she has a good boy friend and they are in touch by phone call & sms,now she want to make physical relation with his boy friend at once with my permision.i want to see him happy ever,should have allow him ?
2007-07-16 23:30:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Here the problem is not with you people or your way of thinking, it’s the western influence of sharing once spouse with other or indulging in all sorts of sexual fantasies which you watch in P o r n videos etc. You guys watch & read all about such relationship & want to experience them but want other to give you permission for that, now who are we to tell you what to do or not, its your personal life how you both have to live its entirely your decision. Whether to allow your wife to indulge in physical relationship with other man or not you have to see not others. Next time she will be asking if she should allow you to indulge in physical relationship with your girl friend, but my reply will be same for her too. Better keep your bed life upto you only don't bring it for public viewing.
2007-07-17 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Either husband or wife once married should not do this i.e. having relationship with either with boyfriend or girlfriend.
It seems you are trying to show your love towards your wife, however, if this was the case then you should not have asked public opinion. You should have given her permission without informing anyone.
If you have such a big heart don't take public opinion. However, if you permit her then she may have another boyfriend and the same request will be made and this process will continue till some serious consequences will happen.
Sometime you may also wish to take permission from your wife to have relationships with your girlfriend.
Stop this nonsense. Be realistic. Don't try to become hero.
Don't do wrong things and also don't permit others to do wrong things.
2007-07-16 23:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by jones t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them be happy for ever .. leave her.. you need not worry afterwards about her and her boy friends doing sms, calls, you all the things you imagine..
You are silly or what... or just a guard of your house not master..
your wife b/f has any place in your life after your marriage... you are just loosing your mind. and body now and also your wife and money later ..
you want to live western way ..three some , foursome...
but then only drugs , and depressions will be your companions and no peace of mind or family or child or love...
think and severe the loose ends otherwise u will burn
2007-07-17 02:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur Q is a bit confusing
but still
i dont think tht u shld be allowing her and yeh u shld give her more love respect more thn what her so called boyfrnd gives her
be more more good towards her do things tht she likes after all she is ur wife n not her boyfriends so she is urz completely
i don think u shld allow her ... better make her happy and come back to u... to have a better life ahead
or if u allow her ull hv to let her go away from ur life...
One more thing is she trying to play wid u ???
mebbe she juz wants to knw how much do u love her n whether u allow her wid another guy n to know how possesive u r abt her ...
be carefulllll
all the best
god bless u...
2007-07-17 00:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you think
you are sacrificing your good for this bad deed of your wife
How can you do this
If you did so What is the meaning of your marriage..
How can she ask you. Are you failed to make her happy.
How good her BF to think of making physical relation with other's wife.. You say That Stupid as good... Do you haver your knowledge... Closeness between couple is accepted but this the closeness which will insult the marriage...
Instead of thinking this stupid nonsense...
try to enlighten your wife how respectful is a married life..
I am very sorry of both of your thoughts
2007-07-17 00:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chiranjeevi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? she is honest. Otherwise why should she take permission. How can a husband control if she has such a feeling. we all should appreciate her. Everybody got their opnion. I read many answers . Most of them are narrow minded. Life is only one enjoy that. Only thing both should be careful of not getting any decease. That wil spoil ur life. All the best.
2007-07-17 04:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by salinak s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u doing a poll here to find out what people comment !!!
what r u trying to show here that u care for ur wife n want 2 c her happy all the time !!! or is that by allowing her u want a way out for urself to seek fun outside....
2007-07-17 01:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by freekinguy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a big fool to ask that .real friendship don't need any physical relation.,that to after marriage.if u were me i would have left her .if she is getting everything from her b.f why r u there for her?don't u think u need someone only for yourself,totally yourself?you still believe that your wife will change for u, give her chance.you r Lucky if she change her mind.think and act.
2007-07-17 00:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Indira jammula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your professor must have taken the movie "Monty Python's Meaning of Life" as a literal and true guide to education.
2016-05-20 00:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by fannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are president. Ministry has already taken decision!! Whether you allow or not things will go. Now judge yourself as to how to tackle this situation.
2007-07-19 17:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by thannickan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋