Other - Family & Relationships - 22 April 2007

Brief story, met a guy around 5 months ago, we gelled right from the start we were like best friends as well as seeing each other. We bonded very very well especially on a intellectual levels we would be up all night talking for hours. But discovered this guy is a classic commitment phobic that finds a relationship a severe threat to his freedom and says that he just isnt ready to settle down yet for his own personal reasons he works long hours during the week and never even really has the chance to see his daughter. I of course wanted a relationship and he suggested that we take a step back and remain only friends (without sex) as he couldnt give me a relationship or any commitments at this present time. He said he feels that I am a very articulate, intellegent, good looking girl with a heart of gold, but just isnt looking for a relationsip at this stage. So we have only remained close friends for the past couple of months -sex has not been involved. Is it ok to keep my options open?

2007-04-22 23:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he was steaming ( very drunk ) and his mates are sayin it was just a kiss but im not sure?

2007-04-22 22:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 18 yr old is graduating high school in 3 weeks. She has been treating me extremely bad and shows zero respect. She refuses to help out around the house including cleaning up her own messes. Would you kick her out as soon as she graduates even though you know she is not mature enough to handle being on her own??? or would you just put up with the abuse and disrespect because you love her and do not want anything bad to happen to her? I have already put my 16 yr old in a reform school for basically the same problems. She comes home on weekends and acts just terrible. Before you JUDGE me, I am a good parent...not perfect but I try. I love my children very much.....I spend a lot of time with them...I give them everything they need. I have taken away, cell phones,cable tv in their rooms,taken away internet and computer. When they yell and cuss at me, I walk away and go to my room and close the door. I don't yell back. This is making me physically and emotionally ill.

2007-04-22 22:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-22 22:47:12 · 20 answers · asked by alper_uk 2

before 8 years when i started my profession, which is model making of buildings.. after making few i was just started loosing my energy. with not leaving the profession i started searching the reason for the draining of my energy.. i couldn't found something which could gave my energy back but i started saturated with my profession.but i couldnot left it and still being in the same line.. before 3 years i get married in the same situation and because of that troubled state couldn't mke the happy married life and had created family trouble..i have a daughter completing 2 years i love my wife and my daughter.. past one month i came up uae.. and believe it for the same profession.. i just dont know where the silver lining lies.. what is a cresting face for which we strive harder and longer.. i just dont know what is a beautiful family life. just forgot whats a happy sleep and a happy day.. and now as my family is in india i am alone here... i just lost myself i search of a wonderful life.

2007-04-22 22:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by farhan k 1

My husband's sister wants to see him alone and get to spend time with him 'to build their relationship.' She is a manipulative person who likes causing divisions in the family. I am wondering why she wants to do this and is it normal for say a sister to want to spend time alone with her brother when they both are married to their prospective partners and it would probably be more fitting if they all met together (i.e. husband and wives together - me and my husband both seeing her or her and her husband)?

2007-04-22 22:02:07 · 19 answers · asked by Jenny_USA 1

The funny thing is I have a little bit of confidence, but there are some things about myself, that make me feel that guys don't even notice me. And I know its a typical question, but what do you think?

I am about 120, 5'4. I have a little bit of acne on my cheeks, but I cover it with bare minerals and I accentuate my green eyes with lite eye make up. And I have curly hair. My stomache isn't completely toned, but i think that besides my acne I mite have a pretty face.

my confidence is down, any tips on getting it up? how to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy?

2007-04-22 21:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by Fran Y 3

My wife has quit her job, she stays home, I beg her to have children, one child, and she says no. I mean she doesn't do anything for me, I provide the economic stability, I just want kids. I envy the fact that my brother has a wife and children, beautiful son and daughter who run to him when he comes from work. and i come home with a wife that hates to even think of children. i can provide a maid, a nanny, everything, i just want kids. how do i persuade my wife for children, she promised one child, and we have none. she refuses even threatens abortion. i cant help it to watch my brother live the life i always wanted, what do i do? how i persuade her?

2007-04-22 20:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why but I relize that a lot of men aren't there to take care of thier children. Also a lot of men refuse to pay child support and make it much harder for the women to raise her child. I grew up with out a father, and I rarely today see good Dad's out there that man up and take care of thier responsabilities.

2007-04-22 19:44:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

well the no sex started about 15 years ago after she had our son, she said that "that was all the kids she was having and she didn't need sex in her life anymore, so she feels that i don't need it anymore. also after we quit having sex it seems like we have grown apart and i don't know how to get close again. It seems like we don't love each other like we did in the past, maybe that is how it is suspose to be?

2007-04-22 19:43:49 · 13 answers · asked by hickory 1

while she pulled off he stared until out of sight, whats up?

2007-04-22 19:06:13 · 1 answers · asked by The Wonder ONE 1

I am a single father of 4 Children and work 2 jobs but can't seem to get caught up after my divorce. Also my mother who lives with me is disabled and I take care of her as well. Any place that I find that does offer assistance rejects me because I work 2 jobs. It seems to me that all these places would rather help someone that doesn't try to succeed in life... well I am trying and I will do it. I just could use some help to get myself ahead. Thanks for any answers or comments....Michael

2007-04-22 18:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Michael L 1

Why didn't you? Was it pride?

2007-04-22 18:11:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

every day from sun up till sun down everthing isay he has an argument with stomps his feet hits himself tells me im leaving i wish i was never born,i wish you were not my mom-he through thins at me,constaintly pushing my glasses into my face,screams at me at the top of his lungs,says that i should do mt chores sround his school schedule i was trying to be supportive and go in and have lunch with him,wich we seemed pleased with,after 7months of unacceptable behavior-hitting rolling on the floor,talking out of turn,bullying others in class-than being bullied by boys twice his age on the bus that they were going to kick his butt he replied back ill kick your-hes six-where did i loose him-im on the nerge of leaving-im broken hearted,emabaressed hes losr every friend in a five block radius due to his anger outbursts,his obscence mouth parents dont want him around ive talked to him several times,the last two weeks at school hes done well but when he gets home hell hath no fury like my 6 year

2007-04-22 17:01:08 · 14 answers · asked by resigned 5

Hes 19 and his girlfriend is 18. Last weekend we (her and i) were at my house alone. Ive been attracted to her for a long time and obviously shes been attracted to me also. Well last weekend we were talking and one thing led to another and we had sex. I thought it was just going to be that one time but then the next day she came in my room and we did it again and 4 more times since then. She told me shes had a crush on me for a long time and if ill have her as my girlfriend shed break up with my son.

I dont know what to do. Theyve been dating for a while but dont love each other and i really think me and this girl, ashley, have a future together. What do i do ?

2007-04-22 16:57:48 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex gf was totally whacked out. She lied like it was her job, said she wasn't sure who she really was, or had a low sense of self. She would lie to my face, and disappear all the time. Only to text me or email me explaing why she was dumping me this time. She would tell me to meet her somewhere and then text me saying she was gone. Then she would start crying and freaking out and run away. She would then come back a few days later every time. The girl lives with her parents at 30 years old, and her mother and brother show signs of mental illness...Do you think she is mentally ill as well? what could it be? What type of mental illness could this be??

2007-04-22 15:20:58 · 13 answers · asked by fuji 1

just wondering.

2007-04-22 15:15:47 · 11 answers · asked by M e g a n * 2

2007-04-22 14:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Smart_Guy 1

on friday night i had a dream about kissing this boy who is in the 12th(austin) and im in the 11th! i knew him since the 7th but all we say to each other is hi in the hallways! but n~e~ways! the dream was like he kept on kissing me but he would be like dont tell anyone! like it was like a secret! it was like a senior couldnt be seen with a junior or something! but ive had a crush on him like forever but i mean its not a serious crush!

then saturday night i had a dream that we were at the grocery store and a baby was in the grocery cart laughing and i was talkin to austin saying "dont get that citrus listerine that makes you seem like a punk get the regular kind"

what is this! cause its freakin me out!

2007-04-22 13:38:09 · 3 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

Lmaoo,,
JUST WOUNDERINGG

2007-04-22 13:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Katie 1

2007-04-22 13:11:40 · 4 answers · asked by Katie 1

meaning on a blind date or first date and then going on next date to kiss on lips or to kiss on the cheek. is their some pattern women do in order to starting a relationship. just curious that is all. thanks i'd appreciate it.

2007-04-22 12:31:02 · 12 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3

my aunt came here to visit from jordan, my mom is constantly giving her all my stuff(clothes, purses, shoes, my toys for her kids, jewelery, makeup). we're only 5 years apart, she's older than me but she's married and has like 4 kids (and she didnt even finish high school). everytime i ask my mom where my stuff went she starts yelling and swearing at me, then when i go to my aunt's place i see it there. i'm staying here w/my mom only for the year b/c i had to come back and finish my last year of school before i get married(my fiance is in lebanon). how do i make her stop?

2007-04-22 12:19:20 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

I mean there is this one person in my life that no matter what I do it's never good enough and if I do something she thinks is wrong she wont leave me alone about it. I can't stand it!!

2007-04-22 09:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever since she's gotten this boyfriend 2 years ago she has changed in to a maga *****. not so much to me but just a *****. then he broke up with her after they moved out of their apartment into his parents basement and all because he was tired of her but yet she still hung around and lived there after they broke up. then the re hooked up as he was still cheating on her. i have listen to her cry her heart out over this guy and now she's being a ***** to me telling me to not worry about what her brother is doing with other girls, when her brother is dating my roomie who is one of my best friends... i am NOT jeouls of them at all... so how do i tell her to knock her **** off and quit thinking she's the queen of the world?

2007-04-22 09:24:26 · 1 answers · asked by krazykroaky 1

my boyfriend of 2years cheated on me and i broke up with him... we remained friends and about 1 1/2 months after we broke up 1 of my guy friends asked me to go hang out with him and his friend and his friends gf, i decided i should get out for once. my ex found out. a long story short he ramed the car i was in to get me not to go... hes geting put in jail for a year, should i wait? i really love him, what should i do?

2007-04-22 09:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OkayI am 21 years old & i am in an almost 5 year relationship this comming july.....we love eachother to death and would do anything for eachother! We have had our share of ups and downs...just like any other relationship. We live together and are together almost all the time. When he does go out , i usually go out with my friends if they arent around i stay home...but i dont trust the friends he has , they bring a lot of younger girls around and it makes me uncomfortable that he goes out to hang out and a bunch of other chicks are there and i am not!....thats one problem...then there is the fact that he is constantly checking out other women i mean every person that walks by..he tells me i am beautiful everyday so i still feel sexy but i get hurt when i see him check others out...and also we have had issues with porn he keeps getting it behind my back but we have our own movie he could watch right at home... am i not good enough? how can i stop worrying?

2007-04-22 07:37:19 · 1 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

I'm not ashamed of it, but I just think people draw wrong conclusions after hearing it.

2007-04-22 07:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's like a love-hate relationship. I do, of course, love my family and I wish them all good, but sometimes I feel like I don't even like them, and sometimes I feel like I love them the most. It's easier with friends & lovers, you may break it off if things get really bad, but with parents & siblings it's crazy! Why do you think?

2007-04-22 05:40:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tried to stay friends with mine but apparently he doesn't want any contact..it hurts because I miss him and sometimes I wonder if he misses me too..even though deep down inside I know he doesn't because he never cared about me the way I did him. What about you?

2007-04-22 04:48:58 · 22 answers · asked by GoldenGirl 3