my best friend is more popular than me and at lunchtimes we hang out togther but she always going over to her other friends, i dont know any of them and im REALLY shy. im afraid that shes getting sick of me and will want to hang out with these people instead. im dont have anyone else i could hang around with.
also- i try be friendly to her friends but some of them dont really like me and whenever im around people i dont know i dont talk because i think ill sound stupid
help!!???
2007-07-16 21:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is coming from a guy,
This is the honest to god truth, I had virtually the same issues like over half of the time i was in high school,
I was always having friends move on me, I went to school with over half of them for all twelve years.
I wouldn't worry about it, Friends tryul come and go, they still do at my age, Maybe there is other people you could hang out with.
Once you graduate you'll never have to deal with those assholes again.
2007-07-16 21:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leah--she can do or talk to whomever she wants to--you just THINK the bad stuff--it isn't true--you can talk or meet new people if you try. Stop the pity and get some new friends..your whole life doesn't revolve around this girl. What happens when she meets a guy and eventually she will--are you just going to sit alone?? Get a grip and move--meet people-- stand tall and be proud of who you are. Find a group or a club that will appreciate you for who you are. Good luck
2007-07-16 21:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your "best friend" leaves you to hang with others, you need to rethink your definition of a best friend. A best friend would know your shyness and never purposely put you in a situation that would make you feel uncomfortable or humilitated. Maybe this is the signal you needed to realize she is not the person you thought she was and begin the process of being a really good friend to others, as that is always the best way to get a good friend.
2007-07-16 21:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by chika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be more confident around her friends. they arent better than you. some people think shyness means your weird. get rid of the shyness and they will probably be your friend. if not, screw them. its not hard to make friends if you try. being shy will just hold you back from everything you want.
2007-07-16 21:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by rob b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I'm glad I'm out of high school! you sound like me, i would just find others to hang out with. you know so when she goes off to talk to them you can go talk to your other friends. it's sounds like her friends may be a bit snotty so i would just avoid them altogether, you don't need friends like that.
2007-07-16 21:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by TinaLatina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't sound stupid unless you do not at least try to talk. Start making some new friends yourself, just in case this awful thing happens. at least you will have someone to talk to.
2007-07-16 21:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋