Other - Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

I have a cousin who just moved in the US 6 months ago after getting a green card and now she wants to gp to New York because of a job opportunity as a teacher for autistic children. She is 32 but inspite of her disability she had a wonderful career back in the Philippines and is always driven to be an independent person. And yet we are all afriad for her beacuse she is still new to this country and she cannot see very well because she is a low vision person. NY is a big city and report of this city as having a high crime rate adds to our fear for her. Should we let her go to NY? Do you think she can cope the fast phase life of NY and would it be hard for her to get around the city?

2007-03-06 19:08:10 · 3 answers · asked by astral 1

will this movie show any sought of difference with relationship's

2007-03-06 18:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by naresh 3

WHAT DO I DO IF I ACENDENTLY SAID I LOVE U 2 MY DAD. i was on the fonr 2 my gf and i told her i love her then dad rang and i acendently said i love u 2 him. OMG i am so shameded he gets home at 4 thats a few mins away what do i say when he askes me?

2007-03-06 18:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by josh miller 1

Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal

2007-03-06 18:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by yassmin 1

Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal

2007-03-06 18:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by yassmin 1

okay so heres the deal.
my boyfriend and i well things arent going to great,
like he proposed to me about a month ago and i told him if were still together when im 18(2 years) then yeah. hes 19.

and last night four of my guy friends showed up drunk as hell and wouldnt stop hitting on me and i beat the **** outta one of them then asked them all to leave and they wouldnt. so i called my boyfriend and told him what was goign on and hes all im so stoned babe call me in the morning. then i sent him a message like an hour later telling him waht happend, which was that they wouldnt leave or stop hitting on me so i went and slept in the bathroom/
no big deal. right?

okay well then today i check his page and all the pictures of me and him are off.
i find out hes been hanging out with his ex.
hes with his ex now at the hot springs.
and he wont answer any of my calls or call me back.

Am i freaking out over nothing and being a psycho girlfriend
or should i be worried?

i really love this guy.
i dont no what to do,


any advice?

2007-03-06 18:30:08 · 2 answers · asked by Ky 1

My online Friends told me a site to meet singles in local city, not sure of whether I can meet the right person at this site, millionairecupid.com, anyone have been there before? I do not want to cheated any more.

2007-03-06 18:21:11 · 3 answers · asked by JerrY m 1

Why do girls always want to talk about discharge and their periods?? You never see such questions from a guy. To me if you want to talk about body functions, you do that in closed conversation.

2007-03-06 18:17:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

they dont sleep in the same room ever since i came to live there i have seen him chill alone.(him and his wife my MIL).then started seeing them together..sometimes i saw him asking her to come in the room to sit and sleep. its as if they have some big secret why does he act this way towards her then outa nowhere kiss hug her is he stupid?why does he gossip about her to me im his daughter inlaw he has even spoke about her with curse words that i got quiet by this.. now im wondering whats the secret.. although she is a serious psycho she curses the cooks and the cleaning lady but when her son comes she changes and acts so helpless..she has alot of drama im glad her husband gossiped but why did he? not to mention he told me dont tell anyone what i tell u about MY WIFE. my mom told me to stay away from him..hes in the government so hes not some stupid village guy hes all about fashion hes dressy BUT WHO CARES i just wana knw whats going on any guess?

2007-03-06 18:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a "no strings attached" relationship with a great guy. We were both recently divorced and we had a lot of fun together. I was so happy with him and fought the lovey feelings. He picked up on them and reminded me that he doesn't want to get married,that he is happy living alone.He wanted to be sure I knew I had "Stronger feelings" then he did.I knew and it didn't hurt me any to hear this.I knew I was just confuseing sex for love. A few months later I snapped out of it and we still had a great time. Well,now,a year and a half later, he's in love and wants to get married and all that. I have no desire to even live with him. I love being alone. I was married when I was 19 and divorced at 33. I am loving living alone. He says there is something wrong with that,my "wanting" to be alone.

What do you think? I don't want a boyfriend. Or a "real" relationship. IS there something wrong with that???

2007-03-06 18:03:14 · 17 answers · asked by lucysleeps 1

I think that anything that brings more love into the world is good, Why does gay marriage bother people?
Is this just a distraction from what people really think?

2007-03-06 18:00:28 · 1 answers · asked by mliz55 6

hey everyobody i am doing a speech on facing the reality that i have to growup and it would be a GREAT help if you could tell me what you think was the hardest thing about growing up (e.g. having to do things on your own and being independent or not being able to talk to your parents because they no longer unerstand)
Thanks heaps!!!

2007-03-06 17:52:12 · 6 answers · asked by rebecca 2

can any one guess to what the heck is up with these two? my fathe inlaw likes me but MIL hates my guts as to i hate her guts since she always lies to my husband about things that dont even exixt just so he fights with me,, the ques is.. MIL wants her husband to sit with her love her and hes a busy guy who has his busy job when he comes hes busy..i heard them argue, he told me privately shes a sick psycho woman and just to ignore her he said hes handling her in a proper way so everything is cool other wise she will go psycho. he usually gossips about her and says he ruined his life and got stuck with her, he has a 2nd wife but doesnt mention her at all,, i started wondering why did he leave his 2nd wife to be living with this psycho woman who nags nags complaints and mostly cries cries and acts like shes the poor woman who has sacrafised so much..what do u guys say about HIM any guess?? i cant figure out whats the deal

2007-03-06 17:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for eight months and we always fight. We were happy for the first month, but then he admitted that he liked another girl as well as me, and that really messed me up. My self esteem dropped drastically and I became more wary. All I could think was "why"? Anyway, I decided to stay with him (God knows why) and I tried to forget about it. But then a few weeks later he called me a *****, for no reason. That hurt so much, but yet again, I decided to stay with him. More fights like these occured over the last eight months, and all those times I forgave him. Just last night we had another fight. He was telling me about a girl he knew that died 5 years ago and how much he missed her. I felt sorry for him, I really did, but he kept going on and on about it so I told him to stop. Then he started yelling at me and saying that I should understand. I DO understand. He just went over the top when I let him know I didn't want to talk about it.

2007-03-06 17:30:04 · 21 answers · asked by ♰ℓσυιѕα♰ 1

2007-03-06 17:29:31 · 2 answers · asked by Shawneerain1 1

i lost my ipod today while running at school, nobody was around except for my friend who didn't see me drop it but i'm sure it fell out of my pocked. Im not so worried that i lost it because i can always get a new one since i know whoever found it wont return it and somebody probably already picked it up. I went to all my classes to see if i dropped it there but no... so yea im sure i dropped it out in the parking lot. The only thing im worried about his that it had some embarrassing pictures (not of me, but other things) not relating to me but they were embarrassing and some embarrassing songs which would be so much embarrassment if somebody found out that its my ipod so i wont even bother trying to ask people if they found it. Do you think that if somebody finds it they would know its mine? (i had no name on it or any person info)its been worried me the whole evening like what if they make fun of me (if they know) i doubt they do but its just eating me

2007-03-06 17:25:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been a year since I've even seen my first love, but I can't help but feel strongly for him. My mother made us break up and made it impossible for us to see each other. He was a great guy, and now I can't get over him. At the same time, I'm starting to develop feelings for another guy, and I don't know what to do.
How long did it take everyone to get over their first true love?

2007-03-06 17:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Catherine♥ 4

my wife and i decided to try nudism, first at home then resort. her sister lives with us also, and saw me nude,now she goes nude in the huse with us. we now want to go away on hols and she wants to come. and my wife wants her too also.im not sure, my wife says she likes me nude and show her sister at home and says it would majke the holiday if all 3 of us get nude together.I dont mind but i feel like she looks at me all the time. We are all smoothies but she makes suggestive comments etc and my wife laughs it off. I that ok?

2007-03-06 17:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by smoothnudes 1

I had this girl at school that is preggers eye in me up and down like the dollar menu at Mc Donald's. I never felt so violated, yet excited that I looked tasty enough to eat.

2007-03-06 17:18:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I asked my brother for getting a girlfriend (he has a girlfriend), and here's is what I wrote in the email, I paraphrased it to condense it.

"Are there any pointers on to getting a girlfriend? I never had an intimate relationship nor have a big amount of female friends. Just because a female is your friend, that doesn't mean that she will become your girlfriend. I know that 1st appearance matter so I will stop biting my nails permanently."

He is in college while I am at home. I emailed that email since Feb 10, 2007 and he didn't reply. When he got home, I asked about him about it and he said he didn't replied to it since he didn't know what to say (aka, he thinks it was wierd). In my opinion, he's the wierd one. The relationship between my brother and I is that I never talk to him (online or phone). AKA, our communication is dead.

2007-03-06 17:12:51 · 2 answers · asked by KHCOM 1

2007-03-06 17:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by non_oxynol_9 1

I started dating one of my best friends. We had that we just know feeling that we were meant to be. in the begining like the first month or so we had sex all the time. then i slowly didnt want anything to do with it. It is so bad now. We have gotten married and been together 2 years and i get so bad that i can not breath, i feel sick to my stomach and cry. I dread it!!! He is a man and has needs i know but it is not something i can help. I want to,want to, but i just dread it. We have tried some things like talking myslef through it that doesnt work. I even took extra sleeping pills so he could do it while i was asleep. But obviously he prefers me awake and involved. I dont know what to do anymore. It hurts me to know I am not satisfing him. He is supportive and somewhat understands, but he thinks it is something idont want to due but its not i ltereally cant do it and fear everytime we touch or kiss that I will have to have sex so now i tend to pull away from that too. it breaks my <3

2007-03-06 17:05:26 · 28 answers · asked by eyes_sparkle_green 1

I'm mixed Puerto Rican & Italian-Irish & was raised on my mother (the Italian-Irish side) of my family. My grandfather on her side is old fashioned & doesn't accept interracial relationships, specifically black/white relationships but doesn't seem to realize that I'm mixed (he refers to me as being "white" like the rest of my mom's family does because I'm light skinned, something that isn't new to me from dealing with ignorant people in general from all races/colors). He says "blacks and whites don't mix" and that really upsets me, since I don't mind what skin color someone is. He's from an Italian-Irish background, and he doesn't understand why I have no interest in Italians and always tries to shove Italian down my throat even though i'm more hispanic-identified and prefer non-whites. He believes he is right and knows everything, but doesn't even regard that my father's father was actually very dark skinned and that i have it in my blood. How can I convince him otherwise? Any advice?

2007-03-06 16:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by Dusk 6

2007-03-06 16:44:39 · 2 answers · asked by gregdean 1

Ok. So my class is doing sex ed for a couple weeks and I stated my opinion on something in class and now my class thinks I'm sexist for it. My teacher Mrs. Jamison asked why I think most teenagers relationships don't last when the girl get pregnant and I said "a lot of gus are pigs and at the first sight of parenthood they bolt." I wasn't saying all guys are like that I just mean a lot will run if they become a father. What should I do to get people to leave me alone. I'm already harassed on the daily bases and now its worse.

2007-03-06 16:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha 2

2007-03-06 16:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a close friend who came to me today in tears saying her son was gripped round the thoat in anger by a family friend. The boy (aged 9) was told that it was to be kept between the man who did this and himself. His mum got it out of him through a lot of effort. Now she doesnt know what to do? Does she let this go or report this to the law? Her only doubt in reporting this is that she doesn't wish to upset her son any further.

2007-03-06 16:11:09 · 8 answers · asked by stevebrit2004 2

Peopleusually hate doing their schoolwork. I am very enthusiastic about doing homework. But my parents make my sister and I do it until 9:00-10:00 pm ! homeschool and I start from 9:00-10:00am. I'm not failing in grades and I'm not behind. Even when I work late, they're not seeming happy!? Its liek you can't satiify them and I don't know what to do! Its drivin me nuts cuz i want to have play time with my sister and enjoy life a bit. My mother and father have loud arguments many times that are verbally inappropiate. I am ten going eleven exposed to words worse than the f word. I am exposed to conflict and quarrel that now my sister and I have adopted such a habit-we argue all the time now.
Also, my parents tell me they love so much. Things like-I quit my life and put myself on hold to take care of you, to teach you.... but then later they don't act like they love us!! They say things like-"we need to puth them in a barn!or stick utenseland plunger in our face i don't know what to do!

2007-03-06 16:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by lemon drops 3

doesnt sound like they are that devoted... now does it

2007-03-06 16:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by foxfire 5

my boyfriend and i want to have sex. we'r both adults and it would be my 1st time. not him though. i know hes had sex before , and i told him i would like an HIV tes before, just so my mind could be in peace and i could not have to worry about it later. he doesnt like condoms, and last night he was telling me he doesnt want to get that test done...=/ i was upset because we agreed he would.
i know he probably doesnt have anything i should worry about, ive known him for years now and he doesnt have any symptoms like hes sick or anything.
i need advice....should i trust him ?
please help me. what is something i could tell him?
am i exagerating by asking him to do this?

2007-03-06 15:52:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous