Someone I know recently died over the weekend.
He was in my grade, 8th.
But I don't understand...he was there on Friday. Hes...gone now.
I wasn't his friend, but yeah i had talked to him before.
I sat by him in 5th grade.
Its wierd because...your leaving school, and your still young you know? But you have no idea your going to DIE in 5 hours.
then its 4
then 3
then 2
then 1
then theres 5 minutes
and down to 4
3
2
1...
and then. He got into a fourwheeler accident.
I just don't understand. Your heart slows to a beating, which stops.
You suffocate. Or whatever happens, But I teared up at the fact that I knew him, and hes...gone.
I haven't even talked to him lately. But i wasn't mean to him ever. I'm so confused.
I feel like im going to throw up. Why did God call him?
How can his body lay, while him completely gone?!
I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
2007-03-06 13:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by miseryxlane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweet child, i am so sorry for your loss. i lost my father 1 week ago, i understand how hard a death can be, but i watched my father suffer many years, praying the good LORD take him, i think death of a young person is shocking the first time it happends, because we do not expect that we could go before we get old. if it helps you think of this GOD always knows what he is doing and why. in the bible it says to be absent from the body , is to be present with the lord, maybe GOD call him home because he needed him, maybe his life would have been suffering and pain in a way the LORD knew he would not be able to stand. if you belive in the good LORD, then you shall also know there is a better place and you will see your class mate once again. it is ok to cry, we all morn the loss of those we loved or just cared for, lean on GOD at this time sweety, have faith and trust his word. may GOD BLESS YOU, YOUR FRIENDS, AND HIS FAMILEY , AMEN.
2007-03-06 13:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by reann4239 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Death is hard...but take comfort that he's gone off to a better place...be thankful that he got the time he did. Would it be worse for a baby to die never know life at all or to die as young as him?
One of my friend's had this younger brother. He was always playing jokes and laughing. He was sweet and full of life. And then one day...when the bus came to pick him up...We think it was one of his jokes...gone bad...he accidently hung himself on his front porch, but no one knew on the bus that morning. It wasn't until his mom came home that afternoon that she saw him...
And I didn't understand either...why this boy so young and joking...and fun...had to leave...and I was in High School... I would have loved to have seen him grow up...but his time was over on Earth...and now he's happily some place else playing jokes on other angels and laughing...he's probably talking to your friend right now and having more fun than we can imagine.
2007-03-06 13:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your classmate was young and died in a very sudden and tragic way. It's hard for anyone to accept or believe and very unnatural. Most of the time people die from illnesses or old age, and it's easier to handle. Maybe you should talk to the school psychologist to help you deal with your feelings.
2007-03-06 13:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a strong question. I am not sure I understand dieing completely but you can not live your life wondering when it is your time. It is ok to be sad about someone you went to school with passed away. Have you tried talking to you parents? It is hard to explain cause I am not sure if you are religious or what your background is so don't want to say to much.
2007-03-06 13:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry for your loss. Fact is none of us are put here to live forever.This is a learning place,and sometimes the LORD says"youve learned enough or you had enough time to learn and your time is up."When our physical bodies die, we leave them.My motto which I later learned the marines came up with was "always be prepared".Anything can happen at any given minute.GOD obviously wanted him.JESUS was preaching once and some people took their kids to HIM so HE could bless them.The disciples(meaning well) said the teacher has no time for this HE is busy with more important adult things!JESUS said"permit the little children to come to me and do NOT hinder them for SUCH is the kingdom of heaven'.GOD loves little children too and wouldnt it be weird in a world with no kids?
2007-03-06 13:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Death is difficult for any age, and I don't even understand it. I'm really sorry you are feeling so bad. All we can do is realize he is in a peaceful place now. I don't know he may have served his purpose here on earth and maybe God needed another angel. That's how I look at things. You take care.
2007-03-06 13:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey no one really understands death at all. I lost my grandmother, my best friends mom in one year a month apart. I have lost friends and family over the years and it gets harder and harder to accept and understand. Surround yourself with good friends that know what you are going through and talk about the memories you have. As long as you have memories he will never die because he will always be in your heart.
2007-03-06 13:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 08:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some nuts will say it is Gods will!
Be be sure of one thing, he will not be the last one you know who will die before their time!
Live YOUR life to the full, because NO ONE knows what is around the next corner!
2007-03-06 13:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand either. i feel sorry for you and al of his friends and relatives. about a month ago an innocent kid got hit by a car and died.
i didnt know him but a friend of mine did. i hate how god cuts some kids lives so short. its really not fair. but it isnt our descion
2007-03-06 13:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋