can any one guess to what the heck is up with these two? my fathe inlaw likes me but MIL hates my guts as to i hate her guts since she always lies to my husband about things that dont even exixt just so he fights with me,, the ques is.. MIL wants her husband to sit with her love her and hes a busy guy who has his busy job when he comes hes busy..i heard them argue, he told me privately shes a sick psycho woman and just to ignore her he said hes handling her in a proper way so everything is cool other wise she will go psycho. he usually gossips about her and says he ruined his life and got stuck with her, he has a 2nd wife but doesnt mention her at all,, i started wondering why did he leave his 2nd wife to be living with this psycho woman who nags nags complaints and mostly cries cries and acts like shes the poor woman who has sacrafised so much..what do u guys say about HIM any guess?? i cant figure out whats the deal
2007-03-06 17:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not to mention MIL gives my marriage drama she listens in on our talks if we talk loud she gets happy if we argue she comes running in the room asking WHAT WHAT HAPPENED TELL ME EVERYTHING im like who the heck r u coming in our room at night asking info n e wayz my point....he says hes tired of her hes just passing time and behaving in a manner towards her so she can be controlled but then i see him taking her out and sitting with her hugging her kissing her and lauging as to how happy he is...outa nowhere as if he loves her to bits..then im like what is he doing
2007-03-06 17:52:30 · update #1
this is his 1st wife,,he married again and had kids with 2nd wife but back with the same psycho 1st wife..hmmm why why did he return he doesnt sound happy from what he gossips
2007-03-06 17:57:01 · update #2
I would just stay out of it if I were you. Too much drama and you've got your own marriage to worry about.
2007-03-06 17:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of your tale it sounds as in case your inlaws are at logger heads at something. however the question is, why do you human beings could desire to stay with them? won't be able to you convince your husband to stay separately? you have not reported something approximately your husbands reactions/area in this drama! What does he think of roughly this? Why do not you're taking the initiative and confer with him approximately seperating from this living house and installation a house by using your self? Inlaws issues are continuously there in each and every relatives. Its continuously greater effective to be away and visit as quickly as a on an identical time as than staying jointly and dealing with all that b/s
2016-10-17 11:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by croes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a dishonest man who feel he deserves to be with this women. If he hurt his first and second wife, why wouldn't he deserve her. I know if my ex husband got someone like this he knows what he did to me and my child. I think he would stay in something like this, he probably gets his action on the side anyhow. So why not stay in the house of something he deserves. Guilt
2007-03-06 17:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about her. Mother in law sounds like she's she's insecure and self-centered. Father in law has no spine and deals with it.Yeah, they're both screwy.
Why would you stay with someone who's "ruined" your life?
2007-03-06 17:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like that. its inappropriate for him to be telling you things about his marriage, and perhaps he just wants to vent but thats still wrong. He obviously is a rather immature adult, and even if he IS in a bad marriage, which it sounds like he is, he's very odd to be telling you the things he has. steer clear, sister!
2007-03-06 17:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay as far away from that mess as possible. dysfunctional all the way around. usually in-laws dont act or talk this way. Usually.
2007-03-06 17:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by cjl222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your time would be better spent away from them. Too much drama.
2007-03-06 17:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanna get into bed with you. Stay away!
2007-03-06 17:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a bit suss of that guy.
2007-03-06 17:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is right, then entire family is a problem.
most probably he is wrong.
2007-03-06 17:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋