Other - Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

My ex-girl called me one day and kept telling me to take her back forgiving her for starting a relationship with another guy (where in their very brief romance they had sex - she told me) .

I said if she waits for me a year without forming any relationships with guys (she's still 18) and can control herself for that time I would take her back - she showered me with lots of kisses (over the phone) said thank you a million times, promised that she'll do it and I did not hear from her since - this happened like a month ago.

Yesterday one of my friends has seen her with another guy whose not family at 10 p.m. on a mobike. WTF??? WTF am I to do??? I just feel like killing this *****!!!! WTF am I to do????

2007-07-22 22:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-07-22 21:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i speak to this girls alot and we r getting close whats something nice i can say to her? we are 15??

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2007-07-22 21:19:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I admit I was snooping because I saw a prescription drug in her bag, when she was away I looked at it and it is for people who are bi polar or epileptic. I am not sure what to do because I love my brother and I want him to be happy. This is his 2nd engagement he broke the last one off because the chick was manic depressant and he didn't want to deal with that for life, isn't that the same thing as bipolar only isn't it worse to be bipoar? I am worried about my brother and any future children.... I'm not sure if I should mention this to him, he may already know.... I don't want to cause a bad beginning for my relationship with her since she will be my sister in law, can you tell me about bipolar if you know about it please. I looked the drug up on line thats how I know what it is.
Thanks

2007-07-22 20:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by DANIELLE A 1

OK I have a really weird situation here.

My uncle wants some porn and he wants me to buy it for him. (So his wife and others do not find out about it). He pulled me aside the other day and told me what he wanted and told me to pay for it and that he would pay me back.

Obviously, this is not something I am very comfortable with. I do not view porn although I do not mind if others do as long as it is done in a private manner. AND there are no minors involved!

What now?

2007-07-22 19:38:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before he left 4 America, even the thought of living in a house without my husband used to make me cry for hours. I was worried all the time, imagining he'd come to harm and i'll never see him again once we parted, and having nightsmares (for a person who hardly dreams for months). But now that i'm alone, i have to "try" to remember that he lived in that house. I am depressed about my life, as always, but it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that my husband isn't here. I try to feel sad, & hollow & all that, because i feel i owe it to him/our marriage. But i really don't. It's confusing b/c I love my husband & i had the most wonderful 8 months with him, well.. most of it anyway :). He's definitely the kind of person who makes his absence known, especially for me whom he used to be there for & take care off like nobody ever did. However, i feel really fine about living alone and i wasn't like that before. Does this mean i've become bitter or that i don't love my husband at all??

2007-07-22 19:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Lola 1

Does this mean I still have feelings for him, or is it normal. We've been broken up for 2 1/2 years. I have a new b/f now.

2007-07-22 18:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

its not really a qusetion just type anything i just wanna get 30 answers the funniest answer will get the best answer points

2007-07-22 18:58:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a child with a guy i had been seeing for 4 years and now we have been seperated for almost 5 months and now he wants to get back together and im not sure if i want to right now but my baby misses her daddy and i feel like im depriving her of him what should i do?

2007-07-22 18:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by lydimommy1111 1

my boyfriend of 6 months who I love to death doesnt make an effort to do things. he always text me what do u wanna do 2nite.. do wanna do something tonight later on etc... or even during the day what r u up 2 what to u wanna do today... it drives me nuts b/c at the beginning he would take me on a picnic, a restruant movies and now i feel like I am the man in the realtionship... I want him to show more inniitave to go places sight seeing etc.. how will i encarage him??? without nagging..

2007-07-22 18:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by hi 1

2007-07-22 18:17:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my brother snuck into a wedding while on vacation. We were staying at "the Palace" when we see a fancy closed wedding with two security personnel. we dress up and sneek in, only to be questioned... we stuck to our story and we were in. we danced and drank (not alcohol) until, these two hot girls (true story) asked to dance with us... it was getting kinda dirty.... and uhh we stayed there for two hours. we saw both the girls the next morning and i gotta tell you, that was one of the greatest nights of my life... oh by the way we could be in at least half of the wedding pictures

2007-07-22 18:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first time I ever got drunk was also the first time for my girlfriend, who wasn't even my girlfriend at the time. I got drunk enough to kiss her and suddenly we had become each other's first partners. Since then we've both drank apart and together. But recently I became so drunk that I broke down emotionally and I decided to quit. I told her I wouldn't get drunk again, but she continues to exclaim about how great it is, as though she absolutely loves it, and it makes me wonder whether or not she might try something worse. If she does then it would be without me and I'm not very comfortable with that because what drew me to her was that she was so innocent, we both were.

Is it my place as a her boyfriend to suggest she do no more than I would?

2007-07-22 17:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by Dippy 1

A few weeks ago my cousin died and I went to his funeral. Out of no where I just broke and started to cry and couldn't stop, I got up and ran down the asiel knocking people out of the way a few tried to grab my arm, but I just yanked my arm out of the way/out of their grasp. We were close, we told eachother everything. What made it worse I witnessed what happened, he got between me and a bank robber and the bank robber shot him. I was doing my job, he was just an innocent bystander! I keep hearing his last words "I love you." over and over. 'Til I feel like I'm going insane!! Why did he have to die? Why not me? Those images and questions kept going through my head. After I turned in my badge and gun, I started to see a theripist, but it's not helping, she's to intent on trying to fix the problem by trowing more pills down my throught, so I'm changeing theripists but I know they'll probably just do the samething. Why do I feel like choke my cousin? Why do I feel like I have so much

2007-07-22 17:43:04 · 1 answers · asked by sweet heart 2

i never got wat the twice removed meant, anyone tell me

2007-07-22 17:33:44 · 5 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2

Let me Clarify:
I mean, I KNOW I'm not lesbian... guys are sexy and i luv hugging them and feeling the firmness of there bodies against my soft and slender one...their strength, the way they can lift things that I never could...the way they look deep into my eyes with a grin on their faces...how they laugh at things that I find disgusting...I LUV it ALL

Here's the thing: Everytime I start to get close to a guy (semi-romanitcally) somehow I end up hating him...DESPISING HIM...it's like a deep-rooted feeling that i can't really help. We always end up just being friends and they always ask me if I offended them somehow, i tell them no but they know that the old feelings aren't there nemore

Mind you, I'm 19, I've never had a boyfriend and have never been kissed (*sigh*) or anything. I just don't know why this alwys happens? HELP!

2007-07-22 17:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by mrshjackman 2

Ok, I am 13 and I have been babysitting since i was 12 for family. I want to babysit more but how much do I charge and I took the class from american red cross and passed! My moms friend needs a babysitter for her 2 kids (2year old and 6year old) its for weekends and maybe during the week

2007-07-22 17:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by llove mee 2

my husband and i were invited to our daughters and husband house to come over and visit,and watch a movie,and talk,we all were having a great time when the phone rang at 10:pm my son-law took the call a friend ask if they wanted visit and party ,my son-law wanted go our daughter said she did not want to go,she did not fill good , but he got up got beer out and put in a coller and getting to leave ,we could hurt in her eyes my big mouth said your dad has never left me to party ,i said iam sorry no one was mad me,he said im not going out to have sex,hes a great guy ,we got up to leave we all huged ,as we we leaving,he left to his friend house, they have been married 7 momths and have been toghter for five years ,i realy wanted to kick his *** but i said nothing ,what do you think

2007-07-22 16:48:26 · 2 answers · asked by Norma S 1

i went out with this guy a couple times and then one day i went over to his house to hang out and then he showed me his massive transformers collection, he had a double closet filled with them. i broke up with him that day. i thought it was kinda creepy for a grown man to have that many toys . was i being shallow?

2007-07-22 16:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by Smoke & Mirrors 1

We were suppose to go out the other night and I thought he stood me up ,so the next morning I sent him an email breaking up with him.Only to find out later that night he had called and left a message only someone used my phone the same time he called so it didn`t go thorough.I called and left an email apoligizing but I haven`t heard anything back.
Some people told me it would be desparate others say that if I want him back it should be no problem what should I do??

2007-07-22 16:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by rollie 2

2007-07-22 16:25:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-22 16:18:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is from Germany, and she is having a hard time adjusting to living in the USA. She went back for six weeks, and I talked to her on the phone today. She didn't sound excited about coming back in a week and a half.
I am worried that sometimes love is not enough to keep a marriage together. Advice please!

2007-07-22 16:14:05 · 2 answers · asked by baron d 2

I am 19 years old, i went to a vocational high school and now i work full time in my trade of boilers. All my friends went to a normal high school and they all go to college now. I hang out with them when they are home and go visit them at school, but im afraid that when they graduate there all going to go there seperate ways and im never going to see them again. I have regular friends but these guys im talking about are my true best friends since ive been in elemetary school. So any advice on how to get over my curent "depresion" i guese would be appreciated.

2007-07-22 15:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by vtfootball58 2

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2007-07-22 15:44:57 · 1 answers · asked by shricharsovis 1

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2007-07-22 15:32:27 · 5 answers · asked by The May Lee Show 1

If you did, would you go for the kill?

2007-07-22 15:03:37 · 81 answers · asked by wonkyfella 5

Is it common knowledge that all men will cheat at some point, whether it be frequently throughout their life or just once. My husband and I are debating and can not agree on this topic. One feels that there are still nice guys out there that would never cheat. The other believes that all men cheat eventually. We need HONEST answers only and as much feedback as possible. Thanks in advance!

2007-07-22 14:56:25 · 19 answers · asked by yankeegirl 4

2007-07-22 14:47:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

liked this guy that i work with, lets call him *Adam. We talked the first night outside for 2 hours and Adam gave me his number. Everytime at work we would just go outside and i would sit with him while he smoked. He started tell people that i was his girl and then when we went out side he would hold me and say * this girl likes me*. then one night i hungout with him and his friend. The next day he said that he only liked me as a friend...why did he say that? what did i do? when i starting talking to this other guy at work, im guessing he is jealouse cuz he just stares at me ALL day. and he gives me that look. I have been giving him the thought that i dont care well i mean im playing hard to get and acting like, i can get other guys and i dont need him. Adam wont stop staring at me and does he still like me? what are his intentions? girls what would you do??
why does he like me now?

2007-07-22 14:46:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous