What do I do if my boyfriend really has no preference in hairstyles, makeup, clothes, etc? He seems satisfied with everything, it's driving me crazy! He says, "Oh, I love all the things you do with my hair." And, "Any way you do your makeup makes you look beautiful." Are there any guys that are similar to this? I'm going nuts over it. We've been together for so long now and he seems to love everything!
2007-07-19 11:26:44 · 25 answers · asked by gratitude monster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
With problems like these, I think you are doing pretty good. lol
I think you are looking for a problem where there is none.
Thank your lucky stars that this man is really into you.
I think you got 45 messages of validation to tell you that this is true...maybe you needed to hear it today?
If you want a controlling guy who is going to critique you on your hair, clothes and makeup, then the one you are with is not for you (and if you leave him you are crazy-hang on tight to this guy! ;)
2007-07-19 12:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by sunshineday2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And so he's being truthful and giving you a very high compliment. The problem with that is???!!!!
It means you are free to select what you like. You are so beautiful to him that anything you wear is also beautiful. Some women are just like that, and when we LOVE that person, it makes it even greater.
What the HECK is the problem!?
Either that or.....if he selects something and then you make him suffer with a string of ongoing pis.s.ing and moaning about what he chose that he has now decided that the best way to peace is to just be your yes-man......women love that garbage for some reason. Please don't tell me you're *that* kind of woman.
2007-07-19 19:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen very carefully, I will type as slow as I can.
Men
don't
care
about
fashion
or makeup, or hair, or anything much in those general schools. We think women look best when naked, mussed, and sweaty. Men generally have three different levels that they register appearance on: ugly, nice, stunning. To be ugly, you have to look diseased or deformed, to be stunnign you have to be a professional body (model, stripper, etc.), nice is the huge window in between.
Be happy that he likes you, and do your hair the way you like the best.
2007-07-19 18:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'd be worried IF my guy had very clear opinions about how I should wear my hair and make-up! My thoughts are that he'd either be gay or domineering. You are fortunate and seem to have a loving, sweet man. Give him a big kiss!
2007-07-19 18:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just in love with everything about you. There are guys out there that are just that much in love. Be happy you have found a special guy.
2007-07-19 18:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by WCLynxGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are not worried about your hair, make-up, clothing etc.
I mean no insult, but a lot of them can't tell that your make-up is different.
Either do what you like, or get the opinions of your female friends. that is just the way he is; don't worry about it.
2007-07-19 18:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your complaint? He sounds a lot like me. He is truly in love and finds you beautiful regardless. Try asking him his favorite hairstyle or "look".
2007-07-19 18:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly is your problem. Obviously the man loves you for who and what you are. Count yourself lucky and quit looking a gift horse in the mouth!
2007-07-19 18:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance is the same way. he likes everything about me. I have a hard time deciding if its because he loves me so much, or he is just being "safe". I decided that it doesn't matter what he really thinks. its what I feel. if he can't accept that then he will speak up.
2007-07-19 18:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, yes. honestly, they don't even notice the changes most of the time. there's not much u can do about it...that's just guys for ya. so do ur hair and makeup however YOU prefer.
2007-07-19 18:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Kristabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋