theres a ripping feeling inside everytime :'( plz HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-14 18:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by v-unit.aka.vanilla ice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok. if sex is a pain in the ***, you are doing it wrong.
2007-07-14 18:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by LD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you have had sex about 6 times now... I am assuming this is a total for you? To be honest, sex was painful for me for the first year. I know everyone is different, so some people will stop feeling pain earlier, and possibly later. Your body has never had anything there, and your hymen is healing from being broken the first time. It will continue to be somewhat painful. Do not be embarrassed to tell your husband how it feels and ask him to take it slow. Try different positions as that can help. You can also try more lubrication (like KY Jelly or Astroglide). All these things will lessen the pain, but you will most likely feel it in some form for awhile. And that is normal. Just be open and honest with him about it and the two of you can work together to make it more pleasurable for you. You can also ask your dr about creams that can give a slightly numbing feeling that you could apply before hand to help with the pain. It WILL stop hurting after awhile and then it just gets better from there!!!
2007-07-15 01:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have some pain the first few times. My sister had quite a bit of discomfort for months, she was very small and he was very blessed. The nice thing abotu the penis and the vagina is that they are meant to fit together. You will become more sccomodating for him every time you have intercourse. As several people said, use lots of lubricant and try to relax. Foreplay, fingers, oral sex...all of these things can help out a bit. Just be patient, and if it does not get a little better within the next couple of weeks, see your gyno. Good luck and try to enjoy.
2007-07-15 01:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be multiple reasons why you are still feeling pain. A doctor would be best to answer your questions, but if you were a virgin and you have had sex over and over again back to back, your going to be sore because your not letting your body heal.
You need lots of foreplay to get excited, relaxed and wet. Give it time, and you should buy some KY Liquid. Are you petite, and is he tall?
I would just give yourself time to heal, and use lube, if the problem proceeds, see a doctor.
2007-07-15 01:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by mrslegume 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not hurt like that. Go to you gyn, discuss the matter openly and have an exam. There may be an infection, scar tissue, STD, etc.
2007-07-15 01:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by mbpowell1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you need to go see a gynecologist. but this could be because your husband is well-endowed or you're just incredibly tight in your vagina. Everyone is constructed differently and you two might not be a "good fit." also, it could be that he's not being gentle enough while you two are going at it. but seriously, you AND your husband should go see a gynecologist.
2007-07-15 01:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by matcoach2382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 times no wonder i would recamend you stop having sex so such a day only do it about 2 times a day or else
2007-07-15 01:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by naruto fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bad feeling, but before we answer we need to know if you are a guy or a girl ( well your picture says that you are a guy but we never know)
2007-07-15 01:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is get anal ease, you put in on and around the area and its supposed to numb it. Good luck!
2007-07-15 01:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by ALSL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing it wrong. Go talk to a doctor.
2007-07-15 01:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋