make yourself fall out of love? why dont we have any control over this very huge and vital part to our lives? why, if love is so important and vital to our well being etc...thats its totally taken out of our hands who we love and who loves us? Its all chance and it really sucks and causes alot of misery....sigh.
2007-04-25 23:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by coolred38 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Deep breath in, Deep breath out, Thats life
2007-04-25 23:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Random Friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the lack of control over whom we fall in love with is what makes love so powerful. If we could control love, it would be worthless to us. There would be no chase, no flirting, no dating, no crazy excitement at the first kiss...all those great emotions that we never forget nor stop feeling for the person we fall in love with.
Love must be a spontaneous, indescribable, and unplanned emotion to be good. When you really love someone and that person really loves you in return, well then you "get it" I suppose...
2007-04-26 00:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think at some point, we do have control over who we love. Love is really a drug and this is why Jesus said ABOVE ALL THE FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT, HE WOULD HAVE US TO LOVE.I love being in love and it hurt like crazy when it doesn't work. This is why I know that we have control as to who we fall in love with. Even at getting to know a person, if there is something about them that we don't quiet get, we still pursuit them as if our intuition haven't kicked in and is telling us, that this person is not for us. If only we listen to that small still voice, it would save us allot of pain.
2007-05-01 00:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"love" is a combination of several factors which involve, smell, looks/attractiveness, attitude, intelligence or lack of, personality. first is attractiveness/looks(far away)...does that person match YOUR idea of a lover? then smell(closer) smell is VERY subtle...then attitude(are they resopnding to you)...then personality(how are you responding to them?)....and intelligence(can that person keep your attention?) these factors occure so fast that we are unaware that they are happening(and not always in that order) throw in the hormones we live on and you have an unpredictable mix. good luck in controlling all that especially if YOU really don't know what you want in a lover. That sometimes changes over time when we learn what/who we DON"T want in our lives.
2007-04-25 23:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your husband replaced into the two as great a guy or woman and you controlled to such the life out of him and instilling in him the very infuriating behavior you're complaining approximately. i'm specific you will discover the thank you to wreck the subsequent guy merely as plenty.
2016-11-27 22:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later you'll find the answers...coz that's lifea big mistery!!
2007-04-25 23:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by </3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋