my aunt came here to visit from jordan, my mom is constantly giving her all my stuff(clothes, purses, shoes, my toys for her kids, jewelery, makeup). we're only 5 years apart, she's older than me but she's married and has like 4 kids (and she didnt even finish high school). everytime i ask my mom where my stuff went she starts yelling and swearing at me, then when i go to my aunt's place i see it there. i'm staying here w/my mom only for the year b/c i had to come back and finish my last year of school before i get married(my fiance is in lebanon). how do i make her stop?
2007-04-22 12:19:20 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and my aunt knows wut's mine b/c she see's it on me and it's only me and my mom living here so the size difference is pretty obvious.. i dont even know why she wants it, she just had a baby, she's like a size 12 now and i'm a size 3, it clearly won't fit her
2007-04-22 12:30:22 · update #1
she's not poor or anything, the other day she was telling me her husband wants to buy her a million dollar house (obvious lie), and she is always bragging about how much money her husband gives her
2007-04-22 12:39:40 · update #2
Give her stuff away to your aunt.
2007-04-22 12:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i could say, you likely have a miles better subject than merely coping with your sister, because of the fact your Father insists which you haven't any longer have been given any say and your older sister has permission to bully malicious program tattle tale on you and your sisters, so which you will on no account win any arguments. Your mom is failing to step in and counsel right here. your loved ones needs to alter the regulations slightly eh. that isn't trouble-free in any respect giving all this capacity to the oldest daughter while each and every want accountability for themselves to the parents no longer the sister. The mom needs to step in and be the only to help or she is letting this chaos proceed to exist. She needs to help self-discipline and produce you up too. The sister needs to chunk her lip. Your mom isn't mute deaf dumb. i might desire to work out this being universal if it extremely is the case without mom interior the kin, yet noone needs 2 mothers. The dad is encouraging this. Your sisters might desire to look after themselves and additionally you're purely 15 and below your mothers care and dads care. yet as quickly as back your Father likes it like this. to proceed to exist if noone is desirous to alter something, you will possibly be able to desire to do the changing and intentionally overlook approximately that oldest sister and communicate on your mom approximately regardless of it incredibly is, ignoring your sister. this could be somewhat perplexing, plus stay away out of your sister as much as achieveable.
2016-10-28 17:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants your stuff out of her house.
Ask a family member if you can store your items at their house or in their basement or if you can afford it, rent offsite small storage.
Or go through your stuff & figure out what you really need to keep & what you don't need. Plus speak to your aunt & tell her what is really going on.
Chances are she may not realize that this stuff is yours & you are not consentual to these items being given to her.
2007-04-22 12:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your stuff in your car trunk or lock it up in your room. Bide your time and move away. Sounds like your aunt needs to get another job.
2007-04-22 12:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down a speak to your mom.apparently she feels her sister is not as fortunate as you are..She loves you, but it's important that she respects your wishes as well..
What if you pack a special package for her to give to her sister when she comes to visit..And tell your mother that you have packed this special package to be given to her sister..And ask her to please respect your wishes and not give away more of your belongings..
The items that you want to save, I would pack them away, where your mother can't find them..But do talk to you Mom.. And ask her to PLEASE respect your wishes.Good Luck!
2007-04-22 12:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb its because she dont see u wearin are usin them so she think it would have been ok but if its something thats constantly happenin then shes trying to send you a message that she wants you out her place...
2007-04-22 12:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by certified_star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋