2007-03-06 13:57:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Chances are your mom is looking for some hapiness right now after her and your father broke up. Your mother is with him because she likes him, so unless this man is treating her wrong or something, I would say you should just let it be. If things aren't mean to be, they will break up. Just think of how upset your mom would be if she lost this man too? I know it must be really hard on you, and you probably want things to be back to what they used to be, but your mom is trying to find happiness, so just try and let her do that. Maybe you should talk to a school councilor or maybe talk to one of your friends that has gone through a similar problem. Most likely they have some good advice to give you.
I hope everything goes okay for you.
2007-03-06 14:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Themi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom and dad are broken up your mom has the right to try and be happy with someone else. So does this person she is dating do something bad to you that would make you want to scare this person away? IF not then no you should leave your mom alone and let her date.
2007-03-06 22:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by tabby_tigger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you have so concerns you should talk to your mom. You need to think about your mom in this situation. I must have been hard on your mom in the break up, she needs this. Let the relationship go its course. But I believe that you have already made up your mind on this situation and go ahead with whatever you are planning no matter what people say.
2007-03-06 22:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Futureguy51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that isn't fair to your mom. It can be hard to deal with when parents split up but you have to look at it this way: It's better than hearing them fight all the time.
Let your mom be happy but also if you REALLY fell that this man isn't right for her sit down and have a talk with her when he isn't around.
2007-03-06 22:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be a very immature and hurtful thing to do. Hopefully you wouldn't want to hurt your Mom and deprive her of a relationship and companionship. Think of it this way, when you bring a guy home that you really like, would you want your Mom to scare him off? You'd be calling her names if she did that I bet. So NO, don't act like a baby and try to scare him off. If it's not meant to work out let it happen on it's own.
2007-03-06 22:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Especially if he makes her happy. Trust me I know its hard to see your parents date but, they deserve happiness. Unless you have good reason to scare him away then I would leave it alone. I tried so hard to scare my moms boyfriend away but he he just stayed and he is still here and he makes my mom so happy. that was 4 years ago and he still hasnt left and i have done some pretty outrageous things.
2007-03-06 22:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom and dad had their differnces, it is nothing against you. Your Dad wants to be happy, and so does your Mom, they just can't be happy together. Would you like it if your Mom SCARED off your boyfreind? Just because she is older, doesn't mean she can't date, and have male friends.
Leave it alone, unless your jealous of your mom.
2007-03-06 22:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is give him a chance and get to know him and if you don't like him then go ahead and scare him away but think about your mom and see if he has something in command with her.
2007-03-06 22:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by wandasouthparkdom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think that by doing this your real Father will come back..your Mother i think has gone through enough hurt without you making it any more worse i'msure she knows whats she's doing and i know that if she's found someone to date it's just what she wants or needs to get her thoughts of thing long gone past so keep your hands and your thoughts to yourself and instead of hindering her life help her with it ..ok
2007-03-06 22:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if your mum aint happy that will inturn make you unhappy. Finding someone is hard so if she has found someone she likes just leave it, dont ruin it for her. How would you feel if she didnt like someone you were dating and caused trouble ?and besides it will just make you look bad, be mature about it and dont be selfish
2007-03-06 22:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋