2007-07-14 12:10:25 · 13 answers · asked by scrtlvss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not always...sometimes it might send the wrong message to the other person or make him/her lose interest. It's better to just be open and direct.
2007-07-14 12:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everything in relationships... it depends.
In highschool I was in love with a girl, who in turn loved everything about me. I could tell she liked me, but she never would date me. Years later I found out the reason she didn't want to date was because she knew she could have me, and wanted the chase. Again later in college, having learned from my past, I played hard to get and el'suavo with a girl, who lost interest in me. When I finally got around to making a decive move, she was surprised and figured I'd have made move sooner if I was truly interested. By delaying I was put in the "friend" bucket.
So, like I said, it depends a lot on who you are and where you're going. Playing too hard to get has a good chance of getting you absolutely nothing.
2007-07-14 19:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Vern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did for me.I have known this guy since we were kids and years later when we were all grown up me being 35 him 44 would flirt and beat around the bush about being attracted to each other so I played the "hard to get game"and won and it was so worth it ,this guy all that and more so good luck!
2007-07-14 19:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. It could back fire. Sometimes if you play
"hard to get" then the person who is trying to pursue you may give up, which could be bad, especially if you actually like them, but it has it's benefits because then you know that the person really likes you if they continue. My advice: secretly observe the person and see if their passion for you is still up. Then weigh the options, should you continue playing hard to get, or just give in?
Sincerely Yours,
Hitch
2007-07-14 19:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Hitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does but only if youre a girl men like the chase it makes you come off more intresting and mysterious unless you are just being a tease
2007-07-14 19:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes paying hard to get is fun......for awhile then you start getting more serious and become more mature about the situation.
its about the intesety you do it too also , ya do it to long he/she loses interest
2007-07-14 19:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by nikky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if the other person get tired of the game before you finish playing
2007-07-14 19:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by nightryder28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes.
2007-07-14 19:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why play?
2007-07-14 19:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by yes,i,am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's really woth something....yeah
2007-07-14 19:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋