Other - Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

Okay, so I have been head over heels for my neighbour for about 2 years now. I ended up seeing him at a party one night and we hooked up. The 1st 3 months were GREAT However a few months into the relationship I started having doubts that I loved him.

It feels like I have two little people arguing in my mind, one half saying that I love him and the other half saying, no you don't. It's driving me insane and on days where it's worse I feel sick.

I've told him about it but it hasn't really helped.

Anyway, my behaviour around him hasn't really changed, I still kiss him enjoy being around him, snuggle with him and all that type of stuff, but sometimes my mind says, no, you don't love him, you shouldn't be doing this.

I cry, I feel sick and basically I don't know what to do.

Is there somethign I'm subconsciously thinking to make me think this? Has anyone else been through a similar thing?

This is my 1st non dramatic relationship if that means anything....

Thanks!

2007-03-06 08:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 43, I have one older teenager still in school, a ex-husband, who thinks I owe him, no man, a house, no car because the teenager and his buddies, drank a bottle and went driving after watching, The Dukes of Hazzard, my daughter is a quadreplegic and is having some difficulties right now, I had to lay off my employees because business is slowed down, a black tomcat, and an old wiener dog, and I'm still sure things are going to get better. Am I insane to think, I still have hope that everything will work out?

2007-03-06 08:29:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a relationship with my ex for 3.5 years. I was her 1st everything, but we had 2 split b/c of differences. After we split, I found the most wonderful girl I've met in my life. I immediately fell in love w/her. She is my dream girl & we've never had sex, we just talk & enjoy each other 2 the fullest. I really respect this girl, but in the mean time, my ex was heart broken b/c of her. She cried every night & tried 2 kill herself. Against my new girls will, I'd go 2 my ex's house & try 2 make her feel better by talking 2 her b/cI was her only real friend, but we never did anything.

1 night, I got drunk & my ex sent me text messages about doing some erotic sexual acts on me. I fell a victim 2 the forbidden fruit like Adam & Eve & I went 2 her house & had sex w/her. My ex told my new girl that she'd been having sex w/me & now my new girl won't communicate w/me. I've sent flowers, but what else can I do? I really love my new girl and would like to marry her, but my ex has scared me.

2007-03-06 08:28:01 · 8 answers · asked by psychoanton 1

2007-03-06 08:26:18 · 15 answers · asked by carla 1

My stepdad's friend gets disgusting hookers. He is from a small town in Northern Michigan and travels to Grand Rapids, Michigan to get "escorts" all the time (about 2 times per month). He has had 17 different girls total. This has been going on for quite some time, and my entire family knows about it. He brags about it , tells his other friends, and even lines other men up with the hookers! He even takes photos of each girl as a trophy.

The problem is, he's married to a woman who has been his wife for thirty something years (he's 60). They had one son, but he died when he was 17. His wife is still completely torn up about her son's death some twenty years ago, so I'm thinking if we say anything to her about the whores, it will destroy her life.

This is very scary because several times he has told my stepfather that the condom broke. I don't think he's afraid of getting a disease or giving one to his wife, which is even scarier.

What should we do?

2007-03-06 08:24:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am i luv with a guy and he with me for past 2 years. we both belong to hindu families but of different castes.our both families are orthodox in marrige matters within community.i am a single child.my parents luv me a lot.i havent told them about him.there will be a big show down when i will.they wouldnt allow me to marry him in any circumstances.dont want to hurt them plus cant leave my boyfriend.what should i do. how can one choose between ones family and luv.

2007-03-06 08:21:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and the father of my children have been together for two years after i had my first son i relapsed and went back to drugs and cheated on him and we split up for three months, we got back together and everything was good, i got pregnant with my second son and had some problems with the pregnancy at around 6 months he started sleeping with a girl from his work, he lied to me about it for almost a year and now i cant seem to get over the fact that he did that, we are trying to work on things but we are alwase fighting about this, i freaked out when he told me ans slept with one of his friends just so i could feel better but it has made things worse, i know this isnt a healthy relationship, nbut i cant picture my life without him i love him and i know he loves me and we have two boys together, please if you want to leave a mean comment then dont but if you have some advice please help me

2007-03-06 08:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by jenn c 2

wat do u do when u think ur bf is cheatin?? ur friends all of a sudden dont wanna be ur friend anymore, so ur lonely.. and 3 family memebrs t died in tha past 3 days??

2007-03-06 08:06:14 · 7 answers · asked by ~*!Ms. Part-time Angel~*! 1

years..He has 3 other children from prevouse relationships..We plan on getting married but he doesnt want another baby?what should I do ...

2007-03-06 08:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by mommie2005 1

Would you leave a job you don't like even though it pays the bills?
Would you leave a man/woman you love, but does not understand the meaning of "your" happiness? Where do you draw the line?

2007-03-06 08:01:56 · 16 answers · asked by Cowboy Take Me Away 3

the meaning of life ????????? why not? OK you gotta
betta reason ? signed,, me and 'im.....any problems and
we , do ya !!! yer...yer...yer...oh shut up !!!! OK !

2007-03-06 07:58:36 · 10 answers · asked by landgirl60 4

Well i am a gorl looking for a honest guy just to talk to online get to have a relationship.

2007-03-06 07:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1

We are very open with everything...almost everything. I have told him in the past that I love him and then he asked what I thought love was. I explained what I felt...but he didn't say those words back. I know he does though...I see it in all that he does for and with me. How can I explain to him that even though actions speak louder than words I want to hear it sometimes.........with out being to forward about it.

2007-03-06 07:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by opiegalis 1

ok so this girl is going 2 beat me up the day before she moves i would tell on her but her friends will beat me up for snitching any good ways to get sick ice in the pants u no

2007-03-06 07:55:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having a baby to a guy who doesn't have the time to come and see me or have any part in my pregnancy. Yet he wants full access to the child when it's born. I don't think he will be a suitable dad as he hardly has time and i don't want my child to have a part time dad, in and out of his life. He is going to take me to court and try to gain access when it's born , but i don't want him nowhere near. What can i do to stop him from seeing the child? And what are his rights? I like to think he has none because he isn't really there now.

2007-03-06 07:53:35 · 13 answers · asked by miss_power86 2

Im stuck between to awesome girls im going out with one that only likes me...but the other is madly in love with me =/

and i cant figure out what to do....idk what i want...Any advice?

2007-03-06 07:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by chopedham 1

i have found blonde hair on my boyfriends car seat an i asked him were it came from an he said he doesnt know. But this is twice i have found it. An also when i ask him he gets angry. Idnt know what yo do pls help is he cheatin on me.

2007-03-06 07:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by katie 1

2007-03-06 07:43:13 · 5 answers · asked by Michele N 1

when some is depressed or stressed they help the person through therapy. so why cant they help guys who think they feel like women to feel like men. because i think they were not meant to feel like that. i think its a disease

2007-03-06 07:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by sean g 1

someone claims to love you but they won't wait for you to get unattached from someone else?

2007-03-06 07:33:12 · 1 answers · asked by oxygenO 6

i want to help him i just ordered him a bunch of clothes from hollister and american eagle...hes going to high school this coming up year and i dont know what to do...he will ruin my rep bc am popular...please help

2007-03-06 07:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 3

2007-03-06 07:23:05 · 13 answers · asked by KELLY R 1

they sleep together behind closed doors saying they go to sleep lisenting to the stereo, they are never apart, and even walk in the shopping stores with arms around each other

2007-03-06 07:22:19 · 18 answers · asked by bobbyk 1

A 14 year old girl died yesterday after being swept into a swollen river whilst training for some sort of outward bound competition on Dartmoor. Should her parents, after allowing her to go on the trip be allowed to sue the education authority who took her on the trip. Personally I think it is time to stop apportioning blame, so that our kids can experience real life. Blame-claim has got to go, otherwise our kids don't even get to play kiss chase.

2007-03-06 07:12:13 · 13 answers · asked by freddy the newf 4

everytime he's at work he looks at this site, i've seen the logs but he doesn't know that. when i ask him he denies it, this really annoys me i'm fed up of giving him the oppertunity to come clean but he says he doesn't look.. so why is he not telling the truth.

2007-03-06 07:08:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you just wanted to surprise your boyfriend with something special when he got home from work? to make him feel so loved and important...he is but i want him to feel amazed...i love him so much and i just love doing great things for him so i need some new ideas please tell me...
ps...NOT in like a sexual way;)

2007-03-06 07:05:18 · 18 answers · asked by help! 1

i mean why do we always have to have connections to get a decient job? see me my name is yashmine webb and im 18 and i dont have connections. what you think i should do?

2007-03-06 07:04:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i was up north we met these girls at the beach. we decided to play chicken in the water an one of the girls after she fell in the water came back up an one boob was out and she didnt relize and kept on as nothing was wrong until we told her.

2007-03-06 06:56:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, do think you could cheat and still feel the same about your spouse? Since I think everyone at one time or another thinks about cheating, what if you acted on it? Is there a proper way to cheat?

2007-03-06 06:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3

I have just split up with my gf and i want her back, i need to sort myself out first and i know that is my priority but i want to avoid that stage of texting her all the time trying to get her back cos i think this will push her away even more? how do i go about this?

2007-03-06 06:53:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous