my boyfriend of 6 months who I love to death doesnt make an effort to do things. he always text me what do u wanna do 2nite.. do wanna do something tonight later on etc... or even during the day what r u up 2 what to u wanna do today... it drives me nuts b/c at the beginning he would take me on a picnic, a restruant movies and now i feel like I am the man in the realtionship... I want him to show more inniitave to go places sight seeing etc.. how will i encarage him??? without nagging..
2007-07-22 18:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't complain. at least he cares if you are enjoying yourself. It could be worse. He could always take you places that only he enjoys.
Tell him that you want to start taking turns making plans unless something special comes along. Tell him that it will be a nice surpise to you occasionally, instead of you having to choose all of the time.
2007-07-22 18:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe let him know how much fun you had all those time when he took you on a date! if he does get the hint and come up with something for you guys to do, tell him how happy he made you!!
2007-07-23 01:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rainstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just suggest a few different things that way he can still choose and tell him the things that you like to do...men are really difficult sometimes especially when they get to comfortable with you
2007-07-23 01:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him that you made these plans for you all to do so and so together....It's that simple..If he doesn't want to go, I'm sure there are other guys out there that would....
2007-07-23 01:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get off his lazy ***! JK. Tell him that he is startin to get a bit lazy.
2007-07-23 01:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer him, I don't know, what do you want to do, SURPRISE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck, some guys Just run out of things :(
2007-07-23 01:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋