I really wanna die?

Question

I'm really unhappy. No one gives a damn about me! I don't know what to do anymore. I wish this would just be over!

I live in Brazil and there's no hotline to call here!

Again, my friends and family don't really care. The only person that did was my grandma and she died, so, I'm better off dead too!

Answer 1

Aww don't say that! When things are at their worst they can only get better.. remember that! I give a damn and im here if you wanna talk =)

Answer 2

Whats your age? you seem to have a lot of time to think.

I think its a good idea to die since no one cares about you.
>>>HOLD ON!!!!<<<<
It also shows that you dont care about anybody else too. Not even your Grandma.
Cos if she had her way i am sure she would have wanted you to live more and better.mind you shes watching from top above .make her feel proud of you.

Now lets look at the brighter SIDE of things .

The very fact that you have posted over here shows that you still have the will to live.so here i suggest you follow the below:

=Stop self pity -- Love yourself and everybody will love you - it works really, sooner or later.

=Trust yourself-- do something that you are good at and make sure that you do it for a long time.

="you", Fall in love : even if its a pet down from the road - trust me it invokes the best feelings in you .

=Develop a hobby - i am sure you must be interested in something. even if it is collecting pebbles form the sea side.

=meditate with the thoughts that give you pleasure- it works a 100%- just ten minutes each time you are disturbed.

According to Hindu belief a Human takes the same Human form after going through 84,00,000 different lives (you could even become a rodent in your next life, eekk!!!).
Given that belief you will have to wait a lot longer to get the human form again so enjoy it while you can and dont waste it.

NOW TAKE A PEN AND A PAPER AND MAKE A FEW LISTS

LIST NO 1) ALL YOUR PROBLEMS on left hand side : and HOW YOU CAN SLOVE THEM on the right hand side.

LIST NO 2) ALL YOUR BLESSINGS - YOU WILL FIND MANY , I TELL YOU.

LIST NO 3 ) ALL THE IRRITATING PEOPLE you would want to avoid and on the right hand side how will you stop yourself being troubled by them.

LIST NO4) ALL YOUR PERSONAL SHORTCOMINGS AND HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE UPON THEM- ASK SOMEONE WHO COULD TELL YOU.

LIST NO 5) ALL THE HANDSOME BOYS YOU WOULD LOVE TO BEFRIEND . (I can be the first one, seriously :) )


READ the news paper and see whats on in the world ...yuou are in a much better position than most of them infact better than Mr Bush . I am sure he would love to trade places with you.

jokes apart , give yourself space from the regular thought processes that you go through when in dumps.

KEEP BUSY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOu will come out of EVERY difficulty in life whatever nature just learn to manage LIFE.

makes sense???

Answer 3

Please don't first of all. You seem like a sweet girl that is nice and kind. You must be going trough a lot right now. I wish I knew more about what was bothering you. I think to some degree you are doing the right thing by trying to get it out of you and talking about it sometimes that helps. I know how you feel I think many people have felt that way. You shouldn't however, you should be happy to be in this world even though it is a little screwed up. I bet you are an attractive and sweet girl. You just feel all alone, and like know body cares. But there are people who care, I am one or I would not be here now writing this. Your English is very, very, good. Where did you learn it? You just need some cheering up, and some time to relax and think about things. I mean if your grad mother heard you say this she would be very sad and mad. You may have depression and their are medications you could get on that may help you. If you need to talk or just to get some things out of your system you can always e-mail me just click on my picture beside this message. I will be glad to listen to you, and help in any way I can. Just try to keep your head up and don’t let those bast**ds get to you. You must have a big and kind heart to be taking this bad. Just try to calm down a little bit and things will get better. I will be thinking about you and I will even pray for you if you would like me to. Just remember not everything in life is fair, and that no matter what you do you can not please everyone, just make sure you please yourself and the those you love. Think about what your grand mother would want you to do and what advice she might give you. Well like I said I am here if you ever want to write and get some things out of you. and I will respond as soon as I can that means in a day. Well keep your head up and try to smile. :)

Answer 4

There should not be anything so awful that you want to die. Very recently a family friend killed her self. It was so unexpected. Her family is having a difficult time. It is not something that her family will get over quickly. Deceased is deceased. There is no coming back from it. Everyone has difficulty from time to time. When I myself was on the verge I had just about given up. I had to dig deep to find a reason why I shouldn't be so selfish to put my family though such grief but I took time out about a year and a half to finally get through my tragedy, but I did. Be strong !

Answer 5

More people care about u than u think they just might not show it in the way u want them to and look the people who are typing to u. They obviously care because they are trying to help u feel better so that u won't do anything to your-self that u will regret. So basically all the people who are typing to u and giving u advice care about u. So I hope u just hang in there and have faith and hope that everything will get better because u can't find out if your not there to experience it. Good Luck! And hopefully everything will work out for u in the end.

Answer 6

Everyone has times in their life when they would rather be dead than go though something. It is just temporary, but suicide is not. Just take your time and work through the problem. I don't know if you believe in God, however, sometimes praying about the situation can bring peace to your heart.

Please don't do anything foolish. Your family and friends would be hurt greatly. If you need help desperately call 1-800-suicide.

Answer 7

This may sound strange but here me out. Focus all your immidiate attention on the one thing that makes or would make you happy. Dwell on it for as long as you can. Immagine you will be that happy everyday for the rest of your life.
Rent the movie "The Secret", sit through the whole thing. I guarantee by the end of the movie you will have the tools and information that will change your entire life.

Answer 8

First thing: call a suicide or crisis hotline ASAP. Trained volunteers will listen to you and help you out.

Think about all the people who will miss you when you're gone, and all the other times you've made it through rough spots.

Answer 9

People having the best times of their liv have their lives taken for no reason. Be appreciative you have it. And don't worry people do care about you. Don't worry about it, when your an old lady youll look back at this and laugh. Value your lifeit's a great privilege.

Answer 10

First of all you need to start talking to people. If you are a teenager just remember, your parents are there for you and they love you. If you are an adult then remember your friends, children, spouse etc.

Remember this most of all:
Now matter how low you are, as long as you're alive you can do something about it.