I love sex don't get me wrong but I just never get....there. Lol. Believe me it's not the men. My question stems from my problems in serious relationships where my partner eventually feels like he can't please me in bed. I've tried everything tryable (if that's a word) and honestly I'm ok but "they" never are. In my next relationship should I just fake it every once in a while to avoid problems later on and to keep him from feeling inadequate.
2007-07-21 23:09:00 · 11 answers · asked by hmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't have a problem with it, it's not that I'm not satisfied
2007-07-21 23:19:07 · update #1
No, don't fake it unless your partner says it's ok.
2007-07-21 23:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't be honest about the most intimate part of your relationship, do you have a relationship? Have you ever experienced orgasm, by your own hand or whatever? If so, there is nothing wrong with you. Whatever you and your man are doing is wrong for you. You'll just have to continue to experiment until you find the right partner and method.
2007-07-22 06:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tony A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey... maybe the "men" is the problem. When you find the right "MAN", have him explore, let him know where you want touched, and what feels good. If you two Love each other, and are comfortable around one another, this should not be a problem. Men/man have No problem telling YOU what they want from you, therefore... You should have NO problem telling him what you want from him. Whatever you do though, DO NOT "FAKE" an orgasm...., You sweetie, are the one getting cheated.
2007-07-22 06:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by john's brat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT Fake It!
Explain to your partner what happens or lack there of, perhaps he'll be willing to put in an extra load of attention to maybe get you there!
Please DONT FAKE!!!
2007-07-22 06:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you waited for your husband before the first time you had sex, I gaurinte that you would have had the bigest O you could possibly immagine. Cuz God blesses those who wait, and do what he says, Dont have sex outside of marage.
You expecting a Dode flame to be the same as the flame that in a marriage that has Riaha and Ahava too.
Pretty much your looking for sex to be as fufilling outside of mariage as in it.....not possiable. sorry.
2007-07-22 06:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never fake it, guys don't like it. Can you orgasm when you masturbate? If yes, then you need to tell your mate what works for you when you do it. Guide him, don't be bossy. No negativity in the bedroom.
2007-07-22 09:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by D G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys won't say it, but whether you finish or not doesn't really matter to us. We just want to drop some, then get you dressed and out the door so we can sleep.
2007-07-22 06:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER lie in bed - NEVER fake it. You have just not met the right kind of guy that WILL lead you there - he has to be patient, slow, gentle, and above all - EXPERIENCED.
2007-07-22 06:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never, ever, fake it, just teach him how to please you, if he can't remember thats his problem & you probably don't need him anyway. Faking it is the same as lying to him.
2007-07-22 06:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No - you are cheating yourself. Practice by yourself to see what it talkes to have one, then teach him how.
2007-07-22 06:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋