but sometimes im sure when im really hot for him and sometimes im not it sems like an good idea becuase i want to and dont say he's just looking for sex becuase he's not acually we hardly every talk about i have to pry it out of him some one tell me what to do and please dont be mean about it
2007-07-14 13:19:56 · 21 answers · asked by HollywoodVampire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and my boyfriend arent thinking about just sex were thinking about our future and everthing and if you want to jump to conclusions dont bother answering becuase i didnt ask this question for critasism
2007-07-14 13:27:32 · update #1
For right now that'd be okay but once he turns 18 if you two get caught doing it together, your bf could be charged with statuatory rape.
2007-07-14 13:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by HULK RULES!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14. I know a lot of girls your age are doing it, but if you ask them 3 or 4 years later, they'll ALL say they wish they would have waited. The only reason you want to have sex with him is because you think it's the thing to do to show him you love him, and that's not true. If he's not being pushy about it, leave it alone. There are so many bad things that go with sex at your age, they outweigh the good things. You're not ready for this yet and you know it.
2007-07-14 13:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jayne Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 years old when I lost my virginity. I really regret that I ended up losing it to the person I did. It is pretty common to regret it... when you get older. It sounds like you two really care for each other. I am not sure how long you have been together, but I honestly can say that is a personal choice. I think virginity is a beautiful thing and you should make sure that you "truly" love and have a future with the individual. I wish I would have waited, but it is your personal choice.
2007-07-22 13:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a tight hold of your little hormones and rein them in. You are way too young and so is he. Thank God he has the sense to hardly ever talk about it. Wait about four years, get out of school, find a job and a place, and make a nice life for yourself, and THEN think about jumping his bones. If it's love, it'll wait. You'll be able to support the babies that come and nobody's life will be ruined. (You realize that in another year he will be considered an adult and prosecuted for being with you, right?)
And don't get to squalling that it isn't all about sex when you put in your headline that you want to make love to him. You can't blame us, with a statement like that.
2007-07-14 13:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off yo if ur not old enough to have sex r u old enough to take care off a baby. Dont do it **** happens and plp lifes get ruined but hey someone has to work at burger king. Listen i lost my virginity in 8th grade biggest mistake of my life i mean i didnt get her pregnant but still listen hun just wait okay ur better off trust me. Me and her went out for 4 yrs hen she cheated on me. But now i have an amazing g/f. All im saying is ur 14 ur not gonna be with eachother down the road its not worth it.
2007-07-14 13:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by mark s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rayna, I'm not trying to be mean either! In most of the U.S.,you are asking your boyfriend to "go to jail".Now, if you care for this person. The best way to show it.Is not to talk him into making out with you. He is old enough to know this. There's a reason, this is against the law.It gives you a chance to grow up mentally and physically before you get out there.How will you feel ,when he is sitting in jail.For years,while you get to go on with your life?
2007-07-14 13:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have him put into jail. It's normal to have sexual urges, and if he's not pressuring you, then be grateful. You have forever to have sex. If you end up pregnant, are you ready to be a mommy? You will regret it and you can't take it back. You're only a virgin ( I hope you're a virgin) ONCE. Don't let this boyfriend be one in a string of boys that RIDE you without any comittment. Wait for someone, who love you enough to MARRY you. Spend time maturing adn getting to know yourself, you'll have forever to be horny!!
2007-07-14 13:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you really feel you want to do this with him then have a good talk to him. I shouldn't be suggesting this though as it is actually illegal until you are 16. But if you feel you really can't wait then I suggest that you two have a good talk. Maybe you two could plan a special evening when you are in fact 16? Hope I helped a little :)
2007-07-14 13:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie you are very young and you have alot of hormones floating throughout your body. Listen yes it may appear that its something you want to do but I promise if you wait and you are in love and God has sent that person to you. It is beyond your imagination. Just pray about it and follow your heart and be protected if you feel you can't wait. With aids, teenage pregnancy, and deadbeat dads you got to be careful. Peace and Blessings
2007-07-14 13:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by confused! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe hes not ready to have sex with you and he might feel that even though you are old enough to date that you aren't mature enough to have sex with or because you are 14 and hes 17 if you two did have sex he could get in lots of trouble i.e. jail bate.
2007-07-14 13:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋