Other - Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

We met about 2 years ago & everything was great.The only thing is he smoked pot when we met.He said I was all the high he needed & that he would quit if we were together.We have a 5 month old now.I want him 2 grow up.He's 25 years old & because of his habit I have no respect for him & basically think he's an idiot.I hate feelin like this becuz I do love him.I just want him 2 stop.He's been tellin me for 2 years,I'll quit by myself when I'm ready.No change.He told me he's only been doin it about once a month.So I got ahold of his drug dealer who I found out was one of our mutual friends & squeezed out of him that he's been spendin about $40/week on it and buyin it once or twice a week.I told him it was the drugs or me & he said u know where the door is!I'm tryin 2 figure out what Im doing.He keeps cryin & gettin upset & askin me 2 stay.He says he wants me here becuz he loves me so much but he wants 2 do whatever he wants.I don't want my baby thinkin my dad is a loser.she deserves better

2007-07-21 10:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

once they are old bangers get rid of them for a model that is nice to look at and comfortable when you get inside?

2007-07-21 10:01:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 09:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by looziegirl 1

My sister is terminally ill and I would like to get something that is from the heart. I am totally in shoke and can not think clearly. Any help is greatly appreciated.

2007-07-21 09:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by promus69 1

i just got informed that my fiance died of heart attack. i am numb all over. i feel like i just died too. there's no one to talk to right now (3:35am). how will i survive today and the following days to come?

2007-07-21 08:39:14 · 28 answers · asked by shirley g 6

My problem is with my ex-husband. We have been separated for almost 6 years, yet he still expects me to take responsibility for all the problems in his life. He kicked myself and our 2 kids out when they were 7 years old and 3months. We had been together for 9 years prior to that and he had convinced me through manipulation and degrading that he was the only thing important in my life and without him I was nothing. During the last 5 years I've spent a lot of time trying to stop thinking like this and move on with my life and have begun to succeed. This weekend I'm celebrating my first anniversary with my new husband, and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our first child together. The lat year has been especially hard for my ex to deal with and has gotten to the point where no matter what happens to him it's my fault. He calls me and tells me he can't pay his rent because I'm making him pay child support, or he can't find a new girlfriend because he's still in love with me.

2007-07-21 08:28:29 · 3 answers · asked by Lostlove 5

My cousin came over yesterday and left last night. While she was here, she was getting on my nerves. She kept calling up all my friends and cussing them out. She wouldnt get off my computer!! So I told her if she didnt act right that she was going to have to go home. I am 18 and she is 17. She said whatever and I said yeah whatever and she started to get in my face saying I need to stop being an *** hole and slapped me hard in my face. Of course I slapped her back. She started punching me and I punched her in the eye. My little sister (age 11) broke up the fight and my cousin threatened to kill me when she comes over tomorrow. She is able to get a knife, gun, pepperspray, baseball bat, anything to hurt me with. I tried apologizing but she tells me ( I am gonna kill you) what do i do?

2007-07-21 08:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

me and my partner have been together nearly 3 years now and he just cant accept my daughter and it is really annoying me he has got 2 kids from hes previous relationship and i treat them all the same they stay over on wekends but he is nasty to her ignores her if she is speaking to him always has to find something to moan about her what should i do as it is breaking me in two as i love him but at the end of the day she comes first and always will

2007-07-21 08:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister says 'SPESH' when anything is good, special or worth smiling about. She says she made this up and it's her word.

I say 'WAGGING' (as in wagging like a puppy) and sometimes even wag/wiggle at the same time, to express the same sentiment. I think my word is far superior. I think my sister secretly agrees, but won't admit it. Which do you all think is better? (ps, I am aged 30 and the sister is 32)

2007-07-21 08:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever someone talks to me, even if they just say "hi", I usually can't think of anything to say and I just smile dumbly. If I'm around people I know, I'm really loud and lively. But around people I don't know so well, my voice goes all soft so I can hardly hear myself and it gets all scratchy like I've just woken up. And if someone asks me to hang out, especially if it's a guy, I usually make up some excuse so I can avoid any awkward situations. Is there something wrong with me? Can anyone help me, or am I a lost cause?

2007-07-21 08:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3

we're both 18 and have dated for a little over a year now. i really really love him and i personally dont want him to go into the air force but its something he wants to do for our country. i'm just really nervous about the whole thing! any ideas on what i should do? should i support him or try to convince him not to go so we can pursue our relationship further?

2007-07-21 07:49:48 · 4 answers · asked by Trisha! 1

this lady was having panic attacks, and on yahoo answers she wanted help to cope with them.
i tried to help her, and then i did my best and i was polite.
then 15 or 20 minutes later, i get an email, and he says back off, what the heck? whats their problem?

2007-07-21 07:31:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought, why is the sky?

2007-07-21 06:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have told my bf my feelings (no, I know he can't read my mind). I have told him that he needs to call more, that I have been really upset lately (he has been busy at work and hasn't been there), and even talked to him about his obliviousness. I told him that he needs to ask me to hang out on his days off, and he responded that I should assume he wants to see me and just make the plans. I told him "no, you need to make plans, too." I need to feel that he is putting in effort, and that he cares about me, too. We have both been busy with work, and I am being as understanding as possible, but my feelings are starting to get really hurt. I am very confident, and I don't need a guy to reassure me, tell me he cares, or tell me I'm beautiful, but that doesn't mean that I don't ever want to hear it. He's a great bf, and I love him, but I don't know what else to do. This has come up several times in the past, and I have talked to him about it and told him how I feel. What do I do?

2007-07-21 06:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by ami6580 2

He's dropped out 3x already and my mother has paid every time. Recently she paid for a down payment on a Honda Accord ($1000, and he himself put down $3k). He still lives in my Dad's apartment and pays NO expenses and works part time as a teller and smokes pot everyday.

My mother works hard doing retail and basically spends all her money she makes on him. I just want her to save it. Now she says she won't be able to visit my kids from Colorado (we're in NJ) as much because she can't afford it anymore. Everytime she comes here she rents a car to take dinner to my brother and see him because he won't come to see her even though it is only a .5 hr drive.

Anyway, I told her I can't believe she is paying for his school again and she said she is not giving up on her son and her tone of voice sounded upset to what I said. What do I say, I just want to avoid the whole conversation because there is no talking sense into her but how? Just be silent during conversation

2007-07-21 05:18:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can't he see that I am doing important stuff here?!

2007-07-21 05:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

On the 30 of july i will be with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is always buying me flowers and surprising me with gifts. So i would love to do something special to show him how much i love him and appreciate him. All suggestions are welcome.
Thank you.

2007-07-21 04:38:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

we dated on and off for 2 years and then very serious for another year ( i got a ring we basically lived together) but see we were was to young for what we had .. i was 17 and he was 18. So things got really bad he left came back, and then i left all together. There were some things about him that weren't really acceptable in my eyes.. like he dropped out of school ( with no ged) wrecked 2 cars (more then once) didn't have insurance.wanted to have unprotected sex with me, cussed and yelled, lied..but now a year later i think about what if he changed? what if i messed up leaving him (because i still do love him) so i wen on his myspace the other day to see that he has a new gf.. now he is 20, and he is dating a 15 ( or just turned 16) year old girl that is a sophmore! is there anyway that they ever will get married? i'm scared she might get pregnant by him.. what if now he is a good bf to her. they have alot of friends together, and seem to be happy.. did i make a mistake in leavn him?

2007-07-21 04:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1

I know everyone will call me racist, but I really don't feel that it's right to marry outside of your own colour. I don't hate people of colour, or even dislike them, but I don't want this for our family. What should I do?

2007-07-21 04:20:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 02:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by xexami 1

What I am trying to know is, how many people agree with older woman and younger man relationship. Thank you.

2007-07-21 02:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by Lana_Luna_Soraya 3