i am 15 and my bf is 28. my ma is always picking one me and telling me that I can do better. why?
my bf just got out of jail 2 mnths ago. but it wasnt his fault. and people maked mistakes even my mom!
now we are havin a baby in 6 months and my ma cant be happy for me. how can i make her like my bf?
2007-04-25 21:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by oh_yes_the_candy_man_can 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he went to jail 4 drugs. but it wasnt his it was his cousins.
2007-04-25 21:45:44 · update #1
Your mom sounds like she's pretty smart, maybe you should listen to her. Really.
2007-04-25 21:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are 15 he is 28 He is to old for you Second having sex with you is illegal in most states Three if he is in jail on drug charges you should have nothing to do with him That is not a good role model for your baby.Four you should be in school and studying not hanging out with some drug dealer Five now how are you going to take care of this baby and go to school .Is there a responsible adult that can take care of you Set rules and boundries for you because any careing parent does not let there 15 yr old date a 28 year old Your Mom is right this guy is not good for you don t worry about doing better worry about getting an education and being someone in life You soon will have the job of being a role model when you have not even grown up yourself It sounds like you come from a tough enviroment You need a responsible adullt to help you better yourself and help with this situation It is not your boyfriend ( That is child endangerment for letting you date this boy your mom needed to wake up ) Do you have a resposible relative that you can turn to )
2007-04-26 05:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 15 year old girl has no business with a 28 year old man. Didn't he even know about protection? Did you? Do you realize that you will be tied down with a child for years to come?
I am on your mother's side, I hate to say. You could have done much better.
2007-04-26 04:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing! R u suprised that you mum is upset your 15, lets face it she is never going to like your bf and I don't blame her, How can somone be in jail and it not be there fault? People do make mistakes and it's you!!! he should no better at his age to mess around with a young girl.
2007-04-26 04:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force your mom to be happy with your bf. Your mother has valid reason to feel a bit disappointed, and perhaps you're too young to know the full reason.
Anyway, don't try to force the issue on her. Be patient and tell your bf that he should try to talk more with your mom and show that he's responsible and friendly.
2007-04-26 04:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Adel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mothers always want whats best for their babies...just like i bet u would want for ur future child. u are 15 and ur bf is 28?
he is 13 yrs older than u and u are still considered a child. and he is an adult. u being together in some states...well, let just say its unlawful. plus u say he just got out of jail...even tho u say it isnt his fault...ur mom will not believe that...
and how to make her like ur bf? ahhh...thats tough...
lets just hope ur child will change her mind...hmmm?
2007-04-26 04:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Go Girl! Living The American Dream!
2007-04-26 04:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by LifeIsPeachy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet if you go to any prison, there all innocent! wake up girl! he is 28 your 15, if your having intamate relations he is already breaking the law. if i were your mother i would file charges against him it is apparent from you being pregnant. its called statutory rape......and it dosnt meen you didnt want it but heck...also your math skills suck.....outta prison 2 months...child in 6........thats 8
2007-04-26 04:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart and do what you feel is right dont ask others for opinion.
2007-04-26 05:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋