one day my sister told me that she saw him kissing some girl. I did confront him about it and he said that my sister was just trying to break us up because he doesnt like him. I dont know who to believe. please help
2007-07-16 21:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This queston is not about you or your parents , it really is about you and the person you love. .IFyou are over the , age of 18 years old , then surely you are an adult , , this intitles you to have your say as to what you want or do not want to do within your life, Now i do not want you , thinking that your family are not concerned for you , Especially in this case of the person in your life that you love . The first thing i would be asking you , is have you and your gent appourched your parents , as to why they do not like your man , i would be asking them to sit down with you and your gent , and find out exactly as to why they do not like him , YOU know it is better to have this conversation with your parents and family now , than say after you got married , after your chat with them and the situation is still a stalemate , then at least you and your gent , will know you did the right thing , and that you have no guilty conchons, about this , Now you only mention about your family that does not like , him , but what of his family , , are they happy with the situation ? do the same as i have just explained to you , to do with your parents talk to them about it , Like i said at the beginning of this answer , if you are both adults , and you both have sat down and communicated with each other , such as getting all the old cobwebs out of the cuboard , , and telling each othe the truth , and being honest with each other , the i think what you should be doing is getting on with your life together , To me if you have done all that i have mentioned , then why should you be anserable to anyone , except each other , AS FOR YOUR SISTER SAYING THAT SHE SAW YOUR MAN KISSING ANOTHER GIRL , and you did the right thing , by approching him , and he gave you the answer that she did not like him , WELL DO THE the same with your sister have your man their and find out if this is a true story , and give your man the right of reply in front of your sister , IF you feel that he was all right and he did not do anything , , then this is where the trust comes in between you both . after all this is what being adults are all about , One thing that is curious thou about this , question is you have said that you love this person , but you do not say if he loves you , , has he said to you i love you ? and that he would like to make a future with you , ?? and be committed to you , these questions you really want a truthful answer to what you have asked him , The last thing you want to do is to get married to him , and then find out that what he has been telling you about loveing you if all a load of hogwash , you see love and commitment is for life , and should be respected as such . WHAT it should not be doing , is for him yto be useing you , getting all that he can from you , and then one morning you wake up and he has gone out of your life. I wish you both the best of luck
2007-07-16 22:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tranquilty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker than water chicky and unless your sis as a history of trying to sabotage your relationships I'd be listening to what she said she saw.
Who has reason to be dishonest here? Your sister because she doesn't like your boyfriend? Or your boyfriend because he is guilty as hell and trying to blame your sister to get out of the spotlight? I would be putting my money on the boyfriend...
2007-07-16 21:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by aymez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some investigating of your own. I would bet your sister isn't lying. We all want to believe that our bf is honest and sincere, but that is not always the case. The girlfriend is always the last one to know.
2007-07-16 21:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your SISTER! -He is a DOG. What would your sister have to gain by telling you this? I'd believe my sister any day over a guy. Don't be naive. What does your gut instinct say?
2007-07-23 07:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I feel you shouldn't let your family say who you date. but family is the one you turn to when things get hard and when someone hurts you. If you give up your family for him make sure you fully trust him.and think to yourself is he really worth loosing your family to.
2007-07-23 17:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you family duznt like him who cares its your life not mine my family didnt like my ex bf but i didnt care plus i think you should check up on him or get some1 to follow him or summing you no to see what he is doing while you are busy.
2007-07-16 21:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur family doesnt like him then i dont know.
2007-07-23 05:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Nina-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either marry her or go with your family
2007-07-16 21:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋