Other - Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

make yourself fall out of love? why dont we have any control over this very huge and vital part to our lives? why, if love is so important and vital to our well being etc...thats its totally taken out of our hands who we love and who loves us? Its all chance and it really sucks and causes alot of misery....sigh.

2007-04-25 23:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by coolred38 5

My partner is having an internet that's spiraling out of control. This guy is feeding her bullsh*t and she's falling for it hook, line and sinker. It doesn't help that he lives only 40 miles away either. She only learned to use a PC 1 week ago. She puts it down to mid life crisis (she turned 40 on Monday). She's already considering visiting him, "as a new found friend". This is not paranoia on my part. Up till last week we were absolutely fine. The only community she goes on is SLINGO. His there any way I can block incoming messages to her from this guy to give her a cooling down period,or am I resigned to losing her and my 2 year old boy. I don't think this is just a fad.

Sensible help will be appreciated.

2007-04-25 22:27:14 · 15 answers · asked by IAN B 1

i am 15 and my bf is 28. my ma is always picking one me and telling me that I can do better. why?
my bf just got out of jail 2 mnths ago. but it wasnt his fault. and people maked mistakes even my mom!
now we are havin a baby in 6 months and my ma cant be happy for me. how can i make her like my bf?

2007-04-25 21:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by oh_yes_the_candy_man_can 1

2007-04-25 21:29:56 · 8 answers · asked by nir 1

2007-04-25 19:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by momma 2

She left me because i did not let her go out with her friends on the weekends, every weekend until 2am. Were apart having fun, when im lonely i call her but shes going out when shes lonely she tries at me and im busy. Today is wednesday she said she wants to be with me on the weekend, i said why not today, she said no and goodbye. She has cheated on me in the past, but I have never caughtn her. I NEVER FOLLOW HER, today i did , she 100% denies seeing anybody else, i was a block behind her when she picked him up, i confronted them and asked her to pull over so i cound talk to her. she never stopped and i gave up? I* always told myself if i seen it in person like today that would be my last try. What s up?

2007-04-25 18:23:16 · 1 answers · asked by Gregory R 1

If so--you're lucky.

2007-04-25 17:35:46 · 27 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

Last year me and my friend had a baby together trust me no one was more shock than me that i was pregnant since we had protection at the time. Anyways we had alittle girl and she's 5 months right now and doing very well. We can't take care of her like we wanted to so we decided to place her in open adoption. The parents we picked are really nice and we still get to see her. About 2 weeks ago we had to go to court and give up our rights as parents and it was very hard on both of us but we wanted what was best for her. In the begining we still were around eachother and talked but then when we sign papers to get our court date we rarley spoke to one another in court was the first time iv'e seen him in months. I ask him to talk with me about it and he text me saying that he couldnt talk about it and doubts he ever could. That mad me so angry because he may not need to but i do he promised me that he would always be there if i ever needed someone to talk to. Is it wrong that i'm angry?

2007-04-25 17:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Dark_Fire_Angel 3

Thats what i always say so every one. what is your answer to his question?

2007-04-25 17:20:16 · 3 answers · asked by james w 1

My girl just got a lump sum check for child support for a large sum of money. She also started a job finally after being off work for more than 3 years. She goes out and buys her kids all kinds of stuff and did not take care of of the important stuff even though I reminded her of the things she said she was going to do. She blows the money and tells me I have to pay her back have the money the spent on all this junk that could have wanted so she can pay off things she should have. I told her to take some of that stuff back and pay her bills. She says no she bought that for her kids. Mind you I am the money maker in the house struggleing to take care of her and her kids of which I love. I think she is wrong for arguing with me for money I had no say so of how she spends it. Out of all that money she gives me $100.00. I never once asked her for nothing but she wants me to pay half. What do you all think about this? Am I wrong for feeling this way? What should I do? Please help

2007-04-25 17:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by notcleaverenough 1

Okay, so there's this boy I like and I don't know if he likes me or not, I keep catching him looking at me! Also, his friends always make things a lot more difficult for me, not to mention the fact that they keep kidding around about me liking him, what's this supposed to mean!! P.S. We're both in 7th grade

2007-04-25 14:26:01 · 3 answers · asked by cherryblossom 2

2007-04-25 14:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by drummer_punk2000 1

I have a man and i sometimes wonder how often he might think about other woman. I know he loves me and i trust him completely but i have also heard men think about sex like every 5 seconds.
I am just curious and would like answers from men who are in
a relationship and loves their lady.

2007-04-25 14:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by caseelaine 2

is it hard being a boy or a girl??!!! girl have to impress boys and they are seem to be the weaker on people's eyes, but boys always have to be strong and must not show tears like they say or they would call u a wimp or somethin' so which is worst being????!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-25 14:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by Celine:D 3

Dave(David) Waldren, originally from Island lake, IL.... Moved to Texas to play some minor league baseball. anyone have any ideas how i can find him???

2007-04-25 14:07:41 · 2 answers · asked by ♥ Uwish ♥ 6

People are so eager to ask for advice. Is it just to gain insight? Because 99% of the time we have the best answer to our own problems. Tell me what you feel.

2007-04-25 13:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Student 2

he has joint custody with his exwife (who hates me)

2007-04-25 13:40:10 · 2 answers · asked by jnnymartin89 1

ok i guess it is right this is just a confuzeing point in my life and i need ur guyzes help plz:
so i got pissed off at a 6th grader [i'm in multiage 6-7]
and he kept on talking to me so i'm like jesus christ john quite plz. [i said the quiet plz part in french since were in immersion]
and my homeroom teacher is like "melissa in the hallway now" and i'm like ok w;e
and she comes out all i want a 2500 word reflection about appropriate classroom language on my desk tomoro morning signed by ur guardians. and i got scarred of course since my guardians are the strictest ppl on earth so long story short i do get sent to the office mostly 1cce every two months for talking in english by subs. but i get home blurt out what happend to my guardians expecting them to spaz and they dont .. they dont seem to realy care .so they signed my essaay and went on there just like"when i was a kid i would of gottent the strap"
whats wrong here?

2007-04-25 13:28:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend got hired at her job 2 years ago.last year i needed to find work to help my husband with the bills(i hated seeing him work 2 jobs and i just sat at home)so my friend asked around at her job and got me hired.ive been there a year now.just recently she got demoted and i got pulled up the chain of command and im now her supervisor.she is jealous but doesnt express it to me, instead she is starting rumors about me.i love her to death, being friends for 9 years has me attached to her.im getting into a position that will start a career for me and it is putting a wall between us.im in control of her daily jobs,im getting paid more than her and im getting more hours than her,on top of the fact that she has been there longer than me and she got me hired beneath her position.we are still young,and im not sure she is mature enough to realize that i have a family to provide for.what are some easy options for me to help save our friendship and my sanity?leaving my job is not an option.

2007-04-25 13:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have and ive been through so much theripy and the bad dreams i was lucky enough to keep my virginity

2007-04-25 13:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i know this might sound werid but hear it goes. well i gone with this kid for about 3 days and i have not kissed him but his cousin is like we would of kissed the first hour or minute what do u think i should do? HELP

2007-04-25 12:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by hunny_sweet_girl 1

well i have been going with this guy that i like and i want to kiss him but there is one thing i don't know when the right time to do it and i don't know what people would think of me and i like his cousin more and if he wouldn't of asked me out we woild have gone with him so what should i do?

2007-04-25 12:32:15 · 10 answers · asked by hunny_sweet_girl 1

I know what a nymphomaniac is I just want to know what would be some of the symptoms that would make someone need to seek medical attention. I guess what I'm saying is that we all love sex, but when does it get to the point where you need to consolt a phsychiatrist?

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!

2007-04-25 11:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by mariah s 2

why do realatives allways seem to want to be in your realationship?????? It really pisses me off.........it's not you me and our families it's us there is no them in us.

2007-04-25 11:46:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 11:31:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am adopted and don't know if my original mother had any other children. If in a billion to one chance I met a girl and didn't know I was related to and got married and/ or had a kid what problems would arise and has this ever happened? For instance - would any marriage be not legal and what would happen to the kid. This is a HYPOTHETICAL case and I have never heard of this happening but what if it did?

2007-04-25 11:14:57 · 13 answers · asked by Sir Nickle Barsteward 3

2007-04-25 10:43:08 · 1 answers · asked by ♥ Tia Alexandria ♥ 3

there's this girl. she's always making nasty comments to me....i've had enough! she's soooo mean. she thinks she's great! thing is, SHE ISN'T! i bet this is so she feels confident about herself, by saying horrible things to other people. it's nothing major but it's just REALLY annoying. she's part of our group so i can't just ignore her, or everyone else with think i'm being stupid about the whole situation.

what do i say to her to get her to stop? i need to make it harsh so she will take it, otherwise she would just laugh at me.

i'm a girl, incase the name confuses u

2007-04-25 10:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She smiles when i hug her she huggs me back I think theres something but theres this really sexy puertorican guy thats all ways all up on her hes claerly better looking and has a better body than me .. Im afraid she really like him how can I win her heart and keep her away from that spanish guy !!

2007-04-25 09:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean before you give up and leave them at a rest stop in another state.

2007-04-25 09:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by yurbud 3