The funny thing is I have a little bit of confidence, but there are some things about myself, that make me feel that guys don't even notice me. And I know its a typical question, but what do you think?
I am about 120, 5'4. I have a little bit of acne on my cheeks, but I cover it with bare minerals and I accentuate my green eyes with lite eye make up. And I have curly hair. My stomache isn't completely toned, but i think that besides my acne I mite have a pretty face.
my confidence is down, any tips on getting it up? how to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy?
2007-04-22 21:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get more confidence. Here is the thing...If you are confident enough to post on the web your body type and tell people that you think you are down on confidence, you already have it in you...you just need to be able to bring it out in the real world. When you wake up in the morning do some self affirmations in the mirror, you will get there. Good Luck
2007-04-22 21:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit concentrating on your looks. If the whole package (kindness, good sense of humor, honesty, etc.) is not there, then you would still be ugly even if you were the prettiest girl in the world.
Make a list of all the good qualities that you have. Then make a list of the things that you consider your faults. Concentrate on correcting the faults and continuing to improve the good qualities.
If the good qualities out weigh the bad ones, you have nothing to worry about. Always appreciate yourself, and other will aprreciate you too!!
2007-04-23 04:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everymorning, before you leave your home, go to your personal mirror.. Stand in front of it and say out loud (not so loud you wake up your neighbours) and tell "I AM THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN THIS WORLD".. Repeat that 20 times.. SAY IT WITH TOTAL DETERMINATIONand you will have all the confidence you want..
NOTE: If you say only 19 times or you quit saying this within 30 days, this won't work!!
2007-04-23 04:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself unconditionally first! Guys very most likely think that you are beautiful but we are trying to be more sensitive and respectful so we don't stare at girls as much. We look when you aren't noticing!!! Others don't make me happy I make me happy. You just need to be responsible for your happiness. That's the hard but healthy way to be!! Smile more!!
2007-04-23 04:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Eric E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to train yourself to believe in yourself regardless of what you may regard as your shortcomings. Also, if someone is to not to like before they get to know you; but just judge you on your looks, then they are shallow, & you do not need that hassle anyway.
2007-04-23 05:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...you are "fearfully and wonderfully made".(Re:Bible).
I would feel very honored if I could go out with you....you sound very sweet........â¥!!
2007-04-23 04:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋