My step dad's friend constantly gets hookers. Should I do something?

Question

My stepdad's friend gets disgusting hookers. He is from a small town in Northern Michigan and travels to Grand Rapids, Michigan to get "escorts" all the time (about 2 times per month). He has had 17 different girls total. This has been going on for quite some time, and my entire family knows about it. He brags about it , tells his other friends, and even lines other men up with the hookers! He even takes photos of each girl as a trophy.

The problem is, he's married to a woman who has been his wife for thirty something years (he's 60). They had one son, but he died when he was 17. His wife is still completely torn up about her son's death some twenty years ago, so I'm thinking if we say anything to her about the whores, it will destroy her life.

This is very scary because several times he has told my stepfather that the condom broke. I don't think he's afraid of getting a disease or giving one to his wife, which is even scarier.

What should we do?

Answer 1

As bad as this may sound, you need to stay out of their business. Sounds like their is a lot more going on there, more complicated than it seems.

For example, he brags, so his wife probably knows, maybe his wife stopped having sex with him 20 years ago, maybe they have an understanding that you can't yet understand, remember, they are 60 years old.

Just a few ideas, but you have to stay out of it.