Right now we have been dating for 3 months and she just moved about 1000 miles for college. I tell her that i love her and i worry about her all the time.Sometimes i feel like i worry too much and in return im some how hurting our relationship.I just wanna know if you can care and worry too much.It just really hurts sometimes not being able to hear her voice and see her anymore.
2007-03-06 13:59:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tseng1018 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean we both say we love each other and care for one another but it really seems like i care soo much more then she does and i want to know if im over doing it some...I plan on saving and moving up there with her near summertime but for the time being i just want to know if im overdoing it.I really love her but i dont want to seem like i worry too much about her..and im not sure if thats a good thing or not!
2007-03-06 14:12:41 · update #1
Love is a tricky and wonderful thing and when you're apart from that loved one it hurts. You did a good thing by telling her you love and worry about her but don't let that become a recurring theme in your conversations. It will make you sound needy and will cause the conversations you have with her be a little deppressing. Just enjoy each her when you do talk, send pictures to each other often, get yourself and her a webcam. Be
creative!!!
2007-03-06 14:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps get some hobbies to take your mind off this from time to time.
obsession with another person is rather destructive.
how long will she be 1000 miles away? and does she intend to come home any time soon? don't you communicate by phone?
perhaps you might consider going out with friends... or dating other people. 1000 miles is quite a distance!
2007-03-06 14:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go to college and don't feed her guilt...that isn't loving..that's codependent and controlling. If you are too overbearing right now during a time of transition she will resent you later on. Make sure you fill your life with other things and try to maintain a balance
2007-03-06 14:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by aroundtheom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never care and worry too much. its hard being away from someone u love.
2007-03-06 14:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by i love youu. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her tell her to send you a picture it will be alright if you care that much.
2007-03-06 14:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can, and tell her how you feel that you worry about her, and leave it at that.
2007-03-06 14:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can! But you have to let her do what she wants.
2007-03-06 14:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋