i'm looking for a support group my wife had this done and 8 months later dumped me.guys think long and hard about this as it has happened to many of us.i ran into a woman whose husband had it and left her.she better than average looking.i want this doctors to know they are ruining lives and breaking up families.i know i'm living proof and yes i have even thought of suicide.
2007-03-06 14:03:18 · 3 answers · asked by Rob C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think it's fair to blame that on the doctors or the surgery. Those feelings of wanting to leave,for whatever reasons,had to have been there for some time already. It was probably just the confidence that the significant weight loss from the surgery gave her that finally made her take that step.
2007-03-06 14:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Terri R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself had gastric bypass surgery and went from 284 lbs. to 134 lbs. started working out, got the boobs done and feel great. My 18 year marriage ended about 3 months ago and at first I thought maybe it could be me but come to find out it was the fact that my husband treated me like crap while I was heavy and then tried to control me and watch my every move when I got thin. You stated that "these doctors are ruining lives and breaking up families" maybe its not the doctors, maybe its the way these husbands are treating their wives and maybe we are just tired of feeling 2nd best! I owe everything to my doctor...he gave me my health, happiness and confidence back to know that I no longer needed to feel fat, ugly and ashamed of who I am. I hope that everything works out for you and remember that no broken relationship is worth suicide! Good Luck.
2007-03-06 14:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by mastrnservnt 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aww....it somewhat is unhappy. Is she Bulimic? If not i might take her to the dortor and function the healthcare expert tell her and additionally you approximately whats going to take place is she keeps living this way. And if she trys to exersize what sturdy it would do. does not she have gym type too?? nicely, any-strategies I in simple terms does not shove it in her face that she is Obbese (fats) . attempt to tell her slowly. hi the summer season is comming up! Why not get her into swimming training or in simple terms you and her swimming flow to the closest gym. i don't be attentive to the place you reside yet the place I stay between the wellness golf equipment are loose on Sunday Nights!!! attempt it!!!!!!! along with her eatting the junk nutrition in simple terms tell her no. Get her meals that look and style junky yet are somewhat sturdy for you.!!!!! See if this helps!! I in simple terms examine dissimilar the solutions and it seemes to me which you would be a pretend i'm uncertain yett yet i'm going to save looking....
2016-10-17 11:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋