When would you think is a good time to tell someone about something like that? First date? When the relationship starts to look serious? When you are talking marriage? After the wedding?
2007-07-21 15:20:55 · 7 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you, everybody.
2007-07-22 12:38:02 · update #1
When the relationship looks serious. Anytime sooner, and you may be jumping the gun, wasting your time talking about something THAT personal with someone you may or may not even be with in a few days, let alone a lifetime.
Anytime later, and someone's possibly gonna get hurt because wanting or not wanting children is a very serious thing that can and probably will make or break a relationship; it's not like whether you like tacos or pizza better!
2007-07-21 15:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by mizicepickle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are talking marriage. If someone wants to have kids, and you've already married them that could be a huge problem. It really isn't anyone's business if you two are just dating, unless they've expressed that early on in the relationship and that's their reason for being you.
2007-07-21 15:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating (in general) because you want to get married, you should make it known on the first date. If you aren't plannning on getting married it doesn't matter. But don't let someone get close to you and then drop the bomb on them. Not fair at all.
2007-07-21 15:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mention it unless you two start talking about marriage. At that point he should know everything.
2007-07-21 15:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest from the getgo, some guys like me prefer not to pro create
2007-07-21 15:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it starts to look serious and you've had discussions about your futures. any sooner and they'll think you're nuts. any later would just be wrong.
2007-07-21 15:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably while we were dating, but I woulnd't leave them cuz of it! I'd rejoice...I don't want kids!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-21 15:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋