the highest numbers, below are the lowest numbers)

He calls me: 27 times a day

He txt messages me: 42 times a day

I have asked him politely to stop many times, he has said okay but he just keeps doing it. I then tried asking rudely and he got mad at me and said I just care about you but fine whatever I will stop, but then he continued. His txt messages are uncomfortable sometimes too and he talks about like what he is going to name our kids and like I love you baby. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~Genevive~

2007-07-19 05:35:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous