Is it common knowledge that all men will cheat at some point, whether it be frequently throughout their life or just once. My husband and I are debating and can not agree on this topic. One feels that there are still nice guys out there that would never cheat. The other believes that all men cheat eventually. We need HONEST answers only and as much feedback as possible. Thanks in advance!
2007-07-22 14:56:25 · 19 answers · asked by yankeegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course there are good men that will never cheat. Just look around at some couples...plenty have never cheated.
Would all guys cheat.....yes, if given the chance.....the real trick is for the guy to not let himself be given the chance. No chance, no cheat.
2007-07-22 15:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
yea i think it's pretty unfair if u say only men cheated. I mean women cheated too. In my opinion, i don't think all men will cheat. There are some nice guys out there who knows the what the word faithful means. Let me tell u a true story about me. I consider myself as a faithful guy. I have been with the girl for 16 months. Our relationship was going so strong. We both love each other more than anything. 16 months, i haven't had s*x with her yet. No problem, i respect her. I don't see that as a problem. I love her and i will respect her. But know what i got in return for being Mr. nice. She cheated on me with a guy she met over the internet. I was so heartbroken. U do not know how unhappy i was. I m still coping with the breakup. That's how hurted i was. So, let me ask u? What is the point of being an faithful guy when the one u love the most cheated on u. So, not all men cheated and not all women are being cheated on. The role can be vice versa. I hope that answered ur question.
2007-07-23 13:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by sad guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women cheat as much as men. Who do the men cheat with? I remember a survey of women in Britain that stated that at the time of the survey 50% of all married women were in an extra marital affair - so why point the finger just at males.
On saying that - no I haven't, have some of my friends yes, have some of my friends been cheated on, yes. Have some been faithfull, yes
2007-07-22 22:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Grumbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all men but I do know that I have not, nor do I plan to. What is the point of being with some one if you want some thing else? If your with them for more then sex you don't just blow it on some whore. That and you can't say all men cheat more then you can say all women do. Lets face it men and women both cheat. Once they do it they will do so again. It is those of us that don't that have to deal with it.
2007-07-22 22:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Fon Webb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think a man have to be really strong not to cheat. the ones the only ones that havent yet are:
1) the one that havent got the opportunity to cheat.
2) the one that are afraid to get caught and therefore doesnt cheat...yet
3) the good ones that never get caught
however there are men who dont cheat but the odd are very low.
2007-07-22 22:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women will always be tempted but not all will cheat. You cheat in your mind first, then look for excuses to justify it. Then you plan it and hope you don't get caught. If you do, you automatically shift into a defensive mode. One of Billy Graham's friends gave him the keys to his room because their was a lady that was willing to sleep with him during one of their evangelical crusades. He did not want to cheat but knew he couldn't handle it himself and asked Mr. Graham for help. He didn't cheat. Love, respect, decency, morality, and most of all, plain fear will help anyone not to cheat. How could you sleep knowing you hurt the very soul of someone you promised to love? How could you?
2007-07-22 22:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely not, i don't necessarily believe in marriage but do believe in monogamy. also i grew up in a house with 6 women and have been very lucky to have a job that lets me travel extensively and meet new people all the time and i can honestly tell you that women cheat way more than men.
2007-07-22 22:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by jsyco1558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated, but I'll tell you, I have claimed to just to "fit in"
nearly every one of my friends (when we were younger) bragged about how many girls he had on the line at once, so even though I never cheated I have lied and said I did.
2007-07-22 22:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is true. I think it is fair to say that "most" men cheat, but not even in the sense that they have sex with someone outside of their marriage...maybe just like flirting with the girl at the store that flirted with him first, just to let himself know he still "has it" I think is what most men like thinking.
2007-07-22 22:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of cheating..
Swear to lord, I never cheat on girls in terms of sexuality.
Cheat in business? very frequently
Cheat in study? smart cheat only but not bad student who cheat for being top of the class.
Since today, I have not cheated any ladies on purpose yet, but I think one day in the future I might because Nothing is permanent.
I do think that there is man who have not cheated yet, but there is no man on earth (in life) have cheated or will not cheat.
But talk about gay man? lol...gay man might not want to cheat on girl hahaha
2007-07-22 22:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋