Other - Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

My b/f has told me he no longer wants us to try having a baby... We have been ttc for 1 year now, and it was what he wanted initially, but today, he has told me its not what he wants cause 'he's not ready'. I have said its because he doesn't want me, he insists thats not the case. We haven't had a row, its just come out of the blue!
I feel so stupid, hurt and disapointed. I'm so cross with him i can't talk to him. My gut is telling me to finish it, but he doesn't want that.
Please give me some good advise! I'm so low!!!!!

2007-03-06 06:52:14 · 20 answers · asked by jenny w 2

my exboyfriend broke up with me and i never had the chance to tell him i love him...what should i do?

2007-03-06 06:48:56 · 10 answers · asked by thicc_azn_brezzy_510 1

Ive seen this girl that i would like to ask out but know that even tho there seems to be some chemistery there she is quite a bit young than me im 35 and she is 18 im confused please help

2007-03-06 06:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by Tonny C 1

If u believe, why u believe?If not, why not?
Do u believe that the relation between two persons depends on their zodiac signs?
My zodiac is cancer & what is yours?

2007-03-06 06:43:27 · 1 answers · asked by Naren_RocksU 3

having your spouse compliment you on your looks, saying how beautiful you look and how nice your hair is and your beautiful smile, what a nice body you have etc OR would you rather have a man that is a good communicator and listener, always looking for your best interest, helping you in situations physically and mentally good gifts that you need and want (expensive ones at that)and does everything in his power for you.
Only pick one,not both and dont say it should be a compromise of both.
what is more important to women the complimenter or the one who shows his love?
I could be just plain ugly,fat and stupid and fooling myself, but even when I looked my best 5'8 1/2 inches at 140# he never complimented me then either and I can understand why he doesnt now because I have put some weight on and may not be attractive to him anymore,because I know he knows how to compliment because he compliments others when they look good, so I get the doer, but I guess at least he shows his love some wa

2007-03-06 06:42:20 · 4 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

How can I shake the feeling of him cheating? It's not that i'm insecure, i honestly think it's my "woman's intuition". I'm very perceptive. Something just doesn't feel right, but I love him so much and I've invested a lot into this relationship. He is in the process of moving to L.A.; (we live in sf/bay area) and I asked him would he ever cheat on me while he is out there. He said, "I'll try not to". It's not that he doesn't care about me, he wants to marry me and he wants me to have his kids. I'm 20 and he's 24. The second he told me "he'll try", I told him "It's a wrap, and I'm done with you". But he begged me to come back. He's leaving in a couple of months (he sending for me in fall); I just feel like he is a mistake. But I "love" him. I'm sorry but trying is not enough for me. I know I would never betray him like that, for a fact. I would break up with someone before cheating on someone; that's the ultimate humiliation and disrespect in my eyes. We've been together for a 1yr

2007-03-06 06:26:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex made a love song about his exgirlfriend and ask me to listen to the song he made about his ex and i didnt like it to much and ask him if he still have feelings for her and she said no hes over here and he got mad at me and did not talk to me for days and he broke up with me because i felt that he didnt care to much about me and i dont understand am i the one who suspost to feel sad and depress because he broke up with me because of that song..????? i need help because i want to get back with him i cant sleep and..he always...remians in my head i need help should i talk to him or not..?????

2007-03-06 06:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by thicc_azn_brezzy_510 1

Have been with my guy for 10yrs, and for a while our sex life is non. He travels to another town to visit his dad and does not come home till 6am. I check his texts which i know is so wrong but i seen a message from his "dads mobile" from a girl stating something and at the end said luv x. Last wkend he said i was boring and a drama queen, when i asked him what that was all about he said he was really drunk, i am still waiting on sorry. Tonight he has came in had his dinner, shower and now back at his dads about a message. I know i should be talking to him about this but he just huffs and does not look at me. I want to know what you's think. Is he cheating or has this relationship just ran its course!

2007-03-06 06:16:25 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-06 06:14:57 · 5 answers · asked by Seth R 2

I have been with my ex for four years. We recently broke up because he cheated on me for the second time. He made up whatever lie he could to cover his *** so i wouldnt find out but the girl eventually told me herself. He has been cheating on me since day one i told him that i was pregnant. He hasnt put to much time into me while i have been pregnant but tells all his friends that hes going to be there. All he has done is hang out and party and cheat and ignored me. He has only been to two doctor appoinments ( im 6months) I realized that he is a liar and I want to protect me son from what i went throguht when i was young with the lies from my father. I dont doubt that he will love his son but I dont want my son hurtlike I have been for months. Am i wrong for wanting this

2007-03-06 06:11:40 · 2 answers · asked by tiffany j 2

If u believe, why u believe?If not, why not?
Do u believe that the relation between two persons depends on their zodiac signs?
My zodiac is cancer & what is yours?

2007-03-06 06:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by Naren_RocksU 3

Orginizing tips for room?
i need some tips for keeping stuff orginized.
what neat ideas do you have to put things in or neat crafts for walls.


any cute ideas to put..
curling iorn straightner blowdryer
jewelry [ earrings necklaces bracelents rings etc]
hair stuff.
shoes
books
office suplies
make up.
and other stuff that you can think of that can be messy.



thanks!!
btw if any of you want to know my room is purple flowers theam.

2007-03-06 06:05:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's birthday is coming up and I want to throw him a party with just the guys. His birthday is in April, so it's not football season, so they can't watch a game or something. He doesn't drink, smoke, or watch strippers. What are things that guys like to do to just hang out? All I can think of is video games . . . which my husband isn't really into.

2007-03-06 05:59:07 · 23 answers · asked by Serena84 2

I'm sad and confused. I don't know what to do! my brother got in a car accident. he did'nt get hurt, but an ond man died. he's terrified and so am I...

2007-03-06 05:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jacquie 2

My Son Zac has had a hard life, adopted by me and my ex at birth and at 16 given away again by the man who promised to love him forever. cause he did not want to pay support, We dont have much money he is a great kid, he graduates in may with honors and achivements honors from a christian academy. and I am trying to find the Perfect gift to give him, funds are VERY LOW, its all I can do to get his cap and gown, We made his Grad announcements our self, I want to give him something to say I love you yet something that is not so expencive, I adopted him 18 years ago and This boy is my sunshine. He leaves for the Air Force in Sept. Any ideas.... I am lost as to what to get or do that does not cost an arm and leg, yet he is worth a million, he is a strong christian kid
with out him I dont know what I would have done I love him so very much,

2007-03-06 05:45:18 · 4 answers · asked by Peggy C 4

she has been like this for over 2 months now. after i apologized to her and she has been rude to me all this time. and now she wants the mailbox key and i told her if she wants it, she needs to start acting more civil towards me.

2007-03-06 05:40:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & my boyfriend are moving to live together. We have been together 3 years and have a great sex life, Im just worried that living together I will get lazy.
Any tips....nothing too kinky please!
Ta

2007-03-06 05:39:32 · 3 answers · asked by Dinky 1

When my mom remarried the guy she married had a son that was my age. Well me and him hit it off and wound up fooling around alot. I know he was my step brother but it was fun for us. Do you think we were wrong for doing that?

2007-03-06 05:35:41 · 19 answers · asked by sexypanty07 2

2007-03-06 05:34:04 · 29 answers · asked by olivier1uk 3

my fiance and i have let his brother and his girlfriend come stay until they get settled they have moved from another province and he has found a job (i know great!!) anyways since they have been here they have made a mess out of my house. i work from 5 in the morning til 1 in the afternoon. when i go to bed the dishes from dinner are clean and i tidy the house before i go to bed. when i wake up it is a mess there are dirty ashtrays and empty bottles or glasses lying on the floor. they dont clean up after themselves and i am getting annoyed. i have asked over and over for them to tidy up after themselves but i have yet to see it done. i only have to deal with this for a month so do i freak out on them both or just let my house turn into a pigsty. i also have no privacy when i am working on my computer since the girlfriend tends to hover over my shoulder. i have resorted to hiding in my bedroom with the laptop! anybody have any suggestions about what i should do before i lose it?

2007-03-06 05:28:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk

2007-03-06 05:28:03 · 2 answers · asked by bryan 1

Ok I was a foster child in 1984. My foster father and foster mother were married. However my foster father left my foster mother for her cheating ways. Well I wanted to go with him but she told me no and to never ask again. I FINIALLY found him last Monday. Well I am going out to see him this summer for two weeks.
I am currently going through a coustry battle atm. My X's parents have my daughter. As he can't have her atm either.
My delima is my visit with my foster father. I am planning to go see him for two weeks in the summer (different state). What if he offers for me to move in with him? I am currently staying with friends. I would really love to live with him again. However I don't want to leave my daughter behind and if I move I would have to. Unforuntly right now it doesnt look like either of us are gonna get her back anytime soon. What if he tries to offer me money? I don't think he needs to give me money now just because he couldnt before. His x-wife took everything of his

2007-03-06 05:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by mysticsoul 1

is it still rape if he didnt go all the way but still forced himself on me and did other things and attempted to have sex?

2007-03-06 05:22:20 · 37 answers · asked by confused07 1

I am 27, he is 22. He is an extremely good looking guy (think Raulph Lauren models!)
When we met 2 months ago, it was instant and mutual attraction.We started dating, had a very intimate time and great sex. We were close to each other,he contacted me almost every day. Suddenly i started getting upset with him for no reason and we had a bit of a fight. I suggested we split up because we need to study and because i can't handle being emotionally involved.. (we are both postgraduate students and its very stressful time for us) . He didn't want to split up, was very upset...i was upset ...we decided not to split up.
But he changed since that quarrel, became cold and distant, and we haven't met for 2 weeks now. We finally resolved the issues ( after my apology and him "taking time alone")but he isn't keen at all on seing me - he told me he is Fully booked this week. The guy is smart, do you think he is playing games or being disrespectful.. He is the one that always calls me?

2007-03-06 05:11:02 · 7 answers · asked by Rita B 1

My wife and I have had sex many times in our private pool because it is such a turn on for us, but now we have a hot tub and are unsure about having sex(other than oral) in it. Without a condom, there has to be some body fluids that enter the water and we are unsure if the filter will take care of it or will it just get all over us. Anyone have experience with this that might help make a decision?

2007-03-06 04:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by steeple54 2

every time i hear that question i get stuck what are some thing you say to ytour love ones when they ask you how much do you love them? thank in advance for all the POSITIVE answers

2007-03-06 04:50:57 · 6 answers · asked by brun!pinky 3

2007-03-06 04:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we have talked about the future, getting married and having kids in maybe 2 or 3 years. He was previously in the Army for 4 years and we met and dated long distance for 9 mo. He got out of the army and has been having trouble finding a job. He told me a few weeks ago he is going to become a Sheriff. I was upset by this bc i've dated a cop and got very familiar with their lifestyle and didn't like it. I am extremely worried about a few things. I know about 95% of them cheat, it is a dangerous job, and not a reg. 9-5 job. Any advice? If your married to a law enforcement or dating one do you know if they cheat and just ignore it for the sake of the kids or your relationship???

2007-03-06 04:26:48 · 8 answers · asked by ericarae1 2

I have been seeing my fiance' for two years. He is serving 4 months in jail for drunk driving. He gets out for work 6 days out of the week and I have to drive him back & forth because he has no driver's license. Every day I get up at 4 a.m., pack his lunch, wake my 8 & 10 year-old kids up and drive 35 miles to the jail to pick him up. I then bring him to work, which is another 6 miles out of my way. Then, I drive home again, make breakfast for the kids, get them ready for school, drive 13 miles to the school, drop them off & go back home. It all starts over again in the afternoon. We don't get home until 7 pm, (unless it's girl scouts, boy scouts or junior bowling league) or later. My kids go to school from 8 am until 4 pm Tues-Friday. They have special needs & have appointments throughout the week that I try to schedule around everything else. I'm so burned out & it's only been a month! My fiance never tells me he loves me & treats me like a taxi driver. There's much more to this.....

2007-03-06 04:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by sneaky squirrel 2

just somthing fun to talk about....?

2007-03-06 04:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3