Other - Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

whats more embarrassing, being a guy in his early 20s - being gay as in homosexual or a guy who is straight but never had a girlfriend in his life before? which one should feel more ashamed of more?

2007-03-06 15:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always shy away from social situations, even though I'm much happier when I talk to people. I've been on one date in my life (I'm 20, and she came onto me). I have a few "sort of" friends at school, but no real good friends. Why am I like this? Could it be because I always had lots of family around (cousins lived in our house til I was 10. My other cousins live 3 minutes from my house) and never needed friends to play with as a child?

2007-03-06 15:41:53 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

what kind of things can I do to surprise him? is there any service in toronto that goes to people's houses' and sings happy bday or som't like that...just looking for ideas that are not too $$ but yet shows i love him :) thanks and pls no stupid answers lol

2007-03-06 15:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i want to have sex. we'r both adults and it would be my 1st time. not him though. i know hes had sex before , and i told him i would like an HIV tes before, just so my mind could be in peace and i could not have to worry about it later. he doesnt like condoms, and last night he was telling me he doesnt want to get that test done...=/ i was upset because we agreed he would.
i know he probably doesnt have anything i should worry about, ive known him for years now and he doesnt have any symptoms like hes sick or anything.
i need advice....should i trust him ?
please help me. what is something i could tell him?

2007-03-06 15:30:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-06 15:27:37 · 4 answers · asked by milo2angel 2

My husband and his ex wife have older children. The divorce did not make them friends, nor will they be in the near future. They rarely speak, and I am NOT the favorite of the ex wife (hates me with a passion !!), but our oldest has just informed us that she is having a baby! We are very excited ! Herein lies the problem.
I don't feel that she should have to be the monkey in the middle on the purchases that are made for the baby, or that she should have to choose between us, if we should buy the same things.
So........I thought about a personal page (or something) where updates can be made on the progress of the baby, and a way for the Grandparents (3 sets) to know what the others are buying and don't necessarily have speak. To be able to list out purchases / projections on what they wish to purchase for the baby.
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE !!

2007-03-06 15:24:50 · 2 answers · asked by ne_art1 2

Yesterday night I went home late as went out to entertain customer. Anyway, when I reached home, I heard sound coming out from my sister's room. (usually that time she will be asleep) I was curious and knocked on her door. She opened but was with a towel on only. I looked inside and found her girl friend inside, naked!! I asked what are they both doing, and my sis replied me that they were having sex... I was shocked, as I thought my sis is a 'straight' rather than a lesbian... However, her friend told my sis to ask me in for a 3some. Of course I rejected... I turned and went back to my own room. Came to think of it... I wished I could join them too.. Am I pervert? Is my sis and her friend lesbian? If yes, why would they asked me to 'join'....

2007-03-06 15:06:36 · 7 answers · asked by porridge0000 3

I personally don't think so. What's your take?

2007-03-06 14:53:26 · 30 answers · asked by Tanson 2

people who read this will probably assume that because i mentioned my parents that i am not very old and clearly need guidance. I'm 18 and I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. for right now i feel very much in love (do I plan on getting married? no! do i think this will last through college? i don't know but i will probably give it a chance). Anyway I am well aware that my boyfriend feels equally as strong for me as I do for him, perhaps a little stronger to be honest, but i realize that this relationship has been so important to me in every aspect of my life. my parents have always controlled my life so tightly that I've never been able to really do anything. I have to look, act, and be a certain way all the time when I'm with them I'm stuck being a person that I'm not (this is not the issue here) but when I'm with my boyfriend all I have to be is me. Anyway we were watching a movie (honestly) and my mom walked in. they want to end our relationship completely. help me!!!

2007-03-06 14:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do my sis is perfect its like i cant campare to her):what should i do to become as good as my sis?

2007-03-06 14:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by wamzy 2

i know i cant control how she will feel about it but i dont want her to resent me or treat me different because i got one and she didnt. my hard work has finally paid off and i didnt even know this was coming. i comsider her something like a friend.

2007-03-06 14:39:44 · 10 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6

I was just approached about an hour ago by an old guy in a grocery store. He was drunk and started talking to me about how pretty I was and how he wanted to take me to bed. I was frozen I didn't know what to do. His comments were very very vulgar towards me and i was in shock. He told me that he wanted to put his thing inside me and about 20 minutes worth of comments like that. Eventually I just got him to leave me alone and then just left my cart and went home. I'm so confuzed and feel really disgusted. Why did I sit there and listen to it? Why didn't I do something? Why didn't the people around do something or at least ask if I was okay? I really just need to know what I should do and feel? I've been bawling since and just need someone to talk to. My boyfriend won't be home for a while. Please don't make fun of me I really need someone to talk to. Am I making too big of a deal? He didn't physically harm me or try anything, but I still can't stop crying. Please help.

2007-03-06 14:38:24 · 27 answers · asked by MrsalmostMom 6

Sometimes I notice if a girl looks at you, she'll just have this upset, snotty look. Is that just me?

Oh, and watch it or you'll have me to deal with.

Thanks.

2007-03-06 14:32:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-06 14:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I quite smoking 3 months ago and now I have to deal with my lips being darker then what they where 1 year ago. I have tried everything to get them to lighten up a little. Any one have any suggest? I know that lip stick can cover it up, lip gloss, but please only response if you have something helpful and please no saying you shouldn’t have smoked in the 1st place. I know that but what’s done is done and now I'm smoke free (yeah) and just looking for and help if there is any. Stop smoking is the best feeling ever and no should put the next person down. So remember that before answering.

2007-03-06 14:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So Im tutoring high school kids, I had one new girl last week that I saw, everything seemed to go fine. However I get told by the company that her mum said that they want someone different. Her mum was really picky, she pretty much interogated me on the phone, she kept asking if I thought I would be capable, I kept saying yes it will be fine.

I think she misinterpreted me, I am pretty easy going and laid back and she is picky, uptight and stressed. I think she misinterpreted this as me not really caring about her daughter. Even though I do care, but she is only paying $25 an hour and this is not my fulltime job, she knows I go to uni full time so she cant expect me to be an expert in English, I can just do the best I can, which is what I try to do.

By the way where I live $25 an hour is not much for a tutor, most will charge $50 an hour.

Anyway my question is can people misinterperate being easy going as not caring or capable of handling something?

2007-03-06 14:12:11 · 3 answers · asked by f_jayce 5

i'm looking for a support group my wife had this done and 8 months later dumped me.guys think long and hard about this as it has happened to many of us.i ran into a woman whose husband had it and left her.she better than average looking.i want this doctors to know they are ruining lives and breaking up families.i know i'm living proof and yes i have even thought of suicide.

2007-03-06 14:03:18 · 3 answers · asked by Rob C 1

Right now we have been dating for 3 months and she just moved about 1000 miles for college. I tell her that i love her and i worry about her all the time.Sometimes i feel like i worry too much and in return im some how hurting our relationship.I just wanna know if you can care and worry too much.It just really hurts sometimes not being able to hear her voice and see her anymore.

2007-03-06 13:59:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tseng1018 1

2007-03-06 13:57:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older sister had a dream about my dead father. He told her in her dream he was gonna come back into mine and my little sisters dream and talk to us is that possible?

2007-03-06 13:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-06 13:42:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you change ur lifeview to an optimisitc one? Positive answers please

2007-03-06 13:37:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-06 13:35:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been together for nearly 7 years now and in that time we've had 2 beautiful children. but i think i mite have developed feelings for my male boss as I enjoy spending time with him and have urges whenever we're alone together. I dont no wat to do and i dont want to upset my family. I'm confused!!! HELP!!!

2007-03-06 13:34:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

b/f has trouble keeping an erection, is it me?

2007-03-06 13:23:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok to start off please don't be ***holes about this. I REALLY don't need that BS.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

^This is where my problem started. In short he's 20 I’m 16, we flirted had a great time(for whole story see link above, you may have to copy paste it). Now he's all I can think about, I called and left my number at the gym he works at(again see long version). But now all my friends are like you shouldn't have, you can't go out w/him, don't even think about it. So out of 4 friends 4 have disapproved of me even talking to a guy who is 20. but my mom says to go for it as long as we aren't doing "it." I wanna talk to someone about everything, how I feel, what I’m going to say, what we would do if we went out(like where we would go), but I don't have anyone to talk to and I don't know what to do. *I just wanna go get rid of all these feeling but I can't cause I don't have anyone to tell.* What should I do?

So y'all know I am a FIRM believer in abstinence.

2007-03-06 13:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by zippy7766 1

2007-03-06 13:20:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone I know recently died over the weekend.
He was in my grade, 8th.
But I don't understand...he was there on Friday. Hes...gone now.
I wasn't his friend, but yeah i had talked to him before.
I sat by him in 5th grade.
Its wierd because...your leaving school, and your still young you know? But you have no idea your going to DIE in 5 hours.
then its 4
then 3
then 2
then 1
then theres 5 minutes
and down to 4
3
2
1...
and then. He got into a fourwheeler accident.
I just don't understand. Your heart slows to a beating, which stops.
You suffocate. Or whatever happens, But I teared up at the fact that I knew him, and hes...gone.
I haven't even talked to him lately. But i wasn't mean to him ever. I'm so confused.
I feel like im going to throw up. Why did God call him?
How can his body lay, while him completely gone?!

I DON'T UNDERSTAND.

2007-03-06 13:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by miseryxlane 2

So, can anyone out there tell me why the pain of love always hurts more in the dead of night?????

2007-03-06 13:03:32 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs Squarepants 1

2007-03-06 12:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous