Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal
2007-03-06 18:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by yassmin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not normal to not have met his friends for 5 years. But don't assume he's ashamed of of YOU, he may be ashamed of his jerk friends, and how they reflect on him. I say give him an ultimatum, and promise you won't view him any differently once you've met them, and you don't have to see them after that. But if he still won't, dump him. A guy with something to hide is not a guy to be with.
2007-03-06 18:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah no, that is weird. I would leave him. 5 years is way too long for that kind of behavior. I would of understood if it was like 5 months. He is hiding something from you and whatever it is, I wouldn't stay around much longer to find out what it is.
2007-03-07 02:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Twinboymom22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it,s called a lack of resect because in the old day if a boy brings a girl to her house it meens he what,s to marry her.so the family can desided if she is good for thire son ofthen this is the other way around the boy meeting hre parents but not in your cast.
2007-03-07 02:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it sounds like your boyfriend's cheating on you. I'd think it was weird if he wouldn't let me meet his friends after 5 months, but if it's been 5 years.......sounds really shady.
2007-03-07 02:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by lizo0110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is hiding you from his wife or other girl friend. have enough respect for yourself to find someone who respects you and does not want to hide you from the world.
2007-03-07 02:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty crazy. are you sure hes your boyfriend? i would dump his *** girl and go find you a normal man. when i date a girl i wanna meet her parents at least a month after dating
2007-03-07 02:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by spanish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a wierdo, be carefull with him
2007-03-07 02:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm have you met any of his family??
2007-03-07 02:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋