Other - Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

2007-07-21 23:17:25 · 22 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

I love sex don't get me wrong but I just never get....there. Lol. Believe me it's not the men. My question stems from my problems in serious relationships where my partner eventually feels like he can't please me in bed. I've tried everything tryable (if that's a word) and honestly I'm ok but "they" never are. In my next relationship should I just fake it every once in a while to avoid problems later on and to keep him from feeling inadequate.

2007-07-21 23:09:00 · 11 answers · asked by hmmm 2

2007-07-21 23:01:59 · 19 answers · asked by JENNIFER R 1

2007-07-21 21:44:14 · 1 answers · asked by ctaylor1229702000 1

I was loving a girl for three years and she refused me totally...Now after she got married to another guy,had a child and i recovered from the mental damage ,now she wants to have sex with me . What should i do and what is the bloody psycology behind her behavior......?

2007-07-21 20:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by suresh k 2

I lost my second born to SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) 17 years ago.. He was born December 20th,1989 (was due on Christmas Day) and we lost him on February 10th,1990 (he was buried on Valentines Day)..he was only 6 weeks old...while Ive long ago learned to accept it and stepped forward with my life ...still to this day on the anniversaries of his birth and death and on Christmas I somewhat withdraw from everything.I feel his absence so intense on those dates it still hurts even after all this time.Each and every year I buy an ornament for the tree with his name engraved on it as well as the year (it helps me) it makes him a part of that Christmas.But I STILL dont celebrate Valentines Day (at all) ..Its a holiday reserved to represent love but for me its the anniversary of the date our loss was made final :( ... is there anyone else out there who can relate??..who's maybe suffered thru this themselves?? and if so... is there any way to make it easier???

2007-07-21 19:36:01 · 2 answers · asked by Suzan S 2

it is often said..."if u really love some1 set that person free..if he comes back to u ..then he is urs..otherwise.just think that he was never yours"...do u believe in this n why?

2007-07-21 19:20:22 · 9 answers · asked by pink_b 1

Well.. we broke up like 4 days ago =/ bcuz I started falling for my friend n kissed her (online) n my ex gf who lived in Cali doesn't want to talk to me anymore. The problem is I told her how sorry I was for not telling her sooner that I didn't feel the same way about her, I also let her lash out at me n I told her everything n said that I still wanted to be her friend n talk. I know I messed up and I feel terrible about it :( just a few minutes ago I threw up in the bathroom from crying so hard. I miss her like crazy, I lost my best friend, and I called her about 25 minutes ago to tell her that I'm sorry for the things I told her yesterday. Bcuz, I logged onto this game that she got me to play, n all my stuff was gone, which she took, she cussed me out and I lashed out at her. I never did before that day n I called to apologize.. she wasn't remorseful about anything, even though I was... and it hurts me a lot. please some1 talk to me on msn. my messanger is Mintrified@hotmail.com thnx

2007-07-21 19:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I recently took in a 15 year old girl who was living with her 20 year old boyfriend. Her mother chose her husband over this young girl and threw her out. To make a long story short...she is now living with us and we take care of all her needs. The problem is, she wants her boyfriend to spend the night here at my home. We said he could but they couldnt sleep in the same bed, becuse we have young children and we dont want them to think this behavior is ok. So...that didnt go over well with her, and she goes to spend the night with the boyfriend and our kids ask questions. We dont feel as if we have the right to parent her, only try to guide her in a better direction. Please help...we dont know what to do. BTW I am only 30 and my husband is 31. We know nothing about raising a teenage girl.

2007-07-21 19:02:29 · 8 answers · asked by monkey 1

2007-07-21 18:55:46 · 10 answers · asked by joe 2

do you agree?

2007-07-21 18:40:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex partly (mostly? only he knows) broke up with me recently because he felt like we were getting pretty serious and that we were going nowhere because we are different races! he said he would not be able to marry me because his parents are very traditional/strict and he wants to please his parents by marrying in his race. We're both only 20 years old! i dont intend on getting married anytime soon. but i guess he was thinking of the future, since we were getting serious. I like him so much, we're so compatible, and we've been together for like a year, yet the time we share still is always so fun and never boring! he makes me so happy and the same for him too. i feel like we can have a really good relationship, if this barrier was not there. i hate how i have no control. we are friends now, but it's different and i miss the way we used to be. is there any way around this? has anyone had/is going through a similar situation? advice/suggestions?

2007-07-21 18:31:38 · 24 answers · asked by hunnysweet787 2

hokkkay. so lemme start off with the basics. im going into 9th grade and i just moved to a new city. my old friends and i had similar personalities. we joked around about EVERYTHING and i felt like i was always laughing. most of the time we were pretty sarcastic to super preppy people...and now i LIVE in a town that seems to revolve around "abercrombie" and "hollister" and girls that say "OMG" in every sentence. so far ive only met one girl my age who is exactly as i described above. it sucks. i just really miss my friends and im getting depressed. adults that my parents meet in this town keep asking me "wont it be hard going into high school without knowing anyone?" i dont know what im trying to ask but i really needed to let this all out. i talked to my mom...she doesnt understand. shes wanted to live in this town for so long that her fantasies outshine my realities. my dad kinda understands....he sez ill make friends but im not too sure...im a little shy around new people. ughh.

2007-07-21 18:26:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 18:03:39 · 10 answers · asked by rajiv v 2

2007-07-21 17:22:14 · 1 answers · asked by asim_darwesh 1

I just want to know what birds and bees have to do with sex? Why do people refer to them when they talk about it, I just want a simple explination. I know about sex so you don't have to explain that, I just want to know the symbolization of the birds and bees. Please.

2007-07-21 16:59:04 · 1 answers · asked by Tracey D 1

uhhhhh What !!! I thought this was strange, is it just me or is that common ???

2007-07-21 16:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He moved out early this spring and has been sleeping on a floor and a futon. He works full time at Walmart, and he never asks me for anything.
Truthfully, I have a lot of guilt over how poor we were when he was a little boy. I worry a lot about whether or not he is permanently damaged by the way life was when he was little, so now I help out when I can. I pay his college tuition and offer to help him out in whatever way I can.
Should I buy him a box springs and mattress? The one I looked at is $600+ dollars at Menards and it would be a birthday present.

2007-07-21 16:00:04 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6

When would you think is a good time to tell someone about something like that? First date? When the relationship starts to look serious? When you are talking marriage? After the wedding?

2007-07-21 15:20:55 · 7 answers · asked by AJ 1

So my best friend is having a long distance relationship, and when i was on her myspace she had sent him these questions about masterbation and he replied and was talking about how much he wanted to have sex with her. She just turned 15 and I think its a little early to be thinking about sex, especially since they've never even met! Im trying to keep it to myself, but its really hard. He could be like a rapist or something! What would you do?

2007-07-21 15:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by katiee (: 4

2007-07-21 15:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by destaman 1

I have a male (30 ish) boarder for 2 or 3 weeks. The first night after dinner he said he would clear the dishes and wash up. I said no I will do them, you check out whats on the T.V or whatever. He started to clear up and I got a bit agro and said no man does the dishes in MY house. I think he felt a bit ummmmmm unwanted. It's just I feel it is my place to do the domestic things and let him relax while he is here.

2007-07-21 12:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by G G 2

Everyone has special routines they put together. Maybe its your sunday morning routine, or your 'alone time' routine. What's yours?

2007-07-21 12:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by jordan baker 1

how are some ways to cheer her up. and if not how muc time alone should i give her ?

2007-07-21 12:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by joe s 1

2007-07-21 12:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by eldude 5

if someone could post a link

2007-07-21 11:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

in a muslim family when girls move out at after school its such a big deal and all other familys say " oh she's going to move in with a boy and sleep around. and if a boy gets a american girl pregnant is okay. and i wish i could have more trust upon me and i dont do that kind of stuff until i'm married i i only want to go to a awesome college because i want to make something out of my life instead of being like my brothers who smoke crap and drink (which is forbidden in are religion)

2007-07-21 10:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by Soccergirl15 2

it looks like it might rain, but its quiet and peaceful, you can hear a few birds. I hope you have it as good.

2007-07-21 10:42:07 · 18 answers · asked by pancakes 2

She's single. I was married. My kids are adult and they will not be living with us. Its not them she disllikes.. She thinks they are nice kids. Its the fact that i already did a beautiful thing with someone else. I really love her and she loves me so much. She is trying to overcome her feelings. She s been to counselling and read about it. How can i help her do this. She has already met them and the day went very nicely. She is very open about this and it really gets her down sometimes. Im 45 and she's 37. She does want to get married and have kids of her own and she says she loves me like she's never loved anyone else and i do too. Please help me help her. It's too good a thing to lose.

2007-07-21 10:41:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My "fiance" and I were together 4 yrs.Some good, mostly bad.He was an 'internet man".Always talking to other women. While we were engaged. While we had a marriage license.He was asking them to marry him.He cheated on me in real life. Three times. I forgave.He would start fights while I was on a heart monitor.I kicked him out.I loved all I could. He wouldn't change.Now he has cancer, from smoking.He blames me for it.I wished it on him. I'm not that kind of person.I made mistakes in relationship also.He is with another woman now, I think. I sent him an e card pleading with him for forgiveness. And I forgave him for all the hurt that he inflicted on me and my daughters.I got no reply. I saw that he picked up the card.No forgiveness for me.He says he's a Christian. He quotes the Bible. I haven't seen him in 3 months...no contact except the card. I wanted to forgive him to help myself.What do I do if he refuses to forgive me???Should I write again?

2007-07-21 10:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by diecast_heart 3